and fulfill their every need? Do them a favor and learn how to ground yourself. You will

need Self-control and safety warnings. Step 1. Don't try to fix all their problems. Children

need to feel challenged and disappointed once in a while; otherwise, they'll never learn

how to handle emergencies or deal with defeats on their own. Step 2. If they complain about

being bored, don’t rush in to amuse them. Let them plumb their own imaginations for

fun. Step 3. Let them take reasonable risks. Their future will be more fulfilling if they

venture outside their comfort zone and take chances. One study indicates that children

who are allowed the freedom to go out on their own to shop and visit friends are more physically

active than kids who are more restricted. Step 4. Warn them about potential dangers

and how to avoid them, but don't frighten them unnecessarily. Step 5. Don't constantly

run interference for them. Let them learn how to stand up for themselves. Step 6. Be

complimentary when deserved, but don't overdo it: Children who are led to believe they're

perfect find themselves in for a rude awakening when they grow up. Did you know An Italian

boy's mother and grandparents were charged with child abuse for being so overprotective

that at age 12 he had the motor skills of a toddler.