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  • We live in the biggest metropolitan area in the world, and our family is bigger than most others.

  • Tokyo is not made for big families, so how do we make it work?

  • Hey - I just saw the camera!

  • Yeah, that's my daddy's camera. He makes videos with it.

  • [Life in Japan Theme Song]

  • Well are you talking with Aiden?

  • He's having a phone play date with his best friend Aiden.

  • You have to hold it so he can see it.

  • Can you hold it? Oh, you want me to hold it?!

  • OK, here we go.

  • Our houses, like most homes in Japan, is made for 2-4 people.

  • With six people living here, we've had to get creative in how we use our space.

  • Well this is it, this is a big day...

  • We are finally getting rid of our bed which we've had for a couple of years

  • It's not even really a bed, it's a sofa that we bought so we could use this as my studio

  • And then use it as our bedroom at night.

  • Alright, here it is. It's time, it did it's service,

  • Sayonara Sayonara

  • It is done.

  • We just got our special delivery. Check this out.

  • Mattress, chair — you can't even get in the door!

  • There's the old one. Alright!

  • How's it going here?

  • It's going. I've got the headboard almost put together.

  • Oh, alright.

  • I'm sweating!

  • Look at this! Putting the final touches on!

  • Oooo, wow!

  • The kids asked for a couple of more minutes before going to bed

  • If they could watch something in mom & dad's room and what did I find?

  • [TV Narrator] But perhaps it's not surprising to find strange creatures in places like this...

  • And if you noticed that things look different it's because that for the first time in three years

  • My wife finally has her own bed in her bedroom!

  • We've moved the studio out — we got a separate place for the studio, it's awesome!

  • I should also mention that her bed is my bed — we share the bed!

  • Sharing space has been key for us fitting our large family in this small space.

  • But it's only been recently that I've been able to have a dedicated work space that wasn't at home.

  • This is my new morning commute. It's just a couple minute walk from my house. I love it.

  • Having a separate space for work has been a real game changer, one that has directly improved the quality of my time at home and at work.

  • But good home life is more than how nice your house is or how much prestige your address has.

  • A healthy home is built on a foundation of love.

  • Dude! What?! Look at that!

  • You can take [the bandage] off now.

  • You can take it off now?!

  • That is awesome, Dude! Way to go!

  • Somebody asked the question "Is it always so sunny and bright there? It always looks so beautiful."

  • Well that's because I usually only take pictures of the beautiful days.

  • Here's the sunrise today. Can you see the sun? No, neither can I.

  • It's still a beautiful day though.

  • A big family isn't a hindrance to a happy home, it's the culmination of a happy home.

  • A house full of love is one full of special everyday moments.

  • This is the kind of home environment that makes life rich and rewarding.

  • [Becca] Joshua, let's do a dance fight? [Anna] Hey camera...

  • Hi!

  • Oh, camera... What?!

  • The camera doesn't talk! Oh, you want Daddy to talk?

  • Joshua! What is happening today?

  • I'm going to school...

  • You're going back to school for the first time in — three weeks or so?!

  • Yeah! Whoa Dude.

  • Look at Student Sarah! Alright Student Sarah.

  • How's the math going? Good.

  • This is what I call the "Sarah Zoom." Ready?

  • What's the Sarah Zoom? 1, 2, 3

  • No!

  • Oh, is that the Sarah Disappearing Trick?!

  • [Joshua] That is.

  • Are you working on your big rollercoaster? Yeah.

  • Whoa Dude, this is going to be an intense rollercoaster. Look at that thing!

  • Holy cow!

  • It goes over Peach. Oh it sure does!

  • What are the things we've found on our way to school? A spider web that caught some rain...

  • And look at this little snail we came across. Wow!

  • He's dead. No he's not!

  • He's not dead!

  • You can't have a happy family without giving proper focus or attention to it, but when you do, the results speak for themselves.

  • Hey Dude! Hey.

  • How was your first day back to school? Good?

  • Was everyone so happy to see you? Yeah.

  • I even hugged the teacher. You hugged the teacher?

  • And the teacher hugged me so hard also.

  • And now we're going to do a picnic!

