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  • All right.

  • Welcome to another interview, guys.

  • Who got Cameron today?

  • You know, your least favorite character in the start of Siri's.

  • They talk five character in the start of serious.

  • Yeah.

  • I mean, thanks for coming.

  • You were definitely the cheapest toe get here.

  • So think you're paying everyone else all right?

  • I don't pay a buck.

  • All right, That's good.

  • Start first things first for people who know who washed the start.

  • Siri's.

  • Well, first of all, if you don't watch it, you should watch it right now.

  • Okay, There we go.

  • Now, the thing about Cameron in startup Siri's is that he's a very hungry say, a romantic character.

  • He's very passionate and stuff like that.

  • So how are you in real life is, like, the only know you Cameron as a character, but they don't know you as you.

  • Well, they say life imitates art.

  • I think romantics a nice term desperate is probably a better term for the 3% of viewers who are women.

  • I am single, you know, um, I think at the beginning, I didn't really know what my character was going to be on the start of Siri's, and then I just came to realize like my acting's not great, but I could be myself.

  • I think you're acting is great, unless that's just yourself.

  • I am a loveable dork and really right.

  • Like when I was struggling doing push ups, I was actually starting to put.

  • That wasn't acting.

  • That was reality.

  • I did tell you to do like a shit ton, but because we kept, we kept like we're taking the same thing.

  • I was exhausted by the end of the heavy breaths.

  • Those those were real.

  • There's a little bit of reality.

  • There's a little bit of a joke.

  • I think it's me to the extreme.

  • So so are you a programmer?

  • Are something else in the start?

  • Siri's your programmer.

  • I've written how little world in a few different languages impressed, But no, I'm not a program data scientist.

  • So your data scientist, it's nice.

  • So let's talk about career now.

  • So as a data scientist, first of all, where did you work?

  • Uh, graduated out of UC Berkeley on, and then I worked for tender for a couple of years, and now I am working on unnamed large tech company in the bay.

  • Well, sec, I wonder what that is.

  • No idea, Dio.

  • They call it like head pages.

  • I think of that.

  • I wonder I wonder what it is.

  • You know the way so tender was your first job?

  • Yeah, that is crazy.

  • Interesting.

  • So you might know a lot about relationships or at least dating.

  • I'm one of those people who joined tinder cause I didn't know how to relationships.

  • I think, like maybe I've learned So did you learn anything?

  • Oh, yeah.

  • I learned a lot.

  • I went on How many dates wise?

  • My first year.

  • A tender.

  • I went on one date.

  • It was bad.

  • Well, maybe you were just very selective, right?

  • No, I was right.

  • It's, like, constantly get along matches, though.

  • No, no, no, no.

  • I had to put in work to get matches, But, you know, the first year was closer, Roughy.

  • And then eventually I started figuring out what to do and everything I'm like.

  • No, I was going on dates one or two dates a week by like, my second year a tender just cause I figured out what todo wow, That's actually a lot one or two days a week.

  • I'm a first date machine second day.

  • It's not so much you never once done kind of deal.

  • I'm gonna ask you more questions about that later because I want some tips also.

  • Yeah.

  • So you went to Berkeley and then wait, What did your study such?

  • That you went to data.

  • So how do you even know about data signs?

  • Good question.

  • Um, so I was bioengineer numerically.

  • I was pre med on.

  • Then I took organic chemistry and realized they hated it.

  • So you're supposed to be a doctor?

  • Yeah.

  • Your parents thought you were gonna be adult.

  • Parents are both doctors.

  • They wanted me to be a doctor.

  • He'd sold you yet?

  • Uh, a little bit.

  • They made me take the cat when I Really Yeah.

  • They didn't make me study.

  • I did not do well on it, but they made me take it because they wanted me to change my mind.

  • They were hoping, you know that the change in their heart of hearts the TV I have to do is eight hours with so much fun.

  • But I gotta do this more.

  • I got like, Caribbean med school scores.

  • What does that mean?

  • So, like Kat, you got to get like, 10 points above the average to get into, like, a good U S.

  • Med school, huh?

  • I got four points above the average, which, just like you can get into a Caribbean med school is where, like, people go if they don't get into any of US men.

  • Schools hang out there for two years.

  • I did premed.

