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  • - So I have this white friend who is,

  • as the title dares to suggest,

  • kinda racist.

  • There have been microaggressions...

  • - Oh my god, I am totally darker than you.

  • I could be Asian.

  • Look, I could be Asian.

  • I could totally be Asian.

  • Look.

  • - As well as some macroaggressions...

  • If you wanna act, you absolutely should act.

  • - Yeah, but if I decide to go into acting,

  • I'm just gonna take away so many parts from women of color,

  • (record scratches)

  • and I don't wanna do that.

  • - That's, um.

  • (splutters)

  • - And some things that are just, well...

  • - Oh wow, what's your background?

  • - I'm a mutt.

  • I'm just a mix of so many different backgrounds

  • and cultures and tribes as well.

  • - What? Dude, no you're not.

  • You're white.

  • You are straight up white.

  • 100% whitey here.

  • You are straight up whi-

  • - With everything going on in the world

  • and the rise of Asian hate,

  • I just feel like I really can't keep quiet

  • about this anymore.

  • Look, my friend,

  • to be clear-

  • great person.

  • She is a good person,

  • but she's kind of racist.

  • And I think that describes a lot of people:

  • good, inherently good,

  • but kind of racist.

  • And it's especially heartbreaking

  • because I know she's trying really hard.

  • She told me...

  • - I joined a white girl book club.

  • We're focused on educating ourselves about race issues

  • so that we don't have to have our BIPOC friends

  • do the labor for us.

  • (dings)

  • - And I believe she genuinely wants to do good,

  • but in order to do good,

  • we also have to acknowledge the fact

  • that there's a specific racism among white people:

  • Exotification.

  • White people who are pretending to be people

  • of color when it's convenient and profitable for them.

  • Like, white women who want to be seen as more ethnic

  • because they hold the racist belief

  • that being ethnic is "exotic" and sexy.

  • White men who want to be seen as more urban

  • to make them seem edgy and cool.

  • White people who want to try on our looks and our culture,

  • but discard the struggles that come with our identities

  • and treat our skin color like an accessory

  • or as an aesthetic.

  • And what I've come to realize is that racism is evolving.

  • It's more nuanced.

  • It's more subtle.

  • It's always been pretty systemic, but now it's also sneaky.

  • So, for example,

  • we know cultural appropriation is bad.

  • And when we think of "bad cultural appropriation",

  • we think of what?

  • White girls wearing Native American costumes for Halloween.

  • But do you also think of how a non-black person

  • wearing a black hairstyle is racist?

  • So, I had some friends who were white

  • who went to Burning Man and decided to wear cornrows

  • and got called out by the Black community.

  • They got very defensive and they were like

  • "This is to protect my hair.

  • "I should be able to wear my hairstyle

  • "in a way that's going to protect it."

  • But the Black community pointed out the inherent problems

  • with this decision and this argument.

  • And I admit, I did not fully understand this evolution

  • of racism until I saw Amandla Stenberg's 2015 video essay

  • "Don't Cash Crop On My Cornrows"

  • in which she examined the parallel rise of Black culture

  • being appropriated in the music industry

  • by white artists and being lauded for it

  • alongside the rise of police brutality against Black people.

  • - Police brutality against Black people

  • came to the forefront

  • in an incredible movement ignited by the murders of

  • Trayvon Martin, Michael Brown,

  • Tamir Rice, Eric Garner, and many others.

  • People began to protest institutionalized racism by marching

  • and by using social media.

  • Celebrities spread awareness and shared condolences,

  • or at least some did.

  • - And this disparity, how some people take so much

  • from Black culture, but refuse to stand

  • up against the racism that comes with it,

  • is where the issue with cornrows

  • and other forms of cultural appropriation lies.

  • So, black and brown bodies are used as props.

  • Their culture adopted to seem edgy,

  • and white people profit

  • off this image without any obligation to deal

  • with the struggles that that culture faces like, seriously.

  • Some people are out here wearing a grill

  • but they can't tweet or donate

  • or march on behalf of Black Lives Matter.

  • Stenberg also has a crystal clear, amazing definition

  • of when what we're witnessing is cultural appropriation.

  • - That itself is what is so complicated when it comes

  • to Black culture.

  • I mean the line between cultural appropriation

  • and cultural exchange is always going to be blurred

  • but here's the thing,

  • appropriation occurs when a style leads

  • to racist generalizations or stereotypes where it originated

  • but is deemed as high fashion, cool,

  • or funny when the privileged take it for themselves.

  • - So it's not that white women can't dress

  • up as Native Americans or wear cornrows or dreads.

  • The problem is two-fold.

  • The first issue being when the creators of the culture

  • are seen in a racist light,

  • but the person doing the adopting is praised for it.

  • It's like if someone copied my essay word for word

  • including "written by Anna Akana"

  • and then I got an 'F' and they got an 'A+'.

