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  • When it comes to relationships, we all want the kind of attention that makes us feel seen, heard and loved for who we are.

  • Kiss my third eye.

  • Oh, that third eye Once a kiss Yes.

  • I'll open up that little third eye chakra with a little kiss E It's sometimes the way that we ask for our partners.

  • Attention can be unhealthy.

  • This is called drumroll.

  • Kids protest behavior.

  • So protests behavior originally referred to the screens of the cries of Children when they were separated from their caregiver.

  • But in modern times, this term also applies to adults.

  • Attempts to display unhappiness with the lack of responsiveness or attention from their romantic partners.

  • Protest behavior Looks like excessive calling, texting or emailing attention keeping score.

  • Do you want me to just make you some food?

  • No.

  • You had dinner without me yesterday, so I'm gonna have dinner without you.

  • We worked together yesterday.

  • Exactly.

  • You've spent 67 days without me, and now I'm gonna spend 68 days without you way.

  • Don't live together.

  • Exactly.

  • You have an apartment without me, so I'm gonna have to apartments without you.

  • Okay.

  • This is getting ridiculous.

  • Exactly.

  • It's ridiculous.

  • I want You don't love me and good old fashioned manipulation.

  • Where you going?

  • I'm going to see my ex.

  • That's nice.

  • You know, you talk about Ryan a lot.

  • So what?

  • He's hot.

  • E can't help with my hot coworkers.

  • Hot.

  • Hey, I got off work early.

  • Do you want to grab dinner?

  • I can't.

  • I'm so busy.

  • Protests Behavior is typically exemplified by the anxious, preoccupied attachment style underneath the bratty call for attention facade.

  • It's ultimately an unmet emotional need that you're not communicating in a vulnerable way.

  • So it's basically a really immature and unhealthy manifestation of someone trying to re establish their security and connection with a partner.

  • And I've done it a bunch.

  • I'm not proud of it, but I've done it.

  • If you've done it, you know it, and I know it, and your partner probably knows it.

  • And you should probably work on a more healthy, vulnerable, open form of asking for your needs to be that like, Look, I love you, but lately I feel like you're more focused on world domination than you are on our relationship.

  • I support your career 100% but lately I've been feeling neglected and I just want to feel connected to you again.

  • Thank you so much for telling me, babe.

  • Honestly, Ever since you kissed my third eye and awakened to the one true power within me, I felt like you were pulling away.

  • And I've just been trying to break the barrier between the spirit and the material world is a cry for attention from you.

  • Yeah.

  • Oh, kill that guy.

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When it comes to relationships, we all want the kind of attention that makes us feel seen, heard and loved for who we are.

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Bad Relationship Behaviors (ft. Alan Chikin Chow)

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    林宜悉 posted on 2020/11/19
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