Subtitles section Play video Print subtitles We live in the biggest metropolitan area in the world, and our family is bigger than most others. Tokyo is not made for big families, so how do we make it work? Hey - I just saw the camera! Yeah, that's my daddy's camera. He makes videos with it. [Life in Japan Theme Song] Well are you talking with Aiden? He's having a phone play date with his best friend Aiden. You have to hold it so he can see it. Can you hold it? Oh, you want me to hold it?! OK, here we go. Our houses, like most homes in Japan, is made for 2-4 people. With six people living here, we've had to get creative in how we use our space. Well this is it, this is a big day... We are finally getting rid of our bed which we've had for a couple of years It's not even really a bed, it's a sofa that we bought so we could use this as my studio And then use it as our bedroom at night. Alright, here it is. It's time, it did it's service, Sayonara Sayonara It is done. We just got our special delivery. Check this out. Mattress, chair — you can't even get in the door! There's the old one. Alright! How's it going here? It's going. I've got the headboard almost put together. Oh, alright. I'm sweating! Look at this! Putting the final touches on! Oooo, wow! The kids asked for a couple of more minutes before going to bed If they could watch something in mom & dad's room and what did I find? [TV Narrator] But perhaps it's not surprising to find strange creatures in places like this... And if you noticed that things look different it's because that for the first time in three years My wife finally has her own bed in her bedroom! We've moved the studio out — we got a separate place for the studio, it's awesome! I should also mention that her bed is my bed — we share the bed! Sharing space has been key for us fitting our large family in this small space. But it's only been recently that I've been able to have a dedicated work space that wasn't at home. This is my new morning commute. It's just a couple minute walk from my house. I love it. Having a separate space for work has been a real game changer, one that has directly improved the quality of my time at home and at work. But good home life is more than how nice your house is or how much prestige your address has. A healthy home is built on a foundation of love. Dude! What?! Look at that! You can take [the bandage] off now. You can take it off now?! That is awesome, Dude! Way to go! Somebody asked the question "Is it always so sunny and bright there? It always looks so beautiful." Well that's because I usually only take pictures of the beautiful days. Here's the sunrise today. Can you see the sun? No, neither can I. It's still a beautiful day though. A big family isn't a hindrance to a happy home, it's the culmination of a happy home. A house full of love is one full of special everyday moments. This is the kind of home environment that makes life rich and rewarding. [Becca] Joshua, let's do a dance fight? [Anna] Hey camera... Hi! Oh, camera... What?! The camera doesn't talk! Oh, you want Daddy to talk? Joshua! What is happening today? I'm going to school... You're going back to school for the first time in — three weeks or so?! Yeah! Whoa Dude. Look at Student Sarah! Alright Student Sarah. How's the math going? Good. This is what I call the "Sarah Zoom." Ready? What's the Sarah Zoom? 1, 2, 3 No! Oh, is that the Sarah Disappearing Trick?! [Joshua] That is. Are you working on your big rollercoaster? Yeah. Whoa Dude, this is going to be an intense rollercoaster. Look at that thing! Holy cow! It goes over Peach. Oh it sure does! What are the things we've found on our way to school? A spider web that caught some rain... And look at this little snail we came across. Wow! He's dead. No he's not! He's not dead! You can't have a happy family without giving proper focus or attention to it, but when you do, the results speak for themselves. Hey Dude! Hey. How was your first day back to school? Good? Was everyone so happy to see you? Yeah. I even hugged the teacher. You hugged the teacher? And the teacher hugged me so hard also. And now we're going to do a picnic! You're going to do a picnic? Yeah In the box here?! Yeah. Oh wow, that's an interesting picnic. [Girls speaking in Japanese] I can hear the girls outside, they don't know I'm here though. There's a bunch of thing we like to do together as family One of them is to go to our favorite mall together! Northpour Northport. Try it again! Northpooouurrr what? Northport! North- Northport! Daddy, put that... Daddy, put that on Life in Japan where Becca messed up. That's so funny! It's not "Northpour" it's North... PORT Northport — at Northport mall. Let's go! Guess where Joshua had his lunch? In the box. In the box. Right down in there — look! There's the proof. Let's go Dude, common OK, turn off the camera. [Girls singing] "A whole new world, a new fantastic point of view..." [Still singing] No one to tell us no, or where to go... Learning to balance work and family is just as important as learning to handle your finances. If anything gets out of whack, things go downhill fast. Each family must find a good balance that works. When we can, our family enjoys shopping together. Oh Dude, going up! At the mall! At the mall. We have a number of favorite stores like Daiso and Book Off where we you can find what you need at a good price. These are usually the first places we go whenever someone needs something, which seems like all the time. Dinnertime! Oh yes! Yum yum yum yum. Sarah is just about to start multiplication... Girls, how does multiplication work in Japanese? 5 x 1 = 5 5 x 2 = 10 5 x 3 = 15 5 x 4 = 20 5 x 5 = 25 5 x 6 = 30 5 x 7 = 35 5 x 8 = 40 Wow! What a beautiful sunrise today. And Big J's with me to see it, huh?! Yeah! Did you just wake up? Yeah. Establishing healthy rhythms for your family is essential for getting the most out of each day. There should be time for work, study, play and relaxing. A family in the city has to fight hard to maintain this healthy balance. Joshua, are you in your study box? And you're working on your J's! Who has a "J" in their name? Me! You! Ah, sweet! [Becca practicing piano] Do you like our huge couch here? This is in the entryway until garbage day comes and we can finally throw it out Until then, it's just like a big guest that stays too long. Is that what that is? An important part of our family rhythm is church life, and we love it. Check it out, we're getting ready! Paz Church tomorrow will be meeting not only online like it normally does But at 11:15 we're having an in person service here at the coffee shop. It'll be awesome. If you're around, please come! Less than one week ago, we were using air conditioners, and then a cold snap And now it's time for heaters and sweatshirts and everything Fall that I love. Ruth and her friend Aiya made some pumpkin bars that I get to have with my coffee this morning. Oh man, what a great morning! Starting off like this! Hey girls, what happened today? It's so cold! It's freezing! It's so cold, huh? It's just like winter. It feels like winter! What happened? This is a big moment — literally, a big moment! Take out the garbage. We have our oversized garbage stickers Which lets us know that we have paid and you can take this junk out. Seasons change to a rhythm, and so do the phases of life. When it's time for a new phase to come, celebrate the old phase and then send it on it's way. What's going on up here? Are we having breakfast? Cherry, orange, blueberry, strawberry and pineapple... Anna, are you working on your own manga? Oh- this is for the birthday party later? Very cool Becca. That's my present right there. Oh, your present's over here? Yeah. Amidst the Legos? Dad, you need to see my lego This is my lego house. And this is my cool motorcycle. Look at this! This is a cannon that shoots out some bullets And that... Becca helped make it? [gasps] Oh no Sarah! What was this? Sarah's? Skadoosh! It can be repaired. Windy! Whoa, it's shaking!