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  • Hello there. My name is Lar Ryan and I'm an ex-IELTS examiner.

  • Today, I'm helping outlittle bit here at IELTS Daily.

  • So, today we have Marin from Japan and she's doing a full practice IELTS

  • speaking test. So, let's say you're not fully familiar with the format of the

  • speaking test, or the types of questions that you will get in parts one, two, and

  • three, as well as that. I'm going to give you a little bit more insight into how

  • the examiner thinks. So, I will be analyzing Marin's answers for fluency

  • and coherence, vocab, grammar and pronunciation, and giving you a better

  • idea of what the IELTS examiner is looking for.

  • Hello. Hello. Welcome to this practice exam conducted by IELTS Daily. My name is

  • David and I'm your practice  IELTS speaking examiner.

  • The questions in this test are designed to simulate the IELTS speaking test.

  • Let's start. What's your first  name, please? My name is Marin.

  • At the beginning of the IELTS test, you need to provide some ID usually your

  • passport but as this is a practice test there's no need for this today. Are you

  • ready to begin? Yep, I'm ready. Great. Well, let's talk about birthdays.

  • Do you usually celebrate your birthdays? Yes, I do but, um, I usually have

  • two birthday parties for my birthday. Uh, one for my family and one for my

  • friends. And I

  • actually enjoy my birthday party with my friends because they prepare me a lot of

  • presents and they usually  do like surprise events so

  • it really makes me happy.

  • But also I really enjoy having  birthday party with my family because

  • you know, it's my family, so yeah. So far I'm very impressed with Marin's approach.

  • She's very confident, she's very relaxed, she's got a nice level of fluency, and a

  • lot of accuracy. Jst a few small mistakes with vocabulary so far and

  • those in particular were when she said, 'I actually enjoy my birthday party with

  • my friends.' Now, what that means is she has two birthday parties and she

  • actually enjoys one of them, but that of course is not what she was trying to say

  • because later on you might remember that she said she also enjoys the party with

  • her family. So what she actually meant to say

  • was, 'I actually prefer the party with my

  • friends.' So of course that means she enjoys both of them but the one with her

  • friends is the one she enjoys most. Nice and what did you do to celebrate

  • your last birthday? For last birth, for my last birthday, uh,

  • it was my 17th birthday and I actually got COVID

  • on my birthday so I wasn't able to celebrate my birthday but

  • I think after my, uh, quarantine

  • I, my dad bought me a cake and we

  • did, um,

  • just, just with my family, I did a birthday party.

  • And yeah it was great. Okay. What stands out to me after this

  • answer is that Marin haslovely level of pronunciation.

  • So we don't have what we would call 'flat pronunciation' because she is pronouncing

  • the stressed, the correct  stresses in the sentence.

  • So she said, 'I wasn't able to celebrate my birthday', and for a band seven and

  • higher we're looking for  this sentence stress. So not,

  • 'I wasn't able to celebrate my birthday.' 'But I wasn't able to celebrate my

  • birthday.' And that's the type of thing that will

  • separate a student from getting a band six

  • or a band seven and higher for pronunciation.

  • And what are the most important  birthdays in your country?

  • Most important birthdays, um,

  • like

  • most important... Like what age or what occasion? Oh.

  • Okay. Maybe I think

  • it's, um,

  • 20th birthdays. I guess we

  • celebrate you know, Japanese  people celebrate their

  • 20th birthday because, um, it's like officially saying that you're, you have

  • became an adult. And,

  • uh, they wear traditional Japanese clothes, kimono, and they, uh,

  • have a big ceremony as a huge group, and they take pictures in front of the,

  • uh, the party hall and,

  • yeah. I think that's the most important

  • birthday. So this time we saw Marin struggle a little bit with the question

  • and she didn't actually understand what it means. And really that's not a big

  • problem but you cannot depend on the examiner to

  • explain it to you as David did. In the real IELTS test, so what should

  • you do? Well, instead of just saying 'most important birthdays', 'most important

  • birthdays', you have to ask the examiner directly. So you will say something like,

  • 'what does most important birthdays mean?'  And if you ask, that's no problem. The

  • examiner will explain and it doesn't reduce your score. But it's really

  • important that you ask and don't wait for the examiner to help you.

