Name: If You Want To Know What It Takes To FIND and KEEP LOVE - WATCH THIS!
Uploaded: 2020-09-14T19:20:11.000Z
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The imperative

No, right, Because when you met her, you didn't love her.

It's that it's much easier to prove over time.

So if you were, if you were to go to the gym like exercise, right, If you go to the gym and you work out and you come back and you look in the mirror, you will see nothing.

And if you go to the gym the next day and you come back and you look in the mirror, you will see nothing, right?

So he clearly there's no results can't be measured.

Or if you fundamentally believe, that this is the right course of action and you stick with it like in a relationship.

I bought her flowers and I wish her happy birthday and she doesn't love me.

That's not what happens if you if you believe there's something there, you commit yourself to act on active service.

You commit yourself to the regime, be exercise.

But if you stick with it consistently, I'm not exactly sure what day.

But I know you'll start getting into shape.

I know on the same with the relationship.

You go to the dentist twice a year, your teeth will fall out.

You have to brush your teeth every day for two minutes.

What is brushing your day twice a day for two minutes?

Do nothing unless you do it every day, twice a day for two minutes, right?

Going to the gym for nine hours does not get you into shape.

Working out every day for 20 minutes gets you into shape.

So the problem is we treat leadership with intensity.

We give everybody certificate your leader right.

Those things were like going to the dentist.

That good for reminding us or getting us back on track, learning new lessons.

But it's the daily practice of all the monotonous little boring things.

Like brushing your teeth that matter the most.

She didn't fall in love with you because you remembered her birthday and bought her flowers on Valentine's Day.

She fell in love with you because when you woke up in the morning, you said good morning to her.

She fell in love with you because when you went to the fridge to get yourself a drink, you got her one without even asking.

She fell in love with you because when you had an amazing day at work and she came home and she had a terrible day at work, you didn't say Yeah, yeah, yeah, but let me tell you about my day.

You sat and listened to her awful day and you didn't say a thing about your amazing day.

I can't tell you exactly what day and it was.

It was the accumulation of all of those little things that she woke up one days and a Ziff.

It's It's an accumulation of lots and lots of little things that anyone, by themselves is innocuous and useless, literally pointless by themselves.

People will look at little things that are good leadership practice and say that won't work and you're absolutely right.

But if you do it consistently and you do it in combination with lots of other little things, like saying good morning to someone that looking him in the eye my friend George was there a three star general in the Marine Corps, he says, His test for leadership and I love this.

If you ask somebody how their day is going, you actually care about the answer.

Number of times were walking to a meeting were rushing.

If you ask the question, you were standing there and you're listening to the answer.

It's those little innocuous things that you do over and over and over and over that people will say, I love my job, but I like my job.

They pay me Well, I like the people I love.

My job means I don't wanna work anywhere else.

I don't care how much somebody else is willing to pay me.

I'm devoted to the people here and I care desperately about the people.

Here is if they were my family in business, we have colleagues and coworkers in the military.

If you really have a strong corporate culture, the people will think of each other like brothers and sisters.

The love doesn't go away and I'll fight with my sister.

But if you threaten my sister, you're gonna have to deal with me, right?

Well, bicker with each other, but nobody's gonna hurt each other.

And if anything from the outside shows up, you're looking at a unified front.

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