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- Hey guys, I'm here with my good friend Ani Easton Baker,
former educator turned documentary filmmaker.
You made a documentary called
"Who's Your Teacher?"
that you've been working on for quite a bit.
- I did.
(both laughing)
- I honestly really love this doc!
So you showed a cut to me
asking me for some notes and stuff
and I just thought it was so important and so needed,
you know, a documentary about the lack of Sex Education
in the school system right now.
I mean, I can definitely speak from experience.
I thought getting pregnant meant,
like, putting your nipples on somebody else's nipples.
The first time I masturbated I used a banana
'cause that's what I saw on TV and in film,
but I used a condom,
so I felt like I was having safe sex.
- I was gonna ask.
- Ani is also doing an entire series after this
about Sex Education.
I really loved this documentary
and honestly, I thought that you guys would love it as well.
So without further ado: WHO'S YOUR TEACHER?
- Okay.
So.
This is a compilation
of some questions that some 5th graders
in a Sex Ed class
wrote down and put into the question box
that their teacher set up for them.
I'm just gonna read some of them out loud because they are
both frightening and extremely entertaining.
"Is it danger to have a big breast
and the other small?"
Good question, the answer is no.
"What's pussy?"
"Where do the boys have to put their peanuts
when they do sex?"
"Why do the boys peanuts gets up?"
"Sex is sucking penis."
This one is written in all caps,
"SEX IS SUCKING PENIS.
WHY DO GIRLS HATE THIS."
Period.
"OUR YOU PREGNANT"
(upbeat music)
"Why is your pubic hair curly?"
"Can a dog have sex with a human girl?"
"Why is sex important?"
"If a girl has her period and she has sex
what happens to her?"
"What happens if you see a condom..."
"Why do boys get more power to do the sex?"
(questions overlapping)
"Is sex the most dangerous thing in life?"
That's my favorite one.
(upbeat music)
I would like to envision a world in the future
where there is a mandatory class in every grade level
that just teaches people how to be people.
And I don't think we should call it Sex Ed.
In 2016, after years of frustration
with the public school system,
I gave up my teaching position to explore the ways
that our nation's Sex Education is lacking.
Heavy on my mind was a question
about how a lack of comprehensive Sex Education,
combined with full access to information online,
was shaping our nation's youth.
Everyone's afraid of the word "sex,"
take it out of the equation
and call it Human Relations and start it in Kindergarten.
Because as a teacher,
I
saw firsthand
how there is literally absolutely no education
for people on how to be people.
And what they can and can't do
with all of their like,
raging feelings and anxiety
and fear and insecurity and hormones. All of that stuff,
how we relate to each other, later on becomes sexuality, it
definitely doesn't start as sexuality.
Why would you not want
your children or our nation's children to be more informed
about what to do and what not to do with their bodies?
Because the feelings are natural
and they're going to happen
whether we educate them or not.
Teachers and parents
are no longer the primary source of information,
as it goes right now.
Kids are just using the internet to find out
about their curiosity about sex.
Interestingly enough, I started this project
like a year before the #MeToo movement started to unfold.
Every single story that I saw break
during the #MeToo movement
struck me as
the by-product of
lack of education.
And I think the people that are afraid
of more education are just also victims
of being undereducated themselves.
The more information from educated professionals the better.
Sex Ed, or as I'm now going to refer to it from here on out:
Human Relations,
is not going to
create an interest inside of a person
that doesn't already exist.
Sex right now, the topic of sex is so taboo
and treated with such shame and fear
that it becomes a fear-based
vitriolic, ugly topic.
(upbeat music)
So, when I started working
on this project a couple of years ago,
I started, I set Google alerts for Sex Ed laws in America
and Sex Education
and started compiling some articles
that were pertinent to the topic
and just sort of reading
about how people felt across the nation,
other teachers, parents, students.
This conversation is
happening
everywhere.
There are a lot of pushes toward better Sex Ed.
There are a lot of pushbacks,
specifically by our current administration
who wants to go back to "abstinence only,"
but it's definitely a hot topic right now.
"Sex Education Allows Campus Betterment, Studies Show"
"Are We Lying In Sex Ed Class?"
I have found the answer to that question to be Yes.
Believe it or not only 24 states make Sex Ed mandatory
and only 13 of those states
require that their Sex Ed be medically accurate.
Beyond that, when researching whether or not
the current curriculum includes LGBTQ+ issues,
I found very disappointing results.
One of the articles that I came across
really stood out to me
because it was written by a French adult film star,
her name's Nikita Bellucci.
She says, she's "fed up with educating kids online"
and "she fumes over families lacking Sex Ed."
And she basically goes on to say that
because there's such a lack
of appropriate and comprehensive information,
she's been thrust into the role
of pseudo educator.
And she gets messages from young people all the time
asking her questions like,
"I want to do this, how do I go about it?"
Or, "This is happening to my body,
can you give me information about that?"
Because she's not afraid to talk about sex
and people in the school system
who are supposed to educate are afraid.
There is a profound lack of information across the nation.
Young people are educating themselves about sex by Googling.
And since porn comes up when you Google sex questions,
adult film stars are becoming educators
whether they choose to or not.
So I reached out to six adult film stars directly
about the types of internet messages they receive
from undereducated young people.
We also talked about what their own Sex Education was like
and about what they think
about the state of Sex Ed in America right now.
(keyboard clattering)
- A lot of people reach out to me
for information because I work in the sex industry.
I've had people that I've gone to school with,