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  • How would my exes describe our relationship?

  • So we met at at an air show on her base.

  • We're both in the military.

  • We met at a college party in Chicago who made the first move.

  • I did.

  • I definitely made the first move.

  • I definitely make the first move.

  • I saw her and came upto introduce myself.

  • The move.

  • Waas.

  • Um I wrote her first on Tender.

  • Hey, how you doing?

  • You're beautiful.

  • I want to get to know you a little bit better.

  • I said, What's up?

  • What's up?

  • How are you doing?

  • I'm Jamal.

  • He was attracted to my boss.

  • Had a nice little booty.

  • We're gonna be really her eyes and her lips.

  • She has beautiful eyes.

  • And I was attracted to him.

  • My smile, my sense of humor.

  • I feel like I was funny, making jokes left and right.

  • So I'd like to think I'm a handsome guy.

  • So maybe my vibe or confidence.

  • His first impression of me.

  • Waas Wow!

  • Looking at a rose like that.

  • She had a great personality.

  • Thought she was funny, which is rare.

  • He thought I looked like diet from orange is the new black.

  • Those Hispanic girls from my orange is the new black Nicki Minaj.

  • I thought he looked like Omar Epps from 11 basketball hocking from empire like a younger Don Cheeto from Avengers.

  • So she picked up on that.

  • My type is 20 guys likes people with a sense of humor, someone who's adventurous confidence.

  • Have a nice smile like you got me.

  • I kind of think it's because my mom is a dental assistant.

  • She's always emphasized, like having good hygiene our first date.

  • Waas.

  • She wasn't from L.

  • A.

  • So I showed her the Hollywood Walk of Fame way saw the stars that were on the ground.

  • And then we went for some typos at Belmont Park is a carnival that usually goes on around there.

  • I do remember us playing this one game where I want her a teddy bear.

  • It was like a little teddy bear.

  • The real first date could be considered when she came to visit me in L.

  • A.

  • And then we went to Roscoe's Chicken and Waffles to eat our first kiss.

  • Waas.

  • After the movies, I saw Incredibles, too.

  • You know the movie and made me feel like kissing.

  • I just kind of, you know, the second date.

  • So it was like, you know, clock's ticking as I was dropping her home was kind of like a movie scene.

  • You know?

  • I looked at her and she looked at me and I just went for the kill First Kiss was at L a x airport when she got here big hug and kiss and was very happy to finally like, see her stuff We loved to eat, going out to eat our song Waas She had a song for us.

  • Chris Brown One of those at your best via Leah Kazatchkine.

  • This you, uh definitely not singing it.

  • So no necks.

  • No, I don't I wouldn't say we had a song with you.

  • With you, With you, With you with you The best picture of us.

  • This is Barbara apartment complex.

  • We're on our way to Chick fil A Man.

  • Stupid.

  • I'll snap that.

  • She still got it.

  • Go to date Restaurant Waas Outback Roscoe's We love to watch power.

  • Power power I introduced him to She introduced me to a lot of her culture.

  • But Tom Ince gay too.

  • She introduced me to the Machado, so I kind of tried to start learning that I always like to teach guys how to dance.

  • Oh, no, I'm not that good.

  • And that was a while ago.

  • Just like a little You gotta And he introduced me to well, the t G.

  • I own Cajun chicken, shrimp pasta.

  • That's that's like my signature things.

  • So I put her on and put on a game about that.

  • He loves new hiking spots.

  • I'm African.

  • So I put her up on, like, gel a price and spinach do and some dishes that, like for my culture.

  • So our sex life waas pretty cool.

  • Non existent, I say, actually excited.

  • Pretty good.

  • I'd like to think I handle my business in that department.

  • I would call him Babe Big Mostly Babe Bay by fee.

  • And he would call me J or baby My mom uses love sand, Full name, just a piss her off.

  • My family thought he waas I think they like me.

  • That was pretty cool.

  • Her parents thought that I was a gentleman.

  • That was cool.

  • They thought I was a good guy unless it was somehow my back out and his family thought I waas I think she liked it honestly.

  • Is no.

  • There's never a real answer.

  • They thought that she might be someone that's very good for me.

  • They like her.

  • She's too sweet and innocent.

  • What was she doing with me?

  • He got me Michael Porter first.

  • I'll just get her flowers randomly.

  • We'll go.

  • It doesn't like fires.

  • I got her some Chanel perfume, though.

  • They're the ones that you only spray once or twice.

  • You can't be like I got him.

  • She got me some more red and white.

  • Dennis Rodman's actually more right now.

  • No, I mean Michael cores loathe best thing he did for me, probably surprising her with the purse that I said that the perfume.