  • And should children celebrate their birthdays every year with a party?

  • Yeah, I mean, uh, for me I guess I really enjoy having birthday parties not only

  • mine but for my, uh, I really enjoy having birthday parties, uh,

  • with my friends, so, uh,

  • I guess like when you become

  • an adult you don't really get to  meet your family or your friends,

  • um, often so I think the birth, I think birthdays are the best time to gather

  • around and spend some time with your families or friends. So I think it's

  • really, yeah. So this time we saw that Marin needed to

  • pause a little bit and think about what to say. And really that's not a problem

  • at all. This is what naturally happens when we speak in any language. So if you

  • need to pause to think of an idea, don't start to panic, don't worry that your

  • score is coming down really quickly. The truth is that you're thinking of what to

  • say next, that's normal, and as soon as Marin had her idea, you could see that

  • her fluency was back to perfect again. So she did really well not to panic, just

  • give herself a moment to think about what she wanted to say, and then continue.

  • Now, this is a little bit different when you're pausing to think of vocabulary. So,

  • if you're pausing to think of a word, that does reduce your score more than if

  • you're pausing to think of an idea. Now, I'm going to ask you some questions

  • about going out. Where do you like to go out on the

  • weekend? I usually hang

  • around with my friends near my house because I really, uh, I live

  • in the central part of Tokyo, and

  • many, many people

  • come to the central part of Tokyo and they hang

  • around and, and

  • yeah. I also go there a lot, yeah.

  • And what do you like to do when you go out?

  • We, um, we don't actually do much but I, we just

  • go to cafe and we just talk  about our daily stuff, and,

  • um, and then we go to restaurants and we

  • just have, we just have dinner.

  • And just

  • you know, we just talk and talk forever.

  • Yeah. Okay. So this is kind of the start of

  • where we see Marin's fluency is starting to go down a little bit. And the problem

  • really is that she can't think of what to say. Now, you don't need to have very

  • complicated answers but when you can't think of what to say, just go into a

  • little bit more detail about the thing you've already said. So she said that she

  • goes and hangs out in cafes and restaurants with her friends, and

  • basically all they do is talk. Now, that's fine. You don't need to have more things

  • you do, but perhaps Marin could have given a bit more information about the

  • types of things that they talk about, or even the people that she goes with.

  • And where do you most young people like to go out in your country?

  • Um, I guess in Tokyo area many  people, many young people go to

  • Harajuku, Shibuya, Shinjuku, I  guess. And I live in Shinjuku

  • so, yeah I get to

  • go to the famous place, uh,

  • you know, maybe three times a week. Um,

  • yeah and not only Japanese people but many tourists visit those, um, big, big, um,

  • you know, popular cities in Tokyo area, yeah. Now, in relation to grammar, Marin

  • has been doing great so far in that she's using lots of complex structures

  • and she's using them with accuracy. But now it's starting to become apparent

  • that she does have an issue with plurals. Now, in this answer, she said, 'I get to go

  • to the famous place', instead  of the 'famous places.'

  • And earlier she said, 'we go to cafe' instead of 'cafes.' So it's starting to

  • become a little bit obvious that she does have a problem with plurals. However,

  • this does not necessarily mean that she's going to get a low score. It just

  • means that it might prevent her from getting a very high score for grammar.

  • Now, I'm going to ask you  some questions about shopping.

  • Do you like shopping? Yes, I do.

  • But I don't, uh, I don't do,

  • I don't go shopping often but I, I  do online shopping a lot these days

  • because of COVID, I guess. Manyuh, many of my favorite stores,

  • um, closed and, uh,

  • so yeah, I usually do online shopping.

  • Now I'm getting a real feel for Marin's fluency and we can see that she's

  • actually got a really good level. When she uses phrases like 'I guess', what she's

  • trying to think, or she says, 'yeah' to confirm that she's finished speaking. She

  • does it in a very natural way, in the way that a native English speaker would. So

  • that shows that she's got a really high level of fluency and coherence because

  • she's using these discourse markers to communicate extra information to the

  • listener, who is the examiner in this case.

