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  • - Hey guys, it's Kim Dao here.

  • Welcome back to my channel.

  • So the past couple of weeks

  • I have been putting out some Japan videos,

  • that I guess I have been saving up over the past a year.

  • After every video,

  • I always ask you guys to give me a video suggestions

  • on what you would like me to do.

  • So a lot of you guys actually asked me to make a video,

  • on how safe Japan is to travel to as a woman,

  • when you're going alone.

  • As you guys know, I do travel to Japan very often.

  • About 95% of the time I travel alone.

  • Have asked me if I had any scary experiences.

  • I'm just going to talk about them today in this video.

  • This is going to be a chatty video,

  • just talking about my personal experiences

  • and experiences of others traveling in Japan,

  • or living in Japan as well.

  • About like five or six years ago,

  • I made a video on how safe Japan is,

  • and I mentioned in that video,

  • that Japan is a safest country I've ever traveled to,

  • and that hasn't changed.

  • Of course, when you travel, it doesn't matter where you are,

  • it doesn't matter how safe the country is,

  • having common sense is the most important thing.

  • What I mean by that is,

  • even though I said Japan is the safest country

  • I've ever traveled to,

  • that doesn't mean you should just walk down

  • random dark alleyways just because,

  • supposedly it's a safe country.

  • So like I said, when I travel to Japan,

  • I usually go alone.

  • Because what?

  • I go very often and most of the time it's for work.

  • There have been times where a friend,

  • or my husband, or sister would travel with me,

  • but that's only on the rare occasion.

  • It's because if the trip is solely for work,

  • I don't want to drag people around with me

  • because it's just not fun for them.

  • It's like a waste of time, a waste of a trip.

  • So the first time I went to Japan alone was when I was 22,

  • eight years ago.

  • That was when Liz Liza wanted to work with me

  • and wanted to fly me to Japan, to meet them.

  • I remember at that time, my parents were very scared,

  • because it would be my first trip overseas, alone.

  • I also was a little scared,

  • but also I was quite confident

  • because I have been to Japan twice before that.

  • So I knew my way around.

  • I had basic Japanese knowledge at that time,

  • the trip was fine.

  • I ran into no issues.

  • And because of that trip,

  • after that, I was traveling alone a lot

  • to many other countries.

  • In other countries, I did run into some issues,

  • which I will go into a bit later,

  • but for now I'm just going to focus on Japan.

  • So walking around Japan alone as a woman,

  • I can confidently say that

  • there is no other place in the world

  • where I feel as safe as I do in Japan.

  • I can walk around alone at nighttime, no problem.

  • Say if I was really hungry at midnight,

  • and I wanted to grab something at 7-Eleven,

  • I would have no issue just going down the street

  • and going to my local 7-Eleven,

  • picking up some food and walking back.

  • The only time I did have an issue,

  • where there was a guy following me,

  • was about eight years ago.

  • I was at Ikebukuro cross-station

  • and I was walking with my friend.

  • We were going from the station to go back to our hostel.

  • We were speaking in English

  • and I noticed there was a guy

  • who was matching our walking pace.

  • So I asked my friend to walk slower.

  • She didn't know what was going on.

  • She was like, "Oh sorry,"

  • and walked really slow.

  • I noticed that he also did the same.

  • At that point I knew he was trying to follow us.

  • So I let my friend know,

  • and we walked into a convenience store

  • to just kind of buy some time and walk around a bit.

  • He followed us into the convenience store.

  • I think we only stayed in there for like five minutes.

  • I bought some stuff.

  • Then I noticed there was a police box outside.

  • We just went to the police box and stood outside.

  • I saw him go out of the convenience store.

  • I don't know if he noticed us or not.

  • It was kind of dark and it was like across the road,

  • but he eventually walked off.

  • So I waited there for an extra 10 minutes

  • until I knew it was safe to go back to our hostel.

  • That was the only weird stalking incident I had in Japan,

  • and that was like in 2012, eight years ago.

  • Since then I've traveled to Japan, maybe about 20 times.

