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  • we talk ourselves into a lot.

  • I'm tired.

  • I'm so tired.

  • I'm so tired.

  • You keep saying that you're gonna live a tired life.

  • You don't wanna be married to that person.

  • You don't wanna be friends with that person.

  • You don't wanna be led by that person who's constantly tired.

  • So, actually, the people we really admire are not tired people there actually energized people who love and have energy to give and value to give.

  • If you're not living it, don't shout it from the rooftop.

  • Everyone does not have to believe what I believe, but I want everyone to feel like they matter.

  • They have purpose.

  • They have someone who loves them, will listen to them, care for them before you know it.

  • You know, we could have a lot less lonely people in the world, and that would be pretty awesome.

  • Share with people what's really changed your life and what you're really living out.

  • And your words will have a lot more power.

  • I actually think we're suffering from a lack of love on a grand scale on an epic scale.

  • It might be the greatest epidemic in the world.

  • Maybe it always has been I think things horrific.

  • Things like racism are symptomatic of the fact we don't feel loved way.

  • Don't feel like we matter.

  • We don't feel like we're valued on.

  • So we devalue each other way fight way wore Most people don't say what they want in life where they wanna go, who they wanna be They take it as it comes which is really disturbing and sad.

  • But it's true.

  • We like, for instance, we take friendships as they come.

  • We just like, Well, I guess we kind of met and you like juice boxes and I like juice boxes.

  • So let's just hang out and, like, you know, talk about Capri sun or whatever.

  • And I think we ought to be, uh, more intentional.

  • And and be honest, what do I want?

  • What kind of friends do I want?

  • What kind of life do I want?

  • And then, um, I think, speak that out, first of all, like declare that be honest.

  • Recently, I didn't exercise again back to our team and they said, Why do we exist?

  • You know, why do you exist?

  • Why do we exist?

  • Not the answer you think you're supposed to give, But the answer like the truth of what you want and why you exist and creating a safe space with the people that you intentionally have have chosen your life to go.

  • All right, We're gonna like we're gonna get bare bones honest here.

  • This is actually what I want in life.

  • This is actually why I exist.

  • And then and then we've got a, like, hold each other accountable to that.

  • Like, bro, you can't wake up at 11.

  • PM every day if that's what you want.

  • And I think there's a That's why I'm a big proponent of community.

  • I don't think people could be who they're supposed to be without community and community doesn't have to be 10,000 people.

  • It could be five.

  • It could be three.

  • It could be the right people, not just a bunch of people but the right people.

  • You know, it's been said, Show me your friends.

  • I'll show you your future like it's it's real.

  • I could tell you where you're going right now by the people you're hanging out with on a consistent basis, right?

  • We are.

  • You know, so often our own worst enemies, right?

  • We keep ourselves, uh, you know off the stage for fear of bad reviews.

  • And don't even realize that, you know, in the process, we're forgetting how to dance and losing the joint it right on.

  • It's just such a shame.

  • We're all masters of our own universes, right alone in our own worlds.

  • And I certainly think everybody you know should should figure it out.

  • You should figure it out for yourself, because time's gonna go by.

  • Either way, you could live a life of happenstance of reaction.

  • Uh, you know, Or you could take some time to figure out how you want to spend your time, who you wanna be, who you wanna be at work.

  • You wanna be as a parent, who you wanna be is a spouse and on and on and on.

  • And, you know, you could you could try to be that person and you try to live that life.

  • So that's what I have in mind when I say, you know, you really, uh should define your success, your purpose and labor towards it.

  • Everything is a choice.

  • Every moment of your life is a choice.

  • How do you want to spend that moment?

  • Who you wanna be It is not the circumstances we confront that dictate the lives we experience.

  • It just cannot be.

  • There are counter examples all over the place.

  • Choose to be happy literally in every moment, and I'm not saying it's easy again, and I'm not.

  • I'm not saying it's always easy for me, but it's certainly a worthwhile endeavor.

  • I mean, you know, you spill on yourself, you knock something over or you know you're late for a meeting or, you know, it could derail you.

  • It can be, you know, something Quote unquote awful.

  • You know, Meanwhile, most of the world is worried about, you know, health care and food and clothing.