  • What's your favorite shop? I don't have a specific brand that I

  • like but I usually just go through the website

  • and just choose what I want, and yeah. Do you prefer shopping alone or with

  • someone else? Uh,

  • probably alone because as I said, I

  • usually do online shopping. Yeah but sometimes I go out with my

  • friends and I do shopping together, and yeah that's also fun. The final

  • question, you kind of answered that but have you ever bought anything online?

  • Yeah, like 90% of the time I buy stuff online because you know all the,

  • I think these days online shopping malls are really, um, convenient and

  • it's I think it's faster, and,

  • and it's nothing, um, I think it's,

  • I think it's better than actual like you actually going to the store because

  • you can see

  • many brands and you know, at the same time. So,

  • I think it's really time-savingand yeah I think it's...

  • So what happened here is something that happens actually pretty regularly in the

  • IELTS test. And it makes it look like the  examiner isn't listening because David

  • had to ask a question that Marin  had already answered, but the

  • thing is the examiner has a set list of questions. They're not inventing them as

  • they ask them. They're taking them from a special booklet produced by Cambridge.

  • So whether the information has already been given or not, the examiner is still

  • going to ask the next question. So if you think that's a little bit weird, well, it

  • is but you still just have to answer and

  • say something like, 'well as I said', and as Marin did, try to add some extra

  • information to this answer. Okay. Well, in the next part of the test, I'm going to

  • give you a topic and I would like you to speak for one to two minutes.

  • You will have one minute to think about what you want to say and I will give you

  • a pen and some paper to make notes if you want. Is that clear?

  • Great. So here you are, pen and paper. So you have one minute to prepare.

  • Thank you. Now, I would like to you to  talk about parents. Remember, you have one

  • to two minutes for this so don't worry if I stop you. They'll tell you when

  • your time is up. Can you start speaking now? Okay.

  • So since the question was about,

  • uh, describing someone outside your family

  • who's a good parent, so I would like to talk about my sister-in-law and also my

  • brother. Um,

  • so, yesterday I came to Fukuoka and we were

  • on the plane together, and the baby was, um, keep crying on the plane for the

  • for the whole time so, uh, I think it was really,

  • um, distracting for other people but my sister-in-law was really calm with the

  • baby and she never got mad at the babyeven though she was you know whining and

  • she was keep crying and screaming.

  • But I

  • I really thought she was, she was a really,

  • um, calm person and I really, uh,

  • respect her anyway because if I,  if that was, if I was the mother, I

  • would get mad at the baby once, uh,

  • it gets too long, the crying is too long, so yeah.

  • I think

  • yeah, that's all.

  • Okay. If you were in that situation it, how

  • long do you think it would be  before you were frustrated?

  • Um, probably 30 minutes because,

  • uh, I don't know because I, I'm still a

  • teenager. I'm still not fully developed, so

  • I'm like, uh,

  • but still I think she was really, um,

  • she was so patient. I was so surprised because she was so patient with the baby.

  • Yeah. So at this point, I'm starting to get a

  • pretty clear idea of what band scores I would give to Marin. So far, I'm thinking

  • an 8 for fluency, a 7

  • for vocabulary. And she's got a great range of vocabulary. She uses it very

  • naturally and she uses it with a lot of accuracy, but there are a few small

  • mistakes. For example, in part two just there, she said, 'once the crying gets too

  • long', but it would be 'once  the crying goes on too long.'

  • And then for grammar, I'm thinking a band seven. Now, for both grammar and

  • vocabulary, she's getting a seven and she's got a great level. I'm sure you can

  • see that yourself. But to go higher than that again, it requires a lot more range

  • and a lot more accuracy. Now, in relation to grammar, what I heard her say was, 'the

  • baby was keep crying' instead of 'the baby kept crying.' And then, 'she was keep crying

  • and screaming', but again, 'she kept crying and screaming.' So we're seeing small

  • little mistakes like this as well as the ones that we saw previously.