  • I've lived in Japan for a year and a half,

  • and that has never happened again.

  • I guess if you are in Japan or any country,

  • and you notice that someone's following you,

  • I would immediately go to a place where it's crowded,

  • where there's lots of people around.

  • Also because now smartphones are a thing these days,

  • get someone you know on the phone,

  • talk to them.

  • Talk to them on loud speaker if you can as well,

  • just so they would know.

  • If something were to happen,

  • then you know your friend on the phone would be suspicious.

  • Even though I said that I feel very safe

  • walking around Japan at nighttime,

  • I always still have like an eye out for my surroundings.

  • You just always have to make sure just in case.

  • I do remember back in the day,

  • if you were a woman walking alone in Shibuya,

  • you will always get approached by many guys.

  • I've seen it's happened to many Japanese woman as well,

  • and most of the time,

  • they just keep walking and ignoring them

  • until the guys give up.

  • But some of these guys are so persistent.

  • They don't give up, which really annoys me.

  • Like they were literally followed a woman

  • for like maybe a hundred meters down the streets.

  • My trick to get rid of them is,

  • if they approach me, I just say to them in English,

  • "Sorry, I don't speak Japanese,"

  • and just pretend you don't understand

  • what the hell they're saying,

  • and they will walk off pretty quickly.

  • These days it doesn't happen as often as it used to.

  • I wrote a story where police

  • have actually been tracking that,

  • so I realized over the past couple of years,

  • it happens nowhere near as often as it used to.

  • If you are with someone else,

  • it's less likely it will happen.

  • But honestly,

  • they usually approach you in a very public place.

  • So you can just ignore them, walk off,

  • or tell them no, they won't do any harm to you

  • because there's so many people around.

  • So even though Japan is very safe,

  • there are of course dodgy places

  • that you probably should avoid.

  • Just like every country, there are tourist traps.

  • Places that are there just to rip you off.

  • If you had been to Japan in the recent years

  • and have been walking around Shinjuku

  • to Kabukicho especially,

  • you might hear an announcement that is said in English,

  • I can't remember exactly what the announcement said

  • but it was something along the lines of,

  • "Be careful, don't get scammed,

  • don't follow people to bars and all.

  • This has never happened to me either,

  • because I don't go to too many bars,

  • but I have heard of some cases

  • where foreigners would go into a bar

  • and get charged like $100 US, for a beer.

  • I also heard another story where a guy just got scammed.

  • They forced him to go to the ATM,

  • and withdraw a lot of money,

  • and they took all of it apparently.

  • Once again, these are just stories I've heard.

  • I've never actually seen or experienced this myself.

  • Also keep in mind that these announcements

  • are there in Kabukicho for a reason.

  • So just be careful.

  • Like in Japan, some bars had a bar charge,

  • usually around five to $10 at most.

  • That's normal.

  • And also if you're walking around Kabukicho,

  • which is like the party area,

  • you will see lots of guys walking around,

  • trying to get people to go to their bars.

  • Not all of them are dodgy.

  • Sometimes you can get some really good deals.

  • I was with a group of maybe eight people,

  • we got an all you can drink package for 1,500 Yen,

  • around $15 for an hour, which isn't bad.

  • He originally said 2,000 Yen

  • and we just bargained it down to $15.

  • You can also back in at karaoke places

  • and they might give you a deal.

  • But yeah once again,

  • just be really careful of being overcharged.

  • I've never had any of these issues with big chains,

  • or bars or karaoke,

  • but once again, just use common sense.

  • Also, I should mention that I'm not really a party person.

  • I don't hang out at these party areas at night,

  • like in Shinjuku, Shibuyu, and Roppongi very often.

  • So maybe because of that,

  • I never ran into such situations.

  • I've actually seen this happen,

  • but I was in Kabukicho

  • and there was a group of foreigner guys,

  • just in front of me,

  • they were just walking,

  • minding their own business,

  • and then suddenly there was like a group of people

  • trying to stop them,

  • and trying to drag them into their bars.