  • And we can't deny that Black women who wear Black hairstyles

  • are vilified for it.

  • They are discriminated against in the workplace

  • and the world.

  • I witnessed firsthand on a pretty big movie.

  • This black actor was yelled at because her hair frizzled

  • when it rained and the white hairstylist demanded

  • that she come to set with her hair fully straightened.

  • And she didn't understand

  • that my co-star did that every single day.

  • She woke up two hours before her call time

  • every single day to straighten her hair,

  • but obviously rain is going to f**k with Black hair.

  • And even though my white friends who did go

  • to Burning Man are good people,

  • they can't wear cornrows without acknowledging

  • that they're going to be thought of as cool

  • while the same people who need that hairstyle

  • as a method of maintenance are being thought

  • of as unprofessional, ghetto,

  • trashy, or thugs.

  • The second issue is if you are taking

  • from a culture that you're actively silent

  • about in times of that culture's need,

  • thereby, only using it when it benefits you.

  • So for me, it's like if a Weebo who's obsessed

  • with anime and Kawaii culture decided

  • to do a photo shoot where she dressed up

  • as a Japanese geisha, and when I ask her,

  • "Hey, when you post that photo,

  • "can you please maybe consider

  • "using the hashtag #StopAsianHate

  • "because Asian hate crimes are at an all time high

  • "and clearly you love Asian culture?

  • We could use your voice."

  • And instead of doing that, they decided to block me

  • and post their photo with #ilovesushi or something.

  • So, the answer to cultural appropriation

  • is first respect the culture,

  • understand the context of what you're adopting,

  • give appropriate recognition,

  • and please actively be anti-racist.

  • And I know it sounds like a lot, but really it's not.

  • You probably put way more effort into

  • choosing a filter or thinking of a funny tweet.

  • This is like the bare minimum we should be doing, bro.

  • And you know, you can appreciate and immerse yourself

  • in a culture with compassion for its historical context

  • without trying to benefit off of it

  • when the originators are oppressed,

  • and without pretending to be from it.

  • Which brings me to another issue.

  • So, we all know that blackface and yellowface

  • are bad, right?

  • We as a society recognize,

  • oh no, no, no, no.

  • We don't do that anymore.

  • But blackface and yellowface have sorta died

  • and given way to a new sneaky monster: blackfishing.

  • I remember the first time I found out about blackfishing.

  • - Wait, are you telling me

  • that Ariana Grande is not mixed race?

  • - Oh no, that girl's Italian and talented.

  • - Alright, her voice is to die for.

  • But seriously, she looks like she's half Black, half Latina.

  • - Look at her before picture.

  • - (gasps) Oh my sweet, spaghetti-loving baby Jesus.

  • - And blackfishing just blows my mind.

  • It's like these women were like,

  • "Oh yeah, no, blackface is bad,

  • so we're just gonna go full black body."

  • There's so many blackfishes,

  • I can't even begin to list them all.

  • Like, look at this.

  • Look at this montage.

  • It keeps going.

  • It's insane.

  • Imagine having white privilege

  • and this is what you do with it.

  • Of course, the most famous blackfishers

  • are the Kardashians.

  • And Kim is going for two-for-one with her cornrows here.

  • I mean, who says you can't be an efficient racist.

  • And I think that inherent issues with blackfishing

  • are pretty obvious, right?

  • These women, often influencers or celebrities,

  • are altering their appearance in order to present as black

  • or brown to capitalize, monetize,

  • and fetishize an aesthetic which mind you,

  • dark skinned women and men are already shunned for.

  • And to make matters worse,

  • blackfishes effectively take attention away

  • from already oppressed, actual Black or Brown creators.

  • Blackfishes are commodifying someone else's skin color.

  • - Looking Black, but still exotic is profitable.

  • And I'll be the first person to say, you know,

  • colorism is real.

  • It's bad.

  • And I am someone of lighter skin.

  • I am someone who benefits from colorism,

  • and I am well aware that there's people

  • who are darker than me

  • who have to work twice as much as I will in certain fields.

  • - Annie Nova made a video

  • about the differences between blackface and blackfishes.

  • Her main point being blackface, you know,

  • in a historical context, it's usually played

  • as a caricature with intent to mock

  • that contemporaries nowadays are apparently doing

  • as like one-offs and jokes.

  • Whereas, blackfishing is this more consistent look

  • that someone's committing to deceive people.

  • But Nova also acknowledges both

  • of these things are equally problematic.

  • One of the main issues being that white people posing

  • as POC are taking advantage of affirmative action

  • thereby further oppressing an already marginalized group.

  • - The example I can think of,

  • with the damage these girls are causing

  • to other Black people is Rachel Dolezal.

  • She went to Brown University,

  • and that's a predominantly Black university.