  • Then for pronunciation, I'm thinking it's about band eight because she's got such

  • natural intonation and she's able to really infer her meaning by using the

  • various features of connected speech. So,

  • what we're looking at here is my initial impression and that doesn't necessarily

  • mean that these are the scores she will get. They're still all of part three to

  • go, so they might go up or they might come down, but these are just my initial

  • impressions of what scores she will get. So, we have to listen to part three, we

  • have to see her performance there and then make a final assessment. Uh, I want to

  • stay on the topic of parenting. Do you think people take care of their

  • parents as much these days  as they did in the past?

  • I think, um,

  • when we talk about the Japanese culture, I guess because I'm most

  • familiar with Japanese culture, I think

  • in the past, it was more like, uh, as, um,

  • as you graduate from the universities you need to

  • go to work and, um, you need to

  • take care of your parents as, as soon as you, um, start earning your own money.

  • But like these days, uh, not  only in Japan but I think it's a

  • universal thing, but I think people

  • started to live for themselves  rather than, um, for their parents.

  • So for,

  • I also, I, I also think that I should live for

  • myself rather than me  earning money for my parents.

  • Because, um,

  • well, it's my life and my life  is not just about taking care of

  • my parents just because they took care of me for the past few, um, 10 years, 10, 10

  • or 20 years, so

  • yeah compared to the past, um,

  • I think individualism is really like popular these days.

  • Yeah. Okay, so this is pretty typical in part three because the questions get

  • more challenging, and you can see that Marin really struggled here with ideas.

  • She couldn't think of how to answer the question. Now, initially, she actually did

  • really well. She was able  to take a full 10 seconds

  • to think about what she was going to say. And she used cohesive devices like

  • 'umm', 'I think', 'uh', 'well.' And these types of kind of cohesive

  • devices, noises or words that  will allow the examiner to

  • understand that she's trying to think of what to say.

  • Now, if you just sit there in silence, the examiner won't know that. So this is

  • actually very well done here by Marin. And how do you think communication with

  • parents has changed over the years?

  • I, I guess maybe because of all the social medias and

  • all the internet things, uh,

  • um, specifically teenagers they don't, um, really try to talk to their parents a

  • lot because they're so like focused

  • into their, um, online like internet life. They,

  • they prefer talking to their  online friends rather than talking

  • to actual friends or families.

  • So yeah, I think

  • as people started to think, uh,

  • like you, you're living your life

  • for yourself. Communication also

  • has become more difficult, I guess,

  • like within your own families or close friends.

  • Okay so this is the second question in a row and we can see that Marin is really

  • starting to struggle with what she should say.

  • Now, the impression that I'm getting is that Marin has lots of ideas coming at

  • her but she doesn't know which ones to discuss. So, what I would recommend for

  • Marin here is to just begin by deciding on a clear simple answer to the question.

  • So she might want to begin by saying 'communication has become worse',

  • 'communication has become less  common', or something very simple.

  • And then for the rest of her answer, she would just expand and explain that point.

  • So instead of speaking and kind of coming back to the answer later, start

  • with a clear simple answer. Once you have that done, you can just explain it and

  • develop on that further. Okay.

  • And what happens to children when their parents are too strict?

  • Well, can you repeat the question? Sure.

  • What happens to children when their parents are too strict?

  • Well, for that I would like to mention

  • about the Asian culture. Uh,

  • I think well, it's a little bit, um,

  • stereotypical but, um, Asian  parents tend to make their

  • children, uh, study hard for, so that they can get

  • into good universities. And  therefore they get into good, um, big

  • you know corporations or companies. But I think, um,

  • looking at the recent data, there are  many, um, teenagers, um, committing suicide

  • because their parents are like too,

  • too focused on their education  rather than their, um,

  • like personal lives. So I think

  • if the parents are too strict on their children,

  • it really affects them,

  • um, mentally and also physically.

  • And I feel like it,

  • um, kind of influences their personalities also.

  • So, um, yeah.

  • Okay, so at this point, I'm starting to re-evaluate the band score that I gave

  • for fluency and coherence earlier on. Because this is becoming a pretty

  • consistent pattern where  Marin is just struggling with

  • ideas every single time she's asked a question in part three. So the fluency

  • and coherence score is definitely coming down in my estimation. Now, she might be

  • able to recover by the end of the test but it's not looking likely at this

  • point. Okay.