  • I graduated premed, But I knew at that point I didn't want to do do bio anymore.

  • I want to do some mixture of stats and psychology, so I blood Ph.

  • D is in game theory on.

  • I haven't taken a single e con class in my life.

  • And so I got rejected from every single PhD that I applied to, and so I I panicked a bit applied to 115 jobs out of undergrad on.

  • Then it was mixture of lake analytics, product management's and then you ex research in the Analects.

  • Once we're the only ones that really call me back because I had the math background for it.

  • So then I went into analytics a tender.

  • You were doing biomedical engineering.

  • Yeah, and, uh, and there were a lot of math and that I guess Yeah.

  • I mean, it's like a lot of engineering classes I like.

  • I like stats.

  • So I did a lot of stats class on the side and everything, like the bio in itself was enough to handle any of the math that you do is a data scientist.

  • Yeah, that makes sense.

  • Because I was wondering, with that degree today, even like, look at you because I feel like it would feel like, I guess, No, my team.

  • There's a lot of people who are late by on physics Peach to use like, yeah, my data science teams.

  • There's like a lot of people who came from, like a bio engineering background, actually more who do that, then come from like a stats, background or a math background.

  • And then when you start your first shot, but tender, did you enjoy it or did you not like, Why'd you switch?

  • I liked it, but I was working out in Texas.

  • Texas is one of those places.

  • Were like, If you have a family, it's nice.

  • It's great place.

  • Public golden retriever, two kids, white picket fence.

  • But like a 22 year old, you can only eat so much barbecue on, like I was putting on weight.

  • And I didn't really have any friends out there because I've never lived out there.

  • It always lived in California, and so, like, it just is boring.

  • So I tried to move back to the day, and when I did, I was recruited.

  • You could get really huge houses there is right.

  • She Did you get a nice house, like, $200,000 or so?

  • You should all move to Texas before it rises up again.

  • I mean, a lot of companies are going to Austin at this point.

  • Okay, well, I guess the price is gonna rise that it's going to It sucks.

  • So, did you study for your data science interviews?

  • I spent a week Marnix equal, like E did I think w three schools.

  • I just picked it up super quickly.

  • Also learned a lot from brilliant dot or GE.

  • That's be our sponsor.

  • This we're not gonna give them free sponsorship about that.

  • To get the data science interview, you need sequel, and then you need either are or Python.

  • And honestly, that's about it.

  • Like when I interviewed for analyst positions, like on the other end of the interviewer.

  • I kept on seeing resumes that were just, like, packed with every programming language possible and, like I usually trash them because the reality is that, like all these people have the exact same resume, like it's literally template ID.

  • Not like Doc, exactly.

  • Word for word, but, like, objectively the same.

  • And then when I see 100 of those, I don't know which 100 to pick.

  • So I don't think any of them the reason being like I look for people who have some distinct interest in the field, and that gives me a better signal like there's a reason they're applying this job instead of just slamming their resume out everywhere.

  • Sounds a little bit like dating.

  • It does sound a little bit like because, you know, my profile just generic.

  • So I complied most.

  • Do you have a can pick up line?

  • No, I don't.

  • Actually, I just say, Hey, you say hey and that works.

  • No, you're looking.

  • I mean, that's the thing.

  • Like if they're girls, I don't care about that.

  • I say, Hey, because if they say hey back and talk to me, they must really like me.

  • So I'd be down if someone's reads like, really into me, right?

  • But if it's someone that I think she's so hot early, which is so interesting, then I'll take more like I'll take the time to like like a profile try, think of a funny line and then do it.

  • How many responses do you get when you say Hey?

  • No.

  • When I tell you, yeah.

  • Oh, yeah, I went out of 10.

  • That's actually pretty good.

  • Really, That's actually not bad.

  • So I mean, I don't get along matches either, right?

  • So you're saying as if you have 10 matches Do you think is in complete sampling a small numbers, half a response on five.

  • So what did you learn about dating when you worked at Tender Man so much?

  • I'm gonna try not talking about the math part first, because like, I think there's a lot of cool math and there's a lot of the optimization, like what I learned more about was kind of the mindset of dating off.

  • And by that I mean, like, you can really go into dating with two different mindsets.

  • Well, first off, you could just not date, and I know a lot of people do that and like they're happy doing that.