  • You're going to do a picnic? Yeah

  • In the box here?! Yeah.

  • Oh wow, that's an interesting picnic.

  • [Girls speaking in Japanese]

  • I can hear the girls outside, they don't know I'm here though.

  • There's a bunch of thing we like to do together as family

  • One of them is to go to our favorite mall together!

  • Northpour

  • Northport. Try it again!

  • Northpooouurrr what?

  • Northport!

  • North- Northport! Daddy, put that...

  • Daddy, put that on Life in Japan where Becca messed up.

  • That's so funny!

  • It's not "Northpour" it's North...

  • PORT

  • Northport — at Northport mall.

  • Let's go! Guess where Joshua had his lunch?

  • In the box. In the box.

  • Right down in there — look! There's the proof.

  • Let's go Dude, common OK, turn off the camera.

  • [Girls singing] "A whole new world, a new fantastic point of view..."

  • [Still singing] No one to tell us no, or where to go...

  • Learning to balance work and family is just as important as learning to handle your finances.

  • If anything gets out of whack, things go downhill fast.

  • Each family must find a good balance that works. When we can, our family enjoys shopping together.

  • Oh Dude, going up!

  • At the mall! At the mall.

  • We have a number of favorite stores like Daiso and Book Off where we you can find what you need at a good price.

  • These are usually the first places we go whenever someone needs something, which seems like all the time.

  • Dinnertime! Oh yes! Yum yum yum yum.

  • Sarah is just about to start multiplication...

  • Girls, how does multiplication work in Japanese?

  • 5 x 1 = 5 5 x 2 = 10

  • 5 x 3 = 15 5 x 4 = 20

  • 5 x 5 = 25 5 x 6 = 30

  • 5 x 7 = 35 5 x 8 = 40

  • Wow! What a beautiful sunrise today.

  • And Big J's with me to see it, huh?! Yeah!

  • Did you just wake up? Yeah.

  • Establishing healthy rhythms for your family is essential for getting the most out of each day.

  • There should be time for work, study, play and relaxing.

  • A family in the city has to fight hard to maintain this healthy balance.

  • Joshua, are you in your study box?

  • And you're working on your J's!

  • Who has a "J" in their name? Me!

  • You! Ah, sweet!

  • [Becca practicing piano]

  • Do you like our huge couch here?

  • This is in the entryway until garbage day comes and we can finally throw it out

  • Until then, it's just like a big guest that stays too long.

  • Is that what that is?

  • An important part of our family rhythm is church life, and we love it.

  • Check it out, we're getting ready!

  • Paz Church tomorrow will be meeting not only online like it normally does

  • But at 11:15 we're having an in person service here at the coffee shop.

  • It'll be awesome. If you're around, please come!

  • Less than one week ago, we were using air conditioners, and then a cold snap

  • And now it's time for heaters and sweatshirts and everything Fall that I love.

  • Ruth and her friend Aiya made some pumpkin bars that I get to have with my coffee this morning.

  • Oh man, what a great morning! Starting off like this!

  • Hey girls, what happened today? It's so cold! It's freezing!

  • It's so cold, huh? It's just like winter.

  • It feels like winter! What happened?

  • This is a big moment — literally, a big moment!

  • Take out the garbage.

  • We have our oversized garbage stickers

  • Which lets us know that we have paid and you can take this junk out.

  • Seasons change to a rhythm, and so do the phases of life.

  • When it's time for a new phase to come, celebrate the old phase and then send it on it's way.

  • What's going on up here? Are we having breakfast?

  • Cherry, orange, blueberry, strawberry and pineapple...

  • Anna, are you working on your own manga?

  • Oh- this is for the birthday party later?

  • Very cool Becca.

  • That's my present right there.

  • Oh, your present's over here? Yeah.

  • Amidst the Legos?

  • Dad, you need to see my lego

  • This is my lego house.

  • And this is my cool motorcycle.

  • Look at this!

  • This is a cannon that shoots out some bullets

  • And that... Becca helped make it? [gasps]

  • Oh no Sarah! What was this?

  • Sarah's?

  • Skadoosh! It can be repaired.

  • Windy! Whoa, it's shaking!