Name: WHY MOTIVATION ISN'T WORKING FOR YOU *watch to the end*
Uploaded: 2020-10-23T23:12:06.000Z
Duration: 11 min 22 s
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You may be watching this right now and you have these incredible ideas.

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And what you think is missing is motivation.

Future simple

At some point, everything's gonna go south on you.

Everything's gonna go south and you're gonna say This is it.

You can either accept that or you could get to work.

You do the math, you solve one problem, then you solve the next one.

If you want to be a grocer or a general or a politician or a judge, you will invariably become it.

You can decide that you're going to stand upto life.

You could decide that I'm gonna live each day as if it were my last.

They've crunched the numbers on you being born.

And do you realize that the odds the odds of you at the moment in time he was born to the parents you were born to with the DNA structure that you have one and 400 trillion if you never know what you want to be.

If you live what some might call the dynamic life.

But I will call the artistic life If each day you are unsure of who you are and what you know, you will never become anything That is your reward.

If you can keep your head when all about you are losing theirs and blaming it on you if you can trust yourself when all men doubt you but make allowances for their doubting too.

If you can wait and not be tired by waiting or being lied about, don't deal in lies or being hated.

Don't give way to hating one and 400 trillion all day long.

You have ideas that could change your life.

Things we've worked the hardest for, we value the most.

So I think you know the purpose of the goal is not getting it.

You know who you become, who you become is gonna make you happier gonna make you sad.

So I'm not looking for an effortless approach.

It is too late to be scared, not had an encouraging, bloody word.

Israel encouraging word in their entire life.

It just takes a little bit of of encouragement and care so that they're willing to set themselves straight to some degree and start trying.

It's just a catastrophe that that's that's so rare in their lives that if you're doing something that you're not totally committed to, if you're doing something that you're not totally passionate about, your compromising yourself every day, some people want to ultra racist.

Some people won't be a lawyer or a medical student, so they're taking these practice tests.

Yeah, Mhm, Yes, transforming the walls into doors, changing obstacles into opportunities.

By the time that they closed the second restaurant, it was an $800,000 loss e mean.

That meant our entire home equity line gone.

I get just choked up just thinking about how terrifying it waas.

And so I found myself at the age of 41 like just feeling like a complete failure because the way that our minds are wired and the fact about human beings is that we are not designed to do things that are uncomfortable or scary or difficult, our brains air designed to protect us from those things because our brains are trying to keep us alive and in order to change in order to build a business in order to be the best parent, the best spouse to do all those things that you know you want to do with your life.

With your work, with your dreams, you're gonna have to do things that are difficult, uncertain or scary.

Which sets up this problem for all of us.

You only feel motivated to do the things that are easy, right, And at some point, I think we all hit that moment in life where things just are not going how you thought they would go and what's amazing about those moments is we all respond very differently.

I believe desire and will to win is everything.

I don't know why I'm like I am, but my butts, always burning is always something.

Say our dad gum, but you're supposed to go for it.

Our dad come, but you're supposed to be somebody.

You're supposed to make a difference with your life.

In study those two individuals, everything seems to be the same.

They, both of the same age, had the same train, the same positions, the same contract.

He's loyal to the country in a little bit Mawr.

Mawr if you wanna win in these United States, you gotta be tough and you can't quit.

I wore one branch manager down to the point that he says to me, Gardner, based on persistence alone, we're gonna give you a shot because at some point, we all bought into this lie that you've got to feel ready in order to change.

You said I couldn't do it, But guess what.

We bought into this this complete falsehood that at some point you're gonna have the courage.

At some point, you're gonna have the confidence and it's total bullshit.

Maybe watching this right now and you have these incredible ideas and what you think is missing his motivation.

The difference for me, though, is I look a failure is a stepping stone to success.

Every time you learn something, you learn because something you did didn't work and that exposes you to the part of the world that you don't understand.

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