  • But they also want to get married, and they just don't know when that's going toe switch.

  • That little switch is gonna flip and they're gonna be like, Wait, I need to start dating so people kind of push it off.

  • That's one, like, failed mindset.

  • But the one that that a lot of people have is that, like the first dates and interview on that, like you're trying to gauge them.

  • You're trying to be impressed by them, and you're also trying to impress them, and it makes it really stressful.

  • And I was guilty of this when I started dating to where I was like, Oh, God, I have to be like my best form.

  • I gotta put on my nicest shirt.

  • I got it like gel up my hair and all that kind of stuff.

  • I mean, Joel, here it looks really bad, by the way.

  • I eventually really easily dating is about the process, like the process itself is the part that's meant to be enjoyable just meeting people doing things that you want to do.

  • Anyway, I started going on like fun dates instead of just getting dinner every single time.

  • So I'd start doing, like, many goal for even, like, laser tag.

  • Like these childish Blake.

  • Fun dates, like hiking, all that kind of stuff.

  • Just that you enjoy the experience and like having someone there with you makes it that much better.

  • It's no large contingent on the person.

  • One of things I learned a tender from, like, all of the research and interviews idea is that, like, the people who go into that mindset are just so much happier with the process.

  • And they're a lot more successful too Interesting.

  • Like, I think, fundamentally, I'm kind of the same.

  • Like, I just wanna have fun and stuff like that.

  • You know, I'm not trying to impress them.

  • It's on interview, but the process is totally different versus you.

  • So you're trying to have, like, a fun date, you know, like laser tag and stuff like that.

  • I always do the same day.

  • What's your date?

  • Oh, fuck.

  • What's your move?

  • I don't know if I can say this, uh, because there's a fucking Okay.

  • Oh, my God.

  • So everyone shits on my on my move because it's It is the shoes I bring them to the unnamed company.

  • Okay, where we work.

  • So I bring them there once was like, That's the dumbest thing.

  • It's like it's not a good day or whatever, but for me, it's because I want a risk date, right?

  • Because I don't know if I'm gonna like you're not.

  • So why am I gonna invest much time and money into you?

  • And then because I bring them to campus, it's free.

  • Aren't you nervous about like coworkers?

  • Seeing you like going on like a random date Like the cafeteria, though not carraway like Well, like I mean, isn't it cool for manly?

  • Oh, yeah, Date.

  • I've always liked so paranoid that lake people will start whispering and muttering about whatever you're like.

  • One of my nightmares I run into a co worker went on a date or something.

  • I want them to talk about it.

  • I want them to be like, oh, journals on the day, a kind of thing.

  • But anyway, so the thing is, even before I went to unnamed large company, my dates would be always the same as in, like it's dinner at the same place dessert at the same place, like it's like rehearsed Kind of.

  • Do you have rehearsed conversations too?

  • Okay.

  • Rehearse conversations?

  • No, but rehearsed topics.

  • Yes, because Because they always in naturally goes into those topics.

  • Right?

  • But But the thing is, I'm not trying to, like, show them really cool or that it's like an interview, or I want to get to know that almost.

  • I don't try to get to know them.

  • E o not surprised, but in a good way, because Because I think Okay, honestly, I think my second date ratios air is pretty good because I try to entertain them for the first day.

  • You know, like my best jokes or whatever.

  • I just have fun of them.

  • So I kind of want to break the ice as soon as possible.

  • And that's how I do it.

  • Yeah, I learned nothing about them, and they usually are nothing about me either.

  • But we just talk about really random stuff that's funny or fun.

  • I think the reason why it goes to the second date so often is because one, for once they don't feel like that awkward, small talk are trying to force yourself to learn about the other person because we didn't learn about each other.

  • You know, it was purely just fun, right?

  • Well, that's how I enjoy my first days at least.

  • And this is one of things that I mean, I learned is that, you know, first date, you check off the boxes for the other person somewhat so, like, you don't necessarily asking about their deepest personal secrets, but like you find out if they're compatible Religion.

  • You asked about politics, these things that are actually considered taboo, like ensuring that compatibility like, saves you a lot of time.

  • Especially like in the bay.

  • Late word politics is such a big deal here.