  • But I feel like it was unexpected from me to her.

  • Always pushed her to be better to do better.

  • The best thing I did for him, not maybe more of a positive person.

  • She made me laugh, and not a lot of people do that being each other's support and having each other's back in a relationship.

  • I'm really good at.

  • When I was feeling insecure, nervous, she kind of made me feel like everything was gonna be okay.

  • I like that.

  • She was very spontaneous.

  • That was one time I asked her if she ever dined and dashed before, and I was just like and I was about to do it.

  • I walked up and she did, too, But I was just don't get it.

  • She was a great at communicating in the morning text throughout the day tags.

  • Even it I could be better at.

  • She would get pissed off about either me liking pictures of comedy and or other girls combination, and she just won't say anything about in this, which is let it bubble up.

  • And then out of nowhere, which is World War two, I feel like she could speak her mind.

  • More relationship.

  • I couldn't really say she was.

  • She pretty much checked all the boxes.

  • Did we say I love you?

  • Yeah, I wear T G I Friday's and she's just said it out of nowhere.

  • I don't know if it's something I did, but she said it first, and Mr kind of surprised me when I said it back.

  • I took her on a hike one day somewhere in San Diego and we were looking over the view of the city and I felt it was just the right time and safe and I said it and she said it back.

  • Definitely.

  • I said it first face time.

  • It just kind of came up after a few months were just building and bonding just kind of came out.

  • Luckily, she said it back.

  • Who's the better driver need?

  • I'm definitely the better driver I know there are going to say they are, but I know I who's more like 80 win an argument.

  • Truth.

  • I can win every argument, but I just don't because it's always a time.

  • She is me.

  • Is that a real question?

  • He knew my favorite food.

  • Waas Chick fil a spicy chicken Dominican food rice I loved to make and food like the rice.

  • So my most used emoji is the one with the hand on a chin.

  • The guy like that or with one little glasses.

  • Is it the smart with hunger?

  • It's the one where they're thinking, and they're like my celebrity crush is bad Bunny.

  • This Hispanic artists, Bad bunny, Prince Royce, Prince Royce.

  • My favorite celebrity is, I would say cardi B cardi B cardi B Bad bunny.

  • My favorite movie is I don't know anything.

  • Tyler Perry Tyler Perry movies.

  • Those in like all of those.

  • Like Diary of a Mad Black Woman.

  • I Love Tyler Perry Movies.

  • Diary of a Mad Black Woman.

  • That's a good one.

  • My favorite sports team is Detroit ING Detroit Pistons Detroit Pistons.

  • Not even gonna lie to you.

  • I don't want a sports that much.

  • I only claim to try persons cause I went to school.

  • He knew I loved to travel to the Dominican Republic.

  • Dominican Republic.

  • She love coming to Cali, Dominican Republic.

  • That's where my family's.

  • He knows.

  • I'm really proud of my being in the Marines, her culture, her family.

  • I'm proud that I joined the Marine Corps.

  • Not many people can say that they're in the military, so that's something unique about me.

  • My favorite hobby is putting on makeup.

  • She played piano really well.

  • She liked to sing.

  • I love to play the piano.

  • I always wanted to her wonder about her parents.

  • A house she wanted to give back to her mom.

  • You know, she just wants to, like, buy her family like a big house.

  • I always told my mom and dad I got you all your bills.

  • Don't worry about it.

  • I'm gonna get you a house ya good.

  • My most cherished item is so far.

  • Her hair was probably sometime Mom gave her doc Tex.

  • I, like, made copies and give it to my parents.

  • Something I always say is he would always say that you got this now.

  • More non lesbo ideas.

  • Mia ideas meal I'm most afraid of.

  • Definitely scared of bugs.

  • Scared of the sight of them.

  • She would be scared if she heard that there was a bug in the room.

  • I would say her biggest fear is being someone other than who she feels.

  • She is not being able to do what she wants to do for a found.

  • I'm most afraid of failure.

  • He knows I hate when somebody's online presence is not the same.

  • Like in reality, she hates that a caller out for snoring.

  • She hates being rushed, being rushed Something that always makes me happy is food, food, food.

  • One word that describes me best is social Karen dynamic, confident.

  • We broke up because long distance jealousy.

  • I guess it was trust issues.

  • Remember her face time and me and me being somewhere and she saw like people in the background.

  • She felt like I was living this Hollywood lifestyle going out to the parties with all these different women and stuff like that.

  • I think that kind of caused some type of insecurity.

  • I would say the timing was just kind of off, like we didn't get to see each other as much wanted to know.

  • So we felt it was best averages.

