Name: Why Are You Still Single? (And Other Questions To Keep To Yourself)
Uploaded: 2022-03-26T16:50:27.000Z
Duration: 6 min 49 s
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But your girl she vaccinated and she actually went out for brunch with a friend.

And you know, I feel like we've all been collectively just dying to socialize with other humans and hug our friends and party.

But what I did not anticipate is just how hard it was to socialize again.

But how have you been you know, just reliving the same day since March.

I mean, you know, there's no real news to report.

No, I, I tried, you know the apps, that whole thing.

Um Well, I guess I'm single because well when we're in a global pandemic and I can't meet anybody new.

Um But also I am trying to intentionally not get into relationships built on trauma bonds anymore.

But I mean like you're such a catch that it's crazy that nobody wants me.

I clearly I'm defensive about this topic.

Mm hmm Oh um I saw on instagram that you and your twin spoke up about the abuse and the really toxic set with James franco good for you guys?

It's just, we just thought, why are we protecting him?

Um, I don't really want to talk about that over mimosas.

Like people are always prying into my sister's suicide and it's like, wait, how did she die?

Well let me just reliving my trauma at 11 AM.

But can you add avocado, put the dressing on the side and give me an ice cream tea.

So you were telling me how your sister died?

When are you and your husband finally having kids?

That's not the compliment that you think it is.

No, like where are you really from casa Dina?

Not nearly as much as the internet thinks I do.

Are you ever self conscious about your nose?

Has anyone ever called you a bit many times?

Yeah, I'll send you a link in 20 minutes.

It wasn't that awkward but there was definitely a sense of like whoa, we have forgotten the nuance of when it's appropriate to ask what and it makes sense.

You know, we're all starving for connection so badly.

But the line between curiosity and wanting to connect versus overstepping and being insensitive is very thin one.

And my brunch with my friend made me examine the times in my life where I have been confronted with this exact line like oh my God, I remember in the before time I knew this woman through work and the last time I had seen her she was pregnant.

And then when I ran into her again at a party, she wasn't.

She just it was clear what happened in that look.

So I just quickly changed the subject and carried on wow.

But it made me think about in those moments how we have two choices.

We should keep to ourselves did you have a miscarriage or was it an abortion?

Which by the way I've read on reddit that actual women have been asked this ship, can you believe it?

The second option which I think you should take and which I took is to take the q read the room change the subject and save the other person from having to explain themselves.

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