Speaking it will happen just because it's never been done doesn't mean it can't be done. It's your opinion

As possible as possible

You will never learn from people if we always tap-dance around the troops we tap dance around the truth by finding the right word

So I don't hurt you because you have thin skin. No

Tighten up people. It's okay

Trust me. It's okay. I mean, it's important not to give yourself boundaries, which we can do quite easy

Okay

People talk about aina for the skies sometimes even aiming for the skies

is intimidating just

Don't give yourself boundaries your sky and my sky might be different, you know, I mean

But neither of us to touch the sky if we give us our boundaries then I mean whatever your sky is

Whatever your biggest dream is. I've already touched out, you know, so in other words what sky. Where does the sky end?

I'd rather people car. You know what I'm not gonna restrict myself to go

So I learned about oh, I have to do it this before I have to do that. I think it's important people discard

Lose the boundaries lose the conformity and just be careful

What are you going to do now? They don't own your life. How are you going to control that now?

how are you gonna flip it upside down and say Roger that now I'm gonna harness this and

You read about me years from now

How that's the question. How are you gonna do that?

Thicken your skin become more of a human being don't be afraid of the reflection in the mirror

Because that's all you can be afraid of once you overcome the reflection in the mirror

You've done it

Failure is part of life. I mean

The difference for me though is I look a failure as a stepping stone to success as if it's a speed bump

I know I'm gonna fail but it's not failure if you learn something and so gosh I've made so many mistakes

I've screwed so many things up

But every time I do it just becomes it becomes a way for me to explain to someone else what it takes

You know, it's like here's what I've done

I think I have the ability in those people because I talk about my failures

I talk about all the things that messed me up. But I show people that didn't want to stop me in the onion stop you

Cannot invent and pioneer

If you cannot accept failure to invent you need to experiment and if it's if you know in advance

That it's going to work. It is not an experiment and

So that's a very important thing, you know

It's these they're inseparable twins failure and invention. So you have to be willing to do that. It's embarrassing to fail

You know, it's always embarrassing to fail but you have to say no, that's not how this works

Visualizing this is my biggest tool of life. That's why I've been able to

Put myself in cold water and put myself in a hundred mile race

Millions of times before I've done it now I've able to go through the race and see I'm gonna feel about 50

Almost to the almost to the exact

exact feeling

There is another level

The only decent keep sitting there is that you feel Silica's lost but about where you are

But life the universe of God is just testing you

If this is good Giants up to access sign start pulling to put it to excellence

There's a level of all your dreams and realize

There's a level that you always leave that it is real. It is not gone away

But it takes that extra burst when you think there's nothing left

There's no way he tried everything ten million times

And you keep going it's almost like God is saying did you keep hitting this wall enough times? I will see

That you will not stop that you were filled with that level of determination faith and courage and then the door opens and

you get to that next level but most people don't know is

the next level is just

millimeters and it's called

outstanding ladies and gentlemen outstanding

It's a level where you are. Not one of the best you are the best and you know, what's amazing

You only have to be two million is more than everybody else and you get everything you get the toy the last day the fun

Of the family the passion the economics the freedom the spirit

it's all there what Jerry Maguire called the quad maybe all of it and

It's just two billion is above the most excellent people

Give up because they're exhausted and there's some people go the harder and I hit it the more I hit it to the layer

It's going down. I'm not stopping and if you do that enough it pops open

Live in the world now, that's so kind

We we find the kind way around everything

Like if you don't look good, I have to find a kind way of saying I don't like your shirt, right?

That's not the approach. That's approach you're looking for it. That book is not for you

Can't hurt me is not for you the approach you have to take at least I took you take it approach you want

The conversation had to be a real honest conversation in the accountability mirror. Guess what I was fat

Don't find a kind word to say that you know what I've gained some weight. No in fact

When I couldn't read

Not like a you know, even learn disability. No, I cannot read the fourth grade reading level. I'm struggling and

Sometimes I call myself stupid not in a way to put myself down

You don't take it like my god. Those are still work. Yeah the hurtful

This honest the conversation has to become an honest conversation of where you're at. Mentally we're mad mentally

I look like I feel like I'm not the something I am falling behind in school. I'm lazy. My house is a mess

We have to look at what it is and call it what it is

Don't find words to make yourself feel better

Because that's what so we hang around people that make this feel better that tell us what we want to hear

Not what we need to hear and so we stay away from those people and we stay with knows people like our internal dialogue

Becomes that kind. It's okay. It's not okay

That's where it starts. It starts with that accountability of it's not okay anymore

This can no longer be okay and calling yourself out for exactly

What you are in exactly how you need to fix it. I

Think my imagination is always kept me going. I mean it's like

You know, just imagine myself

Collecting awards just imagine myself, you know, I mean getting big parts. Imagine myself working with the greatest actors

My imagination is the one life, you know, I mean like no you're not overthink it but you just kind of like yeah

but I see myself driving that car one day and I get that, you know, I mean that's as part of my

Inner magic is that actually if I can see myself doing it?