  • If I'm dating a girl and like, um, she's not cool with the fact that I'm libertarian and not liberal, which a lot of girls here like aren't like, you know, I'm not.

  • I'm not crazy about it.

  • But like if she's crazy about it ends right there.

  • LA People assume that getting to the second date is like a positive step.

  • I think a lot of times avoiding the second date could be a positive step in that, like you're getting that signal fast enough that you figure out whether or not you actually have interest in this person, and that's not me.

  • Rationalizing, cool.

  • I never going like, I think, you know, And in general, whenever I've gone past the second date, it's been with someone I've actually been very compatible with, and I feel like that's been more valuable to me than kind of wasting my time on second and third dates with people I'm not actually interested in.

  • I think that makes a lot of sense because, yeah, I know most of the times like even if I go to seven days their dates, I don't really like the girl that much right.

  • And I think that's a problem, because I wasn't optimizing for like, oh, finding someone, it's compatible.

  • It was me, just maybe, just like a Eagle thing.

  • Try and be like, Oh, yeah, I got to the second date kind of thing and it was a lot less about us, but more about me kind of thing.

  • I think it's really easy to set up checkpoints like even everyone does this on tender to write, you compare how many matches you have right of the people.

  • Part of it's because the process is gamma fied and so, like it's really easy to tie things to it and calculate exactly how you're doing and track all that.

  • It's addictive, you know, gets people to keep on using it for a potential girlfriend that there are certain check boxes, right?

  • But these check boxes don't really mean anything.

  • Once I start talking them and I just really enjoy myself with them, I always end up in the stage where it's like, Oh, I really enjoy this person But she doesn't have the certain check boxes.

  • You know, it's it's a little bit shallow, but for a girlfriend or at least like or like a wife, you know, I want her to make yeah, at least decent my college educated stuff like that.

  • But sometimes I meet girls who are, like not college educated, even or even they do something that I really don't care about you.

  • But I have a lot of fun with them, so I continued.

  • But it always has to end.

  • Hang out.

  • Yeah, go on.

  • They had suffered through them a lot, right?

  • Because I do enjoy their company.

  • But then once it comes to like something more serious, this has to end and I feel like I've wasted a lot of time because of them.

  • A guy like that whole, like useless things.

  • Like crying yourself, wiping away the tears with your money.

  • People just look at me and think of a piece of meat because, you know, dating is count like fun.

  • All right, You have to get match first, and then you have to get whatever.

  • But other than that, how do you optimize the top of the funnel, which is through dating APS?

  • Yeah, 99% of your profile.

  • It's your photos, right?

  • Urbina says that bio matters about doesn't matter.

  • Um, I'm gonna call out one of my favorite books, which is data quiz.

  • Um, it's written by Christian Rudder.

  • He's the former CEO of OK, Cupid.

  • Really smart guy.

  • Really fun guy.

  • And he did a lot of analytics, so he'd actually eventually stepped on a CEO 50% CEO and then 50% just writing the blogging, doing analytics.

  • Okay, because that's what he really loved doing.

  • And one of his post is about how they tried to have OK, Cupid users rate other users based on their looks, that based on their personality, if you had really good books.

  • You also got raided really high on personality.

  • Even if you had a blank bio, I thought this one girl, if he was like it's like a black and white model photo of her with, like, a longer something.

  • Here, you can you can just edit it.

  • And right here something like that Here, like average personality radios, like a 4.5 out of five result.

  • Think just cause she was that hot, it really is Your photos that matter.

  • Um, I don't think many people aren't actually ugly.

  • I think a lot of people just I don't feel comfortable having photos taken of them like myself.

  • 100% included there.

  • So when I started tender, I had a lot of like blurry photos, bad lighting, no group photos, that kind of stuff because I don't like being in front of the camera in one of those people were like my natural reaction to seeing cameras to do like a stupid face kind of thing.

  • It's just I did that all is even as a kid, I fixed a lot of That's like I wouldn't have a smile normally kind of upgrading my photos of it the more you learn to use, like the timer.

  • Or you could take selfies with a good camera.

  • I have friends, So yeah, Friends O e.

  • I don't think any of my photos yourself is God.

  • I hope they aren't.

  • You know, my profile picture like the black and white one.

  • Yeah, actually, most of them.

  • That's right.

  • That's a timer.

  • Right?