  • We broke up because I got caught cheating.

  • She kind of saw the girl that I was messing with, all my instagram heavy, all multiple occasions and I brought it to me and I couldn't really lie about it.

  • I would go out her paid.

  • I would just put two and two together and I just knew so.

  • Then I confronted him about it and he admitted to it.

  • Jamie, we broke up because over time we just started to lose that same spark with long distance.

  • That tends to happen in person.

  • It would be great.

  • But then, as soon as I would go back home, the energy was not the same with Jody.

  • We broke up because our schedules were too busy.

  • We were too occupied with work.

  • We dated for a year.

  • Some change for about four months for about a year.

  • My worst habit Waas being on the phone a lot.

  • He was just late to everything.

  • I don't think I got a chance toe see, Like all of the bad habits could we weren't around each other day in and day out, and his worst habit was she thinks I was too friendly.

  • I'm pretty stubborn texting other girls of ivory.

  • He hated my I hated that.

  • She was always on her phone.

  • Like whenever she would come to town, she would still be on phone.

  • Stepping on instagram on our time was valuable to me.

  • So I just didn't like some of the stuff that she posted on Instagram.

  • I didn't really have anything, does she That I hated the worst thing he did to me, I guess hang up real fast, doing like certain arguments.

  • I was just kind of ended and I just said it all down.

  • Just just hang up in the face.

  • You're gonna have to ask her.

  • Betrayed her trust by cheating on her.

  • Jamal cheat on me, Jamie, when he would get mad, he would block me house.

  • I'm gonna get in contact with Jodi, not see each other as often as we could and the worst thing I did to him.

  • Waas after an argument, she would probably blocked me on all every social media platform, even my number so I could even get a tech stock.

  • She didn't really do anything to me.

  • They really didn't do anything.

  • But we always fought about me going out and people that was around me being around women, tied for being late all the time.

  • Nothing, really.

  • We vibe so well together.

  • It was not much to argue or fight about for Jamal and Jamie.

  • We argued the most about the lack of communication.

  • I got over the break up after maybe a month, maybe like a few few months with Jamal instantly.

  • Once you mess up by with Jamie, I would say about a month or two, Jody, like a week or two.

  • Were we in love?

  • Yeah, we want I wouldn't say we're in love.

  • We said we love each other, but we weren't in love with Jamal.

  • I thought I was in love with Jamie.

  • I was in love.

  • And with Jody, um, I had we had love for each other, but I don't think it got that deep into being in love.

  • How did things And we both kind of had a conversation about this whole long distance thing, and and I think that was like the main issue that was kind of in the way of us having a good relationship.

  • So we just came to a mutual agreement.

  • We understood each other and our friends at his day.

  • Hey, Jen.

  • Oh, I said, Jim, I was there, You know?

  • Another excellent thin end of the relationship was when she caught a girl in my instagram comments under.

  • Like all of my pictures, he put two and two together and call me out, and she was a Ford.

  • Are we still on good terms?

  • We're still on good terms because I feel like we were always compatible or friends we talk off.

  • Then it's not too often but here in their check upon each other.

  • Our relationship now is just a friendship, which is super cool.

  • What we date again, different terms.

  • Yet if the timing was right, Yes, I don't think we would be the match to date again because, like we're going in two different directions in our lives, and I think like it wouldn't mess up for a relationship, but it would be super dope like to be continued friendship.

  • If I would date one of them, it would probably Joey, just because of how cool we were and how much we divide together.

  • The best thing to come out of the relationship.

  • Waas our friendship, our friendship, clarity.

  • I learned just like I need to communicate super thoroughly with whom, whom with whomever I'm in a relationship with so that leg stuff doesn't go south.

  • Basically, he would say he misses my.

  • I think it's just humor.

  • I miss her.

  • Being able to spend time with her I'm is most are long space time sessions and I would say I miss his thing.

  • My advice.

  • I think it gave a great advice.

  • The adventures that I took her on.

  • I think she misses my goofy personality.

  • He'd always be done for adventures.

  • I could feel safe with him, and he always somewhat I could go talk to you.

  • He would always have me dying over after.

  • I think he would tell my future boyfriends, Uh, don't waste time arguing with you're not gonna win a trophy for winning the argument and then when you do an argument is like you lost.

  • Be patient.

  • She's funny.

  • She's adventurous.

  • She's cool.

  • Just take your time.

  • You have a good woman.

  • Do right by her.

  • She'll do so much good to you and four year olds relationship.

  • What am I looking for?

  • Someone with a good sense of humor who's willing to go with me and who's a writer die?

How would my exes describe our relationship?

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