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  • When it comes to relationships, we all want the kind of attention that makes us feel seen, heard and loved for who we are.

  • Kiss my third eye.

  • Oh, that third eye Once a kiss Yes.

  • I'll open up that little third eye chakra with a little kiss E It's sometimes the way that we ask for our partners.

  • Attention can be unhealthy.

  • This is called drumroll.

  • Kids protest behavior.

  • So protests behavior originally referred to the screens of the cries of Children when they were separated from their caregiver.

  • But in modern times, this term also applies to adults.

  • Attempts to display unhappiness with the lack of responsiveness or attention from their romantic partners.

  • Protest behavior Looks like excessive calling, texting or emailing attention keeping score.

  • Do you want me to just make you some food?

  • No.

  • You had dinner without me yesterday, so I'm gonna have dinner without you.

  • We worked together yesterday.

  • Exactly.

  • You've spent 67 days without me, and now I'm gonna spend 68 days without you way.

  • Don't live together.

  • Exactly.

  • You have an apartment without me, so I'm gonna have to apartments without you.

  • Okay.

  • This is getting ridiculous.

  • Exactly.

  • It's ridiculous.

  • I want You don't love me and good old fashioned manipulation.

  • Where you going?

  • I'm going to see my ex.

  • That's nice.

  • You know, you talk about Ryan a lot.

  • So what?

  • He's hot.

  • E can't help with my hot coworkers.

  • Hot.

  • Hey, I got off work early.

  • Do you want to grab dinner?

  • I can't.

  • I'm so busy.

  • Protests Behavior is typically exemplified by the anxious, preoccupied attachment style underneath the bratty call for attention facade.

  • It's ultimately an unmet emotional need that you're not communicating in a vulnerable way.

  • So it's basically a really immature and unhealthy manifestation of someone trying to re establish their security and connection with a partner.

  • And I've done it a bunch.

  • I'm not proud of it, but I've done it.

  • If you've done it, you know it, and I know it, and your partner probably knows it.

  • And you should probably work on a more healthy, vulnerable, open form of asking for your needs to be that like, Look, I love you, but lately I feel like you're more focused on world domination than you are on our relationship.

  • I support your career 100% but lately I've been feeling neglected and I just want to feel connected to you again.

  • Thank you so much for telling me, babe.

  • Honestly, Ever since you kissed my third eye and awakened to the one true power within me, I felt like you were pulling away.

  • And I've just been trying to break the barrier between the spirit and the material world is a cry for attention from you.

  • Yeah.

  • Oh, kill that guy.

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When it comes to relationships, we all want the kind of attention that makes us feel seen, heard and loved for who we are.

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Bad Relationship Behaviors (ft. Alan Chikin Chow)

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    林宜悉 posted on 2020/11/19
Video vocabulary

Keywords

vulnerable

US /ˈvʌlnərəbəl/

UK /ˈvʌlnərəbl/

  • adjective
  • Exposed to the possibility of being attacked or harmed, either physically or emotionally.
  • Susceptible to physical or emotional harm.
  • Exposed to the possibility of being attacked or harmed, either physically or emotionally.
  • Exposed to the possibility of being attacked or harmed, either physically or emotionally.
  • Open to attack or damage from criticism, arguments, or questions.
  • (In a card game, especially bridge) in a position where penalties are higher and bonuses are greater.
  • In need of special care, support, or protection because of age, disability, or risk of abuse or neglect.
  • (of a person) in need of special care, support, or protection because of age, disability, or risk of abuse or neglect.
  • Exposed to the possibility of being attacked or harmed, either physically or emotionally.
  • Open to persuasion or suggestion; easily influenced.
  • Susceptible to physical or emotional harm.
  • Being open to attack or damage
  • Being easily harmed, hurt, or wounded
ultimately

US /ˈʌltəmɪtli/

UK /ˈʌltɪmətli/

  • adverb
  • In the end; finally.
  • Done or considered as the final and most important
  • In the end; finally.
  • At the furthest or most remote point or time.
  • To the greatest extent; extremely.
  • In the end; finally.
  • In the end; finally.
  • At the most basic level; fundamentally.
  • Fundamentally; at the most basic level.
  • At a basic level; remotely.
bunch

