It's okay to fail.

It's okay, because failure ain't that until you give up, failure is growth, you know, as long as you look at failure as a milestone of growth and what did you learn from it?

And how did you move forward from that?

That to me, is growth.

It's not failure.

The last thing I will ever do is fake perfection.

I want to keep making mistakes all my life because I know I'm working hard to do that Failure is a learning lesson.

We need to reframe our belief about failure, reframe it and put a different story behind it and watch it empower you and and and stop and to stop freezing you up, because that's what failure does.

When you look at yourself as a failure, you're frozen.

You know you can't allow it to freeze you up.

And with that belief that failure means that you're nothing.

You're nobody.

You can't make it.

You can't do it.

It prevents you from moving on.

It prevents you from moving on.

And that's why I had to reframe this whole word failure and I realized that you're not a failure, okay?

You didn't win that world title against Darius Michalczewski don't mean your failure.

So I came back stronger in that moment.

It could devastate you can put you on your ass.

But the fact is, sometimes the worst things that happened to you are the best things that could have happened to you because you find something else as a result.

So that's why I'm never scared of failure, because all it's doing is bouncing me back into the right direction of where I should be going anyway, right?

Mhm, Mhm.

I'm done.

I've been abused.

I'm done.

I've been given up on I'm done.

My parents didn't sort of look after me.

I'm done.

Someone got me into selling drugs on the roads and country lines.

I'm done.

There's no hope for me.

I got a criminal record.

How am I going to become a businessman?

How am I gonna have a chance?

I'm done?

No, you're not done.

It's the start.

Reframe the story.

It's in our control to reframe our story.

Why do we buy the story that were given?

Why do we give up on this gift called life so easily and allow the pain to stop us?

from moving on into our great future man, We got this.

We got control, We have a special creation and we give up and we throw it away so easy.

That's why I can't give up.

And I can't throw it away because I realized that I'm special, that I'm made by a special power and we all are every single one of us.

I think I think having a purpose is that thing that that makes us tick, that gets us up every day and gets us over the hump of opposition and adversity.

I think for the most part in life, people pretty much know what to do when things go right.

When things go right, they know how to feel.

They know how to act, how to react.

But it's when that opposition and that adversity comes and it creates a level of misunderstanding.

Right now, the vision is blurred.

Now you don't have clarity about what you're supposed to do.

Now.

You question if your existence matters and I think when you have a purpose it's powerful because in the midst of the opposition, it makes you realize that you've been put here for a certain reason what you do.

There's loads of people doing it.

But not like you.

Not like you are not like you.

You do it your way.

There's no one on the planet like, you know, one they got, They ain't got your d N a.

They ain't got your fingerprints.

They can't.

They haven't got your tone the way you do things.

They're not like you.

So you can't decide to throw in the towel and and get out.

Get out of the game of life.

You can't do that.

You're robbing us of what you've been given What's hidden inside you.

There is a hidden leader in all of us.

There's gifts in all of us.

Why don't we tap into it?

Forget what this world has to us to fall in line.

Do as you're told.

No.

Think for yourself.

Step out of line.

Fill that freedom and power of stepping out of line and say, Wait a minute, hold on.

What you're saying doesn't make sense.

What you're saying is not right.

You're taking away my constitutional right to live life on my terms, and that's what benefits everybody else.

We impact on everybody else's life by taking ownership of ours by using our gifts and talents by treating everybody the way we like them to treat us.

The problem is, bro, we're not loving ourselves.

We have been taught to love ourselves.

Yeah, this too shall pass.

Mm.

Like I said, a champion Adversity, right.

We know what they're doing.

Things go right.

But the next time it gets tough, the next time you question your purpose the next time you question your existence, uh, your mission if you're supposed to be doing what you're doing and it gets tough and challenging just whispered to you.

So this too shall pass.

This too shall pass.

Don't allow their doubt to be contagious.

Doubt can can allow them to almost let that seed of doubt be contagious.

But just reframe that.

I think I'm gonna prove you wrong.

You have to know who you are.

First you have to recognize who I am and accept that you're loved.

That means you love you by reframing that story that everything that you've told yourself about life, how you got dealt with, how growing up was or your relationship all the stories you told yourself that end up being with a negative outcome.

Reframe it and give it a new outcome that benefits you and empowers you.

I reframe my dad's story.

My dad ain't Don't love me.

Look at the way he beats me.

Look what he does to me.

You don't love me.

Don't care about me.

I reframed it.

Dad needs help.

My dad got his part wrong.

But that doesn't mean if I don't walk in the right steps in believing in myself that I can't still bear fruit and find out who I really am.

Daddy didn't show me, but I showed me because I believed and understood that I'm a special creative being That's very important to have great self esteem.

Forget the esteem that I was putting because normally they don't.

We need to put esteem on ourselves.

What do we do?

We hear people talking positively about this.

Oh, he's arrogant.

He thinks too much of himself.

He doesn't.

You know who I was talking about?

How much you love yourself Because you're You can only love people at the level that you love yourself, bro.

You can't love me more than you love you.

It's okay.

It's okay to fail.

It's okay.

Because failure ain't that until you give up.

Mm.

Yeah.

Mhm.