  • So what?

  • I mean, it is a selfie as, and I took it, but yeah, it's a timer.

  • How many takes did you have to do for that one?

  • I don't know, like twentysomething 30.

  • So either you are dedicated.

  • D'oh.

  • I do a lot of faces.

  • The only bad except one.

  • That's like Okay.

  • And then when I put on like Facebook, people secretly tell me like, Oh, by the way, it's not a good photo.

  • Fuck, It's like you don't know what's a good photo of yourself?

  • Not always, right.

  • There is one, like secret trick that those actually work, which is including dogs in your profile.

  • It was one of stereotypical things where people think it doesn't matter that much, but it boosts your rights white bread by like a huge margin.

  • Just having a dog in your profile, even if it's not your dog.

  • I didn't have my dog in my phone.

  • I have a dog and I had a cuter dog in my photos instead.

  • But dogs no longer a puppy side Defy this other puppy and put him in E.

  • I don't love you.

  • Absolutely love my dog.

  • I'm sorry.

  • Static.

  • Very good boy.

  • So I guess we're to remain in the time we just talk about like you as a person because, you know, people want to get to know you.

  • I think at least like the people in this squared you only five people who are interested get 10 views on this bad boy.

  • So, what do you do for fun?

  • So I was a competitive gamer in college.

  • Um, legal legends.

  • Fucking no idea.

  • Yeah.

  • Yeah.

  • Never told you about this.

  • How much I played.

  • I've been playing since season one.

  • I got up to like High Master was really close.

  • Challenger back in the day.

  • So I used to play a lot, just end up on, like, pro streams just to get recognized.

  • That was like a big motivator for me.

  • A simple enough I'm not really, is good.

  • But, like just the fact that people knew my name was so satisfying to me, even if they didn't think I was a good player for my rating, you know, for being one of the worst players.

  • That was already a piece.

  • Oh, I know so know what did.

  • So, Yeah, you know me too.

  • Holy Shed.

  • It was fun.

  • It was a time sync.

  • Um, I still play that I do bar trivia bar.

  • Shit.

  • Yeah, I was equitable nerd in high school.

  • Weight was a tribute for anything.

  • Which shows are It's a lot of pop culture, a lot of pop culture.

  • I'm a sports buff, mostly e fancy football, and I watch a lot of hockey.

  • I'll goto maybe five or six Sharks games a year, beginning into couple weird things Recently, I'm getting not weird, really weird for me.

  • Be getting into meditation.

  • Oh, that's good.

  • That's been tried getting into it.

  • Yeah, I was okay for a while, but then I suddenly stopped trying to wait, but why do you like meditating?

  • I recognized out it's like getting stressed just off.

  • And so, like, it was one of those things where I was like I need to control this.

  • They use headspace.

  • Yeah, that's bass.

  • That's a G.

  • What level are you, bro?

  • I mean, I've only been doing now for, like, a few weeks.

  • Yeah, amateur hour here.

  • But it's been helping so far.

  • I think it's important to get that, like I'm going to make a bold statement.

  • I don't know if it's true.

  • I think anxiety and depression are pretty common in the Bay Area due to the amount of stress that work puts on you here.

  • Like, I definitely felt more stressed here than I did when I was living out in Texas, and I think that's true.

  • For like a lot of other people, it's been one thing.

  • The other one.

  • I have started to learn Mandarin so I can hit on Chinese co workers.

  • I'm starting to learn, like basic sentences, understand the tones, that kind of stuff, one of things where I feel like it's actually useful to know here, given that, like so many of my co workers, really native Mandarin speakers, whenever have learned the language in the past, you hit that point where you start speaking it with people and then, like I didn't have anyone to speak anything with.

  • Um, here.

  • I don't think that's gonna be a problem.

  • Eso lots of co workers.

  • Cool.

  • All right, well, that's about it.

  • Thank you so much for the interview.

  • Thank you.

  • Thank you.

  • Thank you.

  • Dating.

  • You know, hopefully a lot of my viewers.

  • We're gonna get some tips and tricks and then they won't watch my videos anymore because they have something better to do.

  • If you hit up the discord, I will give out some profile critiques.

  • Thio.

  • It takes me like, 30 seconds.

  • Both thio critique a profile and also in bed so quick, Coco.

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