  • She actually ended up getting funding

  • and scholarships literally aimed for Black people.

  • That scholarship was meant to help a less

  • fortunate Black person wanting to study.

  • Not only did she take up a place

  • at this university that could have gone

  • to an actual Black person,

  • because when she was applying

  • she was portraying herself as a black person.

  • And if she needed a scholarship, she could have applied

  • for one that wasn't aimed and created for Black people.

  • - So my white friend actually took a role designated

  • for a woman of color and it was not an easy conversation.

  • So, on top of pointing out the moral implications

  • of taking a role designated for an actual WOC,

  • I pointed out the potential blow-back she would get

  • if her career blew up and people found out about this.

  • It was in her best interest not to take a role

  • where the character is clearly a different race.

  • And I, as her friend,

  • didn't want her to get canceled.

  • And honestly, I don't think it's that hard.

  • Just don't take on roles that are meant for women of color.

  • Unfortunately, she did not listen.

  • And now she's in a film misrepresenting herself.

  • And unfortunately, sometimes it's not even

  • like your friends deciding to co-opt a body

  • but white audacity sometimes will co-opt an entire identity,

  • like when white poet Michael Derrick Hudson

  • used Chinese pen name, Yi-Fen Chou,

  • as an act of yellowface to get published.

  • Hudson claimed that he submitted his poem "The Bees,

  • "The Flowers, Jesus, Ancient Tigers,

  • "Poseidon, Adam and Eve"

  • to 40 literary magazines under his own name,

  • and then to other publications

  • under his pseudonym, Yi-Fen Chou,

  • who by the way is actually his Chinese American

  • high school classmate.

  • So, the poem under Yi-Fen's name was considered

  • for inclusion in the 2015 edition

  • of The Best American Poetry Anthology series.

  • And after learning about its selection,

  • Hudson wrote to reveal "Hi, I'm not actually

  • an Asian woman!"

  • He said, "After a poem of mine has been rejected a multitude

  • "of times under my real name, I put Yi-Fen's name

  • "on it and send it out again as a strategy

  • "for 'placing' poems this has been quite successful for me."

  • Okay, Michael Derrick Hudson.

  • So, this is just something that you do.

  • This is not the first time.

  • Okay, gotcha.

  • Continue.

  • "The poem in question was rejected

  • "under my real name 40 times before I sent it out

  • "as Yi-Fen Chou.

  • "I keep detailed submission records.

  • "As Yi-Fen, the poem was rejected nine times

  • "before Prairie Schooner took it.

  • "If indeed, this is one of the best American poems of 2015,

  • "it took quite a bit of effort to get it into print,

  • "but I'm nothing if not persistent."

  • (exaggerated exhale)

  • There's so many things wrong with Hudson's statement

  • and who he is as a person that I don't even know

  • if I can begin to get into deconstructing it.

  • And a lot of people have, trust me.

  • But the things I do want to note are what Alexander Chee,

  • a Korean American poet and author said,

  • which is that Hudson not once had been asked to offer proof,

  • nor apparently is proof available to his claim

  • that his poem was rejected 40 times under his own name.

  • And for someone who keeps detailed submission records,

  • where are the rejection letter receipts?

  • Second, and more importantly I think,

  • He did not have Yi-Fen Chou's permission to do this.

  • So, not only was this pretty racist and audacious

  • but it's personal.

  • And I've had friends just like Michael Derrick Hudson

  • who have told me in earnest,

  • - You're so lucky you're Asian.

  • It's so hard for a straight white man to make it

  • in the entertainment industry.

  • No one wants us.

  • - Hell, even my racist friend felt this way about my career.

  • And there are a lot of white people

  • in my circle who think that my skin color,

  • to be clear, something I've cried over.

  • Something I've hated with my whole being

  • and wished desperately was white.

  • Something that I struggle with endlessly

  • in this patriarchal society is something to envy

  • because it's trendy right now and Crazy Rich Asians came out

  • so obviously racism doesn't exist anymore.

  • And my friends who are so privileged

  • that any sort of equality to them feels like oppression.

  • And so they do insane shit like everything I've been talking

  • about in this video.

  • Well, not everything.

  • Hopefully not everything.

  • So what do you do when you have a friend who is

  • kind of racist, or let's be real,

  • several friends who are kind of racist?

  • Well, in some instances I have let these friends go

  • after conversing and realizing they're not quite

  • willing to change or acknowledge this.

  • Others, I've educated and watched grow and I've held onto.

  • And you can only determine this on a case by case basis.

  • all the friends I have in my life right now

  • are actively working at detangling the racial bias

  • that society has taught them.

  • They're open to hearing when they've done something wrong,

  • and they work to change any behavior that's problematic.

  • So, if they're a friend worth having,

  • even if they're a little racist,

  • there's some hope.

  • I'm Anna Akana

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