She can't bottled up and sell it to someone you can do it or you can't

Whenever I want to change something whether it's a habit whether it's a thought or emotion or behavior

I say I'm going to work on this for 100 days not 30 days, not 21 days not 66 which is right around there

I said 100 days and

Then I focus all of my energies on that one thing for 100 days

Everything I didn't want to do is what got me to where I'm at today. I

Have the ability to see the end

Before the beginning even begins and what that means is I know that to get to the very end

I can see it right now. So before with the buds and I lose almost waste I saw myself walking across the stage

At 191 pounds guy, so I had to get it to get into the door. I

saw myself

Six months a year later, wherever's gonna take me to do it. I saw myself walking across that stage getting that

certificate of graduation from buds and I was able to be there at 300 pounds and

That feeling that I was nowhere near that feeling I was able to put myself there a million times

Everything that feeling of like my god that is gonna feel amazing

That's what made me suffer

That's what allowed the pain to be real and say this is worth it. I want to feel for this next 18 months

Give me 18 months to finally come on a visa finally, you know just get through but 18 months is six months. Took me 18

That's what woke me up. Every morning was I don't put myself through this much pain and suffering for a few

so it is a

few seconds of joy

It's so fortunate man, as some people don't get so I'm able to put myself at the finish line

you know, I have no finish line, but at the finish line of an event before I even start them they say

how are you gonna fill it in today when you change the

Way you look at things

The things you look at change, you have the most fundamental and major decision that you have to make in your life

is this

Do I live?

in a friendly

or a hostile universe

Which is it?

Is it a universe that is filled with?

Hostility and anger and people wanting to hate each other and people wanting to kill each other

Is that what you see because when you see the world that way that's exactly what you will create for yourself in your life

You know you and I both know intelligence is pretty damn valuable tool

but there are a lot of very smart people who can't fight their way out of a paper bag and

Then when you find somebody else that Hunger the hunger that doesn't go away

That hunger to be more to do more to give more that hunger that never ends

You know, that's how you get these people that are the best in the world at whatever they do

And so if you can I think everybody has that hunger

But for some people it's been asleep for a long time because they're afraid they're afraid that I'm gonna get hungry

I'm gonna try I'm gonna fail and so it's human nature to protect yourself from the fear by just lowering your expectations

But one things I've learned is you get what you tolerate

You get what you tolerate yourself you get rid you tolerate in your life and sooner or later. We sometimes hit a point

We stay not under the day under the hour. This is done. I'm not walking this way. I'm not talking this way

I'm not living this way. I'm not gonna be in this relationship anymore

I'm gonna change it and when people do that, that's the beginning of a breakthrough

I've got my work ethic from

Was the hours I had to spend learning this

When you sit down and you're not smart

You have a disability. Yeah, and you still want to be at the top of your class. I didn't want to skip I

What I realized that I can learn the hard work and I can beat the valedictorian in school

But I got put in ten hours more a day than he does know what kind of strength comes from that

when you're sitting down and that guy that that valetroy study for an hour, and you know, I caught you I

Caught you and I am dumb

But I have the work ethic to catch you. That's where David gagas got really invented was at a kitchen table

With 20 spiral notebooks that were empty and then three months later

They were four now. You can don't do that to have me about storage and you go through these power look books of your life

And you're like, this is how I learned

It's unbelievable. There's no models. It's not about the models is that

Having a discipline every day. They say for me to learn this one math club. It's gonna take me 10 hours and

That's where it and you realize the hard work

Do you can outwork anybody how badass they are? That's the part people don't want to dive it

A lot of us don't believe that we can achieve

The absolute impossible you need great parents you'll need like a private school

What you need is to brutal working

We have to be a bunch of out-of-work everybody in the world

An idiot

You

You