  • And how can parents educate their children well?

  • That's a hard question.

  • Well,

  • umm,

  • I think communication is

  • the main, the, the main point. Uh, it is

  • really important, um, because

  • for me, I think my family is my comfort zone and

  • so if I don't get to communicate  with them well, I, I would

  • feel really nervous and I will

  • feel uncomfortable.

  • So I think

  • well,

  • I think communication and

  • you know, spending timespending a lot of time with your

  • families is really, really, really important.

  • Uh, yeah. Okay. It's starting to look like

  • Marin is getting a little bit  disappointed with her previous answers,

  • and this is affecting her. And really, it will happen to you in the IELTS test. The

  • purpose of part three is to really push you to your limits and see what you're

  • capable of. That's how the examiner can tell apart a band 8.5 to a 9. He has to

  • or she has to discover  exactly where your limit is.

  • But don't let that phase you. You can't get disappointed and distracted during

  • your test. You just have to focus on each question one at a time.

  • And what happened to Marin here is she didn't actually answer the question she

  • was asked, she started talking, I think  in the middle of it, she even forgot what

  • the question was about. And if that happens to you, don't worry. Just stop, say

  • 'sorry, could you repeat the questionplease?' Maake sure you know what you're

  • talking about and don't just ramble and say whatever words are coming to your

  • mind. Okay. And what is the most difficult

  • thing do you think about being a parent?

  • I think as soon as you become a parent, you

  • have to have a lot of responsibilities,

  • um, like financially and

  • you know, not, not only money stuff but also

  • you need to, um,

  • guide them to the good way  so that they can, they can

  • become, your children can become a good

  • good people, and

  • sorry I forgot the question.

  • Sure. What is the most difficult thing about being a parent?

  • And you probably would

  • have less free time if you have your children because you need to

  • play with them once you get home. So, I think,

  • um, that's a really

  • that's a big part of, big part that  you're like sacrificing. Uh, yeah.

  • All right. Well, thank you. This is the end of  the practice IELTS speaking test. Well done.

  • So earlier on, I told you that I was thinking Marin would get a band eight,

  • seven, seven, eight, so overall, 7.5. But really, the way she struggled so much

  • there in part three didn't do her any justice. So even though she has a very

  • good level of fluency, her inability to answer and develop the questions has

  • definitely brought down her fluency  score. And unfortunately, that also brings

  • down her overall score. So the final scores that we would look at here for

  • Marin would be 7 for fluency,

  • 7 for vocab, 7 for grammarand 8 for pronunciation.

  • In the comments below, make sure to let us know if you've learned anything new

  • or if you're surprised about any of the feedback.

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  • Hello. Hello. Welcome to this practice exam conducted by IELTS Daily. My name is

  • David and I'm your practice  IELTS speaking examiner.

  • The questions in this test are designed to simulate the IELTS speaking test.

  • Let's start. What's your first  name, please? My name is Marin.

  • At the beginning of the IELTS test, you need to provide some ID usually your

  • passport, but as this is a practice test there's no need for this today. Are you

  • ready to begin? Yep, I'm ready. Great. Well, let's talk about birthdays.

  • Do you usually celebrate your birthdays? Yes, I do but, um, I usually have

  • two birthday parties for my birthday. Uh, one for my family and one for my

  • friends. And I

  • actually enjoy my birthday party with my friends because they prepare me a lot of

  • presents and they usually  do like surprise events so

  • it really makes me happy.

  • But also I really enjoy having  birthday party with my family because

  • you know, it's my family, so yeah. Nice and what did you do to celebrate

  • your last birthday? For last birth, for my last birthday, uh,

  • it was my 17th birthday and I actually got COVID

  • on my birthday, so I wasn't able to, uh, celebrate my birthday but

  • I think after my, uh, quarantine

  • I, my dad bought me a cake and we did, um,

  • just, just with my family, I did a birthday party.

  • And yeah it was great

  • And what are the most important  birthdays in your country?

  • Most important birthdays, um,

  • like

  • most important... Like what age or what occasion? Oh.

