Name: 6 Reasons We Self Sabotage
Uploaded: 2022-05-01T00:27:56.000Z
Duration: 6 min 9 s
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Adverbs of manner

we all know someone who is active or passively

Reflexive pronouns

Whether that's in areas of relationships and dating,

in business, when it comes to money, friendships,

the opportunities for self-sabotage in your life

is a behavior that's like almost invisible.

- Anna no, don't shoot yourself in the foot!

my deepest desire is to be a track runner!

I want it more than anything in the world!

We recognize the symptoms of self-sabotaging too, right?

Like classic behaviors of it are so recognizable

- Hello ladies, welcome to Restaurant McSaboteur.

are Drowning In a Stew of Self Pity (with cilantro)

Impulsive Spending That Leads to Financial Ruin

Performing Below My Capabilities On Purpose,

- Oh, I will take Comfort Eating, Interpersonal Conflict

I will also have the Impulsive Spending Special

with a side of Constant Self-Sacrifice For Others

But what is the root cause of self-sabotage?

'Cause we can identify the behaviors all we want,

So hopefully, there's a personal attack incoming soon.

I just wanna be normal like everyone else.

This isn't a YA novel where your emotional arc

goes from nonbeliever to believer in your own capabilities.

If you don't want or think you deserve magical powers,

- Two - We focus on instant gratification

I posted an Instagram photo every single day last month.

- But a picture is worth a thousand words.

Three - We have seen self-sabotage modeled in our family.

No one in this family is ever gonna amount to anything

- Four - We're afraid of rejection or failure

- I know, but in comparison to the average lifespan

Divorce rates, guys, let's think about this.

Five - We feel more in control when we're engaging

with familiar patterns, even if they're harmful.

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6 Reasons We Self Sabotage

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