US /bʌntʃ/

UK /bʌntʃ/

  • other
  • (of a fabric) gather or cause to gather into folds or wrinkles.
  • other
  • Collect or gather together.
  • noun
  • A group of things of the same kind
  • A group of people regarded as a unit; a company.
  • A group of people.
  • verb
  • To group people or things closely together
  • (Cloth) to gather/be gathered together in folds
ridiculous

US /rɪˈdɪkjələs/

UK /rɪˈdɪkjələs/

  • adjective
  • Funny or foolish; deserving to be laughed at
  • Completely unreasonable or silly; deserving of ridicule.
  • So silly or absurd as to invite ridicule.
content

US /ˈkɑnˌtɛnt/

UK /'kɒntent/

  • adjective
  • Willing to accept something; satisfied.
  • Being happy or satisfied
  • In a state of peaceful happiness.
  • In a state of peaceful happiness.
  • other
  • To be satisfied or willing to do something.
  • other
  • To make (someone) happy and satisfied.
  • To make (someone) happy and satisfied.
  • To satisfy (someone).
  • To make (someone) happy and satisfied.
  • other
  • Information made available by a website or other electronic medium.
  • Information made available by a website or other electronic medium.
  • The things that are to be found inside something.
  • The things that are to be found inside something.
  • The subject matter of a book, speech, etc.
  • other
  • Information or other material put out by an individual or organization via communications mediums.
  • The amount of a particular substance contained in something.
  • A state of peaceful happiness and satisfaction.
  • The things that are to be found inside something; the ideas, facts, or images that are contained in a book, article, speech, etc.
  • noun
  • Information in something, e.g. book or computer
access

US /ˈæksɛs/

UK /'ækses/

  • noun
  • The ability or right to enter, use, or look at something.
  • Way to enter a place, e.g. a station or stadium
  • The means or opportunity to approach or enter a place.
  • A means of approaching or entering a place.
  • The right or opportunity to use or look at something.
  • verb
  • To obtain or retrieve (computer data or a file).
  • (Of a computer) to find and use (data).
  • To be able to use or have permission to use
  • To obtain or retrieve (data or information) from a computer or other device.
  • other
  • The action or way of approaching, entering, or using.
  • The means or opportunity to approach or enter a place.
  • The opportunity or right to use something or to see someone.
  • other
  • To obtain or retrieve (data or information, typically held in a computer).
material

US /məˈtɪriəl/

UK /məˈtɪəriəl/

  • noun
  • Cloth; fabric
  • Supplies or data needed to do a certain thing
  • Substance from which a thing is made of
  • Supplies needed for a task or activity.
  • other
  • Fabric or cloth.
  • Information or data used for a particular purpose.
  • A substance from which something is made or can be made.
  • adjective
  • Relevant; (of evidence) important or significant
  • Belonging to the world of physical things
  • Relating to physical matter or substance.
multiple

US /ˈmʌltəpəl/

UK /ˈmʌltɪpl/

  • adjective
  • Having or involving more than one of something
  • Capable of handling more than one task or user at a time.
  • Consisting of or involving more than one.
  • Affecting many parts of the body.
  • More than one; many.
  • Having or involving several parts, elements, or members.
  • noun
  • Number produced by multiplying a smaller number
  • A ratio used to estimate the total value of a company.
  • A number of identical circuit elements connected in parallel or series.
  • A number that can be divided by another number without a remainder.
  • pronoun
  • More than one; several.
grab

US /ɡræb/

UK /ɡræb/

  • verb
  • To take and hold something quickly
term

US /tɚm/

UK /tɜ:m/

  • noun
  • A condition under which an agreement is made.
  • Conditions applying to an agreement, contract
  • A fixed period for which something lasts, especially a period of study at a school or college.
  • Each of the quantities in a ratio, series, or mathematical expression.
  • A limited period of time during which someone holds an office or position.
  • Length of time something is expected to happen
  • The normal period of gestation.
  • A way in which a person or thing is related to another.
  • Fixed period of weeks for learning at school
  • The (precise) name given to something
  • A word or phrase used to describe a thing or express a concept, especially in a particular kind of language or subject.
  • other
  • Give a specified name or description to.
  • verb
  • To call; give a name to