  • Okay. Maybe I think

  • it's, um,

  • 20th birthdays. I guess we

  • celebrate you know, Japanese  people celebrate their

  • 20th birthday because, um, it's like officially saying that you're, you have

  • became an adult. And,

  • uh, they wear traditional Japanese clothes, kimono, and they, uh,

  • have a big ceremony as a huge group, and they take pictures in front of the,

  • uh, the party hall and,

  • yeah. I think that's the most important

  • birthday

  • And should children celebrate their birthdays every year with a party?

  • Yeah, I mean, uh, for me I guess I really enjoy having birthday parties not only

  • mine but for my, uh, I really enjoy having birthday parties, uh,

  • with my friends, so, uh,

  • I guess like when you become

  • an adult you don't really get to  meet your family or your friends,

  • um, often so I think the birth, I think birthdays are the best time to gather

  • around and spend some time with your families or friends. So I think it's

  • really, yeah. Now, I'm going to ask you some questions

  • about going out. Where do you like to go out on the

  • weekend? I usually hang

  • around with my friends near my house because I really, uh, I live

  • in the central part of Tokyo, and

  • many, many people

  • come to the central part of Tokyo and they hang

  • around and, and

  • yeah. I also go there a lot, yeah.

  • And what do you like to do when you go out?

  • We, um, we don't actually do much but I, we just

  • go to cafe and we just talk  about our daily stuff, and,

  • um, and then we go to restaurants and we

  • just have, we just have dinner.

  • And just

  • you know, we just talk and talk forever, yeah. And where do you most young people like 

  • to go out in your country?

  • Um, I guess in Tokyo area many  people, many young people go to

  • Harajuku, Shibuya, Shinjuku, I  guess. And I live in Shinjuku

  • so, yeah I get to

  • go to the famous place, uh,

  • you know, maybe three times a week. Um,

  • yeah and not only Japanese people but many tourists visit those, um, big, big, um,

  • you know, popular cities in Tokyo area, yeah

  • Now, I'm going to ask you  some questions about shopping.

  • Do you like shopping? Yes, I do.

  • But I don't, uh, I don't do,

  • I don't go shopping often but I, I  do online shopping a lot these days

  • because of COVID, I guess. Manyuh, many of my favorite stores,

  • um, closed and, uh,

  • so yeah, I usually do online shopping. What's your favorite shop

  • I don't have a specific brand that I

  • like but I usually just go through the website

  • and just choose what I want, and yeah. Do you prefer shopping alone or with

  • someone else? Uh,

  • probably alone because as I said, I

  • usually do online shopping. Yeah but sometimes I go out with my

  • friends and I do shopping together, and yeah that's also fun. The final

  • question, you kind of answered that but have you ever bought anything online?

  • Yeah, like 90% of the time I buy stuff online because you know all the,

  • I think these days online shopping malls are really, um, convenient and

  • it's I think it's faster, and,

  • and it's nothing, um, I think it's,

  • I think it's better than actual like you actually going to the store because

  • you can see

  • many brands and you know, at the same time. So,

  • I think it's really time-savingand yeah I think it's. 

  • Okay. Well, in the next part of the test, I'm going to

  • give you a topic and I would like you to speak for one to two minutes.

  • You will have one minute to think about what you want to say and I will give you

  • a pen and some paper to make notes if you want. Is that clear?

  • Great. So here you are, pen and paper. So you have one minute to prepare.

  • Thank you. Now, I would like to you to  talk about parents. Remember, you have one

  • to two minutes for this so don't worry if I stop you. They'll tell you when

  • your time is up. Can you start speaking now? Okay.

  • So since the question was about,

  • uh, describing someone outside your family

  • who's a good parent, so I would like to talk about my sister-in-law and also my

  • brother. Um,

  • so, yesterday I came to Fukuoka and we were

  • on the plane together, and the baby was, um, keep crying on the plane for the

  • for the whole time so, uh, I think it was really,

  • um, distracting for other people but my sister-in-law was really calm with the

  • baby and she never got mad at the babyeven though she was you know whining and

  • she was keep crying and screaming.

