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  • I don't even like using the word urn to be quite honest,

  • it just sounds a bit morbid.

  • This is a piece of my grandmother that I keep with me all the time.

  • Over the past decade or so, ashes creations have started to appear.

  • I look at it and I just remember all the good times we had.

  • In Classical Greece and Rome,

  • you had both burial and cremation practices taking place.

  • Of course in other parts of the world, traditional aspects

  • in Buddhism - again cremation.

  • Of course the Jews, never cremation, burial normative. Islam, burial.

  • But of course, long before this India was a cremation culture.

  • And once Christianity became established in the UK...

  • ...and that continued really until the mid-19th Century

  • when, with industrialisation and the rise of big towns, big cities,

  • church yards got full fast.

  • The miasmas, the gases that were rising from putrefied bodies

  • were considered to be very unhealthy.

  • The Cremation Society was founded in 1874 by Sir Henry Thompson

  • who was a celebrated surgeon.

  • And he was joined by a number of free thinkers who were drawn

  • from the realms of medicine, science and the arts.

  • Price was really a very flamboyant character.

  • A Welsh nationalist, and self-appointed Archdruid of Wales.

  • Price was arrested, and sent to trial at Cardiff assizes

  • where Judge Stephen ruled that cremation was not illegal,

  • providing it didn't cause any public nuisance.

  • So in 1902...

  • So by the time we get into the 1940s and 50s,

  • something really interesting was happening.

  • You were having women dying

  • who no longer had a husband's grave that they had to go into.

  • So the issue of choice that cremation was now, as it were, on the cards

  • and a possibility, and so about the middle of the 1960s,

  • that Britain flips from being burial majority to cremation majority.

  • It's really extraordinary that the percentage of deaths that resulted

  • in cremation in 1939 stood at 3.5%.

  • And now of course the cremation rate in the UK stands at nearly 80%.

  • From something like the mid-1970s, the British started doing something

  • which many people on the continent to this day find weird.

  • They started taking cremated remains away from the crematorium

  • and doing their own thing with them.

  • Just seems weird to call it an urn to me.

  • I like to think of it as a piece of art

  • that just happens to have my mum and dad inside it.

  • This is a piece of my grandmother, my memorial jewellery

  • that I keep with me all the time.

  • All ashes creations are about keeping our loved ones close.

  • Any memorial is for the people left behind.

  • It's never for the person,

  • it's for us to carry on with that memorial.

  • It's allowed the dead to become part of the furniture of our life.

  • My ashes creation is a tattoo

  • and in it includes the ashes

  • of my late partner who passed away two and a half years ago.

  • A small number of people choose to have ashes mixed into tattoo ink.

  • He was my friend and I also got a tattoo.

  • And their bodies are literally mingled together.

  • As chair of The Cremation Society, I will naturally choose to be cremated.

  • I think my daughter will have me incorporated into a vinyl record

  • because I love music, maybe something by the Beastie Boys.

  • I do not belong to the tattoo generation.

  • I don't think there's enough room in there to fit me in with them.

I don't even like using the word urn to be quite honest,

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