  • I knew straight away it was a scam.

  • I knew that they would try and charge them a lot of money.

  • I think eventually the guys just kept walking

  • and the guys were trying to get them to go into the bar.

  • Kept following for a bit,

  • but because they just kept walking and showed no interest,

  • in the end they just gave up.

  • I just wanna talk a bit about transport.

  • So for taxis,

  • I've taken taxis many times in Japan and never had an issue.

  • Yes taxis are expensive,

  • but they all just use a meter

  • and you just pay whatever it says at the end of your trip.

  • I've heard times where some taxi drivers

  • would even give me a discount.

  • In Japan, I've never had an issue of people scamming me.

  • I have been scammed in Korea once.

  • I was meant to pay $4 for a five minute ride,

  • and then the guy charged me $40.

  • I didn't know any better and I just paid it.

  • But I have had some people that wrote comments on my videos

  • saying that they did get scammed in Osaka

  • a few times from taxis.

  • Personally I have never had that happen,

  • but yeah, just make sure that you're paying

  • exactly what is on the meter,

  • and make sure the taxi driver has the meter on

  • whilst you are on your trip.

  • The next thing I want to talk about is groping on train.

  • So this is a big one.

  • I get asked this a lot.

  • Has this ever happened to me?

  • "No."

  • I've been in packed trains

  • and not once has it happened to me.

  • However, I do know of some friends

  • where this has happened to them.

  • So I'm not saying that it doesn't happen.

  • I am aware of my surroundings when I'm overseas,

  • and I find that especially if I'm alone,

  • my guard is off and I do have a resting bitch face.

  • My friends have come up to me when I was waiting for them

  • and have asked me,

  • "Hey Kim, are you pissed off at something?"

  • And I'm like, "No, this is my normal face."

  • (chuckles)

  • Maybe that's why it has never happened

  • because maybe I look like I'm about to punch someone,

  • so people just avoid me.

  • Oh yeah.

  • A funny (chuckles) story, actually in the train in Japan.

  • I was on a moving train,

  • and I was standing at the end of the carriage

  • and the train suddenly made a stop

  • and I felt like I was going to fall over.

  • I quickly tried to grab a hand rail, I missed,

  • punched a guy in the face by accident.

  • I was like horrified.

  • I was like bowing to him,

  • and I was like, "I'm so sorry,"

  • but he just laughed it off

  • and said it was okay because,

  • well, it was an accident.

  • So phew, that was so embarrassing.

  • A lot of people saw that.

  • But anyway, my friends who have had this happen to them,

  • one of them who is Japanese,

  • told me when she was in high school,

  • it would happen at least twice a week.

  • It usually is during peak hour,

  • where you can't really tell who did it.

  • She said as a Japanese, she would just stay quiet

  • and not cause a scene.

  • I've heard from other people

  • and I'm sure you guys would have as well,

  • that in Japanese culture, you don't cause a scene

  • because it would be a nuisance to other people.

  • Which I find in this case to be really wrong,

  • and I'm sure most of you guys would be feeling angry

  • because when that happens,

  • you shouldn't stay quiet about it,

  • but you also have to understand that,

  • you may say to yourself,

  • "Oh, if it happened to me,

  • "I might just yell out and scream at them

  • "and cause a scene."

  • But when it actually happens to you,

  • you might just freeze and not know what to do.

  • I say this because, this has actually happened to me

  • once in Australia before,

  • when I was working in retail,

  • I froze because I didn't know what was happening

  • at the time.

  • I always told myself before that I would yell out,

  • I would scream, but I didn't.

  • I did however tell my manager who called the police.

  • But yeah, I don't blame the culture for not speaking up,

  • because you never know until it actually happens to you.

  • End of the story is that I have taken many peak hour trains

  • and they were packed to the point

  • where you're squished like sardines,

  • but it has not happened to me.

  • But I'm not saying that it doesn't happen

  • because unfortunately it does.

  • Now pick pocketing.

  • So Japan is one of the only places in the world

  • where I would feel comfortable

  • just to leave my stuff at a table, to serve at a cafe.

