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  • for the love of God, please complement the person that you like, genuinely compliment them.

  • If you like a guy, they probably don't get compliments all that often.

  • So when you do say something nice, they're gonna eat it up, and it's going to stick with them a lot longer.

  • But if you like a girl, they probably get a little bit more compliments.

  • So you have to make it stand out.

  • Don't just say hey, like your shoes Say, Hey, I really like how you wear your hair down like that.

  • It looks really good.

  • Or like, Hey, I really like the color of that shirt.

  • It makes your eyes pop psychology tricks on how to get your crush to like you back then.

  • I know work because I use them.

  • If you're having a face to face conversation with your crush, make eye contact and smile.

  • I'm telling you, guys, I told you last time smiling will change your life.

  • It's going to show them that you're interested and listening to them, which is going to get you some points.

  • I want to know how to tell if somebody has a crush on you.

  • There's usually a lot of subtle signs in somebody's body language.

  • And if you know what to look for their like dead giveaways, like if somebody really likes you, they're gonna unconsciously copy your mannerisms.

  • Use that to your advantage.

  • You might also catch this person looking at you.

  • Ah, lot like a lot, a lot.

  • And if somebody likes you, they're gonna be laughing at everything you say.

  • And I can promise you you're not that funny, but they think you are so like people also really like to be in close proximity with the people that they like.

  • So somebody has a crush on you.

  • They're going to try and be around you all the time.

  • And if they have open body language and their feet are facing you in a conversation Oh, they like you, bro.

  • And I mean growing like the most gender neutral way Don't flip out.

  • And honestly, if you're asking yourself if somebody likes you, you probably already know it in your gut like you either have that vibe that somebody's drawn to you or you don't.

  • This next one is super easy.

  • Just ask them questions.

  • Get your crush talking about themselves because everybody likes to talk about themselves.

  • It's gonna make them think that you actually want to know about them, which you should.

  • You like them.

  • Plus, it's gonna make them feel more connected to you because they're opening up and sharing a part of themselves.

  • Plus, if they ask questions back, this is a great, great sign that they're interested back, even if it's just a little bit.

  • The bandwagon effect is a little bit more manipulative, but if you're desperate, it might work.

  • So get a friend or two to mention in front of your crush.

  • How cool or attractive they think you are.

  • Studies have shown that people will be more attracted to you if they think other people think you're attractive.

  • The best advice that I've ever gotten is to treat your crush like you would a new acquaintance.

  • You don't meet somebody new and then immediately expect daily text or hanging out once a week.

  • Or you don't over think like everything you do and say around them.

  • And this is exactly how you should treat your crush, because it's gonna help you relax a little bit.

  • It's gonna show you you're not completely obsessed with this person.

  • Even if you are, and it's gonna make all these other tricks.

  • Ah, lot easier if you just don't overthinking this sounds obvious, but not everybody does it.

  • Take the extra steps to be attractive.

  • Workout.

  • Eat right.

  • Do your hair.

  • Nobody's gonna fall in love with you when you're walking around Target in your PJs and flip flops If you act super excited every time you see somebody they're eventually gonna be really excited to see you back and not even know why you could also take this the next step further and figure out your crutches favorite type of candy and then give them that candy every time you see them.

  • If you do this enough, eventually, even after you stop giving them candy, they're still gonna have that subconscious reaction.

  • To be very happy to see you.

  • You need to show subtle signs that you're interested in this person.

  • Be able to spark an interest back in you.

  • So, like, if there's a dance or a party or something and they ask you Oh, hey, are you going say something along the lines of like, oh, only if you're going, it's going to show that you like being around them, and it's definitely gonna bubble up some questions within themselves.

  • This one might come off is obvious, but just, like be you don't try to be somebody that you think your crush might like because it's gonna come off is way more genuine if you just let your personality shine through rather than trying to act like somebody you're not.

  • Besides, your personality is what's gonna make you likable, and those little quirks that you have are usually what somebody likes the most about you.

for the love of God, please complement the person that you like, genuinely compliment them.

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