  • But I

  • I really thought she was, she was a really,

  • um, calm person and I really, uh,

  • respect her anyway because if I,  if that was, if I was the mother, I

  • would get mad at the baby once, uh,

  • it gets too long, the crying is too long, so yeah.

  • I think

  • yeah, that's all.

  • Okay. If you were in that situation it, how

  • long do you think it would be  before you were frustrated?

  • Um, probably 30 minutes because,

  • uh, I don't know because I, I'm still a

  • teenager. I'm still not fully developed, so

  • I'm like, uh,

  • but still I think she was really, um,

  • she was so patient. I was so surprised because she was so patient with the baby.

  • Yeah. Well, thank you. Uh, I want to

  • stay on the topic of parenting. Do you think people take care of their

  • parents as much these days  as they did in the past?

  • I think, um,

  • when we talk about the Japanese culture, I guess because I'm most

  • familiar with Japanese culture, I think

  • in the past, it was more like, uh, as, um,

  • as you graduate from the universities you need to

  • go to work and, um, you need to

  • take care of your parents as, as soon as you, um, start earning your own money.

  • But like these days, uh, not  only in Japan but I think it's a

  • universal thing, but I think people

  • started to live for themselves  rather than, um, for their parents.

  • So for,

  • I also, I, I also think that I should live for

  • myself rather than me  earning money for my parents.

  • Because, um,

  • well, it's my life and my life  is not just about taking care of

  • my parents just because they took care of me for the past few, um, 10 years, 10, 10

  • or 20 years, so

  • yeah compared to the past, um,

  • I think individualism is really like popular these days. Yeah

  • And how do you think communication with

  • parents has changed over the years?

  • I, I guess maybe because of all the social medias and

  • all the internet things, uh,

  • um, specifically teenagers they don't, um, really try to talk to their parents a

  • lot because they're so like focused

  • into their, um, online like internet life. They,

  • they prefer talking to their  online friends rather than talking

  • to actual friends or families.

  • So yeah, I think

  • as people started to think, uh,

  • like you, you're living your life

  • for yourself. Communication also

  • has become more difficult, I guess,

  • like within your own families or close friends

  • And what happens to children when their parents are too strict?

  • Well, can you repeat the question? Sure.

  • What happens to children when their parents are too strict?

  • Well, for that I would like to mention

  • about the Asian culture. Uh,

  • I think well, it's a little bit, um,

  • stereotypical but, um, Asian  parents tend to make their

  • children, uh, study hard for, so that they can get

  • into good universities. And  therefore they get into good, um, big

  • you know corporations or companies. But I think, um,

  • looking at the recent data, there are  many, um, teenagers, um, committing suicide

  • because their parents are like too,

  • too focused on their education  rather than their, um,

  • like personal lives. So I think

  • if the parents are too strict on their children,

  • it really affects them,

  • um, mentally and also physically.

  • And I feel like it,

  • um, kind of influences their personalities also. So, um, yeah.

  • And how can parents educate their children well?

  • That's a hard question. Uh, well,

  • umm,

  • I think communication is

  • the main, the, the main point. Uh, it is

  • really important, um, because

  • for me, I think my family is my comfort zone and

  • so if I don't get to communicate  with them well, I, I would

  • feel really nervous and I will

  • feel uncomfortable. So I think

  • well,

  • I think communication and

  • you know, spending timespending a lot of time with your

  • families is really, really, really important.

  • Uh, yeah. Okay. And what is the most difficult

  • thing do you think about being a parent?

  • I think as soon as you become a parent, you

  • have to have a lot of responsibilities,

  • um, like financially and

  • you know, not, not only money stuff but also

  • you need to, um,

  • guide them to the good way  so that they can, they can

  • become, your children can become a good

  • good people, and

  • sorry I forgot the question. That's alright,

  • sure. What is the most difficult thing about being a parent?

  • And you probably would

  • have less free time if you have your children because you need to

  • play with them once you get home. So, I think,

  • um, that's a really

  • that's a big part of, big part that  you're like sacrificing. Uh, yeah.

  • All right. Well, thank you. This is the  end of the practice IELTS speaking test.  

  • Well done. Thank you.

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Hello there. My name is Lar Ryan and I'm an ex-IELTS examiner.

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