  • Honestly, if you do that anywhere else in the world,

  • your stuff will probably get stolen.

  • People do this all the time in Japan

  • and no one touches your stuff.

  • So I find Japanese people to be very honest.

  • I have lost a bunch of stuff in Japan before

  • and have always gotten it back.

  • So for example, my passport that's right.

  • My dumb ass lost my passport a couple of years ago in Tokyo.

  • I was walking around in a park,

  • taking photos and videos of soccer.

  • It was raining that day.

  • So I was pulling my camera in and out of my bag.

  • My passport must have fallen out then.

  • I didn't realize until a few days later.

  • Replacing a lost or stolen Australian passport was like $600

  • because you have to pay a penalty fee,

  • every time you lose one.

  • So the next day I backtracked to all the restaurants,

  • shops, cafes I went to, no luck.

  • Eventually I went to the police station in Roppongi,

  • the big one,

  • and I spoke to a police woman.

  • She got my details, told me to wait,

  • and five minutes later,

  • she comes out and says, "I found it."

  • And I was like, "What?"

  • Any other country, they would just have taken my passport

  • and kept it.

  • I got my passport back.

  • I've also lost my camera,

  • just forgotten it at a restaurant,

  • and I went back in, the staff had it, gave it back to me.

  • There was even a time I was at a restaurant,

  • and it was one of those restaurants

  • where you choose your meal on a ticket machine first,

  • you pay then sit down.

  • I had some change given to me from the machine,

  • like, I don' know $2 worth.

  • I ate my food with my friends, left.

  • I forgot the coins on the table.

  • The staff actually chased me down to give me back my money.

  • That's how honest they are.

  • In Japan of course,

  • even though the chance you will get pick-pocketed

  • is very, very, very low,

  • still keep a guard up just to be safe.

  • The only time where someone tried to pick pocket me

  • was when I was in Paris.

  • I had a bag that was on my side,

  • and I saw a woman come up to me,

  • and she was holding a folder over my bag.

  • I turned to look at her,

  • she made eye contact with me and then walked away.

  • Nothing happened,

  • but I'm pretty sure she was trying to open my bag,

  • and the folder was just to cover so I couldn't see it.

  • Actually in Paris, my very first time I was there alone

  • was in 2013.

  • I was there for work and I was only there for four days,

  • but I had one day free to sight-see.

  • So I was going to the cafes, tourist see sites and all,

  • but for me, if someone talks to me in another country

  • or anywhere, usually I'm really friendly back

  • unless you were being an asshole.

  • Quite a lot of people talk to me,

  • and it was really nice.

  • But I had two guys offer to drive me to the airport.

  • Of course I declined

  • because work was paying for my taxi anyway.

  • I don't think I ever mentioned this on my channel before,

  • but I felt really weird like,

  • "You just met me.

  • "You don't know me.

  • "So why do you wanna give me a ride to the airport?"

  • I just politely declined and I was like,

  • "No, sorry.

  • "This is my last day in Paris.

  • "I've got a lot of things I want to see.

  • "So bye."

  • In most countries when I travel,

  • I do make sure I get back home before dark if I'm alone.

  • In Japan, I don't really care as much because,

  • there have been so many times

  • where I've taken the last train at like 1:00a.m.,

  • then had to walk home.

  • That's pretty much all I wanted to say in this video.

  • Obviously because of these times,

  • we cannot travel to Japan anytime soon.

  • But if you are planning a trip to go to Japan next year,

  • whether you're male, female, it doesn't really matter,

  • all you need to do is just have common sense,

  • make sure of your surroundings,

  • don't follow random people into bars

  • if they are forcing you to.

  • Just remember to stay safe no matter where you are.

  • Hopefully that we can all travel next year.

  • Oh, I just wanna travel somewhere so bad.

  • But yeah, hopefully you guys enjoyed this video.

  • Thank you so much for watching

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  • where you just want me to sit down, chill,

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  • Bye guys.

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- Hey guys, it's Kim Dao here.

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