  • But, you know, or you can choose to laugh about it, and you can choose toe, have fun with it.

  • You can choose to let it go.

  • And, uh, again every I think every moment is, you know, an amalgam of precisely those choices.

  • And I think it behooves us toe to spend some time thinking about our answers.

  • You know, you're the master of your reality.

  • And you know, once you buy that once, you're willing to take responsibility for the fact that you know you are literally creating, uh, life.

  • You are experiencing the reality.

  • Your reality is your creation and not enough time on this moment right now.

  • What is my best next step?

  • What can I do right now to make progress?

  • And, you know, the truth of the matter is, the world changes a million times a day.

  • You're gonna change a million times a day.

  • Who knows what's gonna happen on the journey from, you know, from A to Z Just focus on getting from a to B and get that done, and we'll worry about cuz later, every single human being every human faces, their own discreet consolation of, ah, challenge is part of human condition.

  • There's nothing special or unique facing these the's big challenges or obstacles but how we handle it and how it used to look at them That makes all the difference in the world.

  • Life is choice.

  • And I said, if you keep if you tell yourself you're gonna live this small, remarkable, pathetic life and you're not gonna love or respect yourself and you know you're not gonna find a main north, you could make that happen for yourself, Or you can choose to have a different life.

  • There's one way you should see life.

  • Life is an opportunity.

  • You have this opportunity for reason.

  • That reason is to succeed, succeed far past Fears Past doubts past your insecurities, Empowering yourself toward the finish line.

  • Now is the time to make this opportunity.

  • Your opportunity is mawr than this.

  • It's your potential to succeed.

  • Use your potential.

  • Use it as your superpower because that's what it is.

  • Power, power to succeed to achieve a How badly do you want something?

  • How much do you want it?

  • There's only one way to get it.

  • It's toe work hard.

  • Motivate your life toward a future where you can succeed, where you can achieve.

  • How much do you appreciate this opportunity?

  • How much do you want this?

  • So respect the path you're on.

  • Take the journey.

  • Become the path.

  • Make this define you.

  • Your future relies on this.

  • So be this opportunity.

  • Take the risk and become the person you want to be.

  • You're there your present, so act like it.

  • Be prepared to struggle, but more importantly, be prepared to succeed.

  • Today will not be the day you fail.

  • Today is an opening the opening to make it take the path You're on the path.

  • All you have to do is take a step, close your eyes and imagined reality reality But with everything you've ever wanted surrounded by everything you've ever wanted to achieve believing that you have it knowing that you have all this e This is how your mindset should always be.

  • To know that you have this potential within you.

  • That this picture isn't so far from reality that this picture can be executed.

  • Your potential is your power.

  • And this power can strengthen your progress.

  • The progress you need to achieve.

  • You have this so use this grasp this opportunity.

  • Take this now to make it past your imagination and make this your reality.

  • Work harder than you ever have.

  • Nothing.

  • Nothing comes easy.

  • So what are you going to do?

  • How are you going to change?

  • Your life can be so much more than what you think it is right now Time is power.

  • You have mawr so much more than this.

  • Use this.

  • You have this grow and strengthen your potential.

  • Strengthen your power.

  • Think about your success like you have it.

  • You will have it believe you have it then you'll have the chance.

  • You will have the opportunity.

  • What have you done today?

  • What did you do yesterday?

  • And what are you going to do tomorrow?

  • Life is fueled by progress.

  • Fuel your life to the next level.

  • Yeah.

  • Think about your life.

  • It's a place you live and will always live.

  • So why now?

  • Are you sabotaging your future?

  • You need to make your life something.

  • Something better than just some where you live.

  • So what are you going to do today?

  • You can make a change.

  • Little switches.

  • Actions that can make you define you.

  • Wake up an hour earlier.

  • Replace your sandwich with a salad.

  • Thes changes will become habits, habits that can transform your life forever.

  • You will become a better person.

  • You are the better person.

  • All you have to do is stand up to that role, stand up for yourself and start living your life for what it is.

  • An opportunity, an opportunity to succeed.

  • To be a leader toe have power and control over the decisions you make.

  • You have the potential.

we talk ourselves into a lot.

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