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If we find ourselves in a relationship, we will assiduously practice the arts of what psychologists call distance management. When the chance of reaching a truly happy state appears, we'll subtly discover ways to introduce a chasm. We'll have an argument, spoil a birthday, ruin a holiday. We'll find we have to do a lot of work for an upcoming exam or presentation, that our gang of friends needs us to be somewhere else, that we forgot to return the credit card or tax bill, that our appearance requires a lot of our attention or that we like to flirt with a stranger at a party who suddenly seems very attractive indeed. In both tiny and large ways, we'll know just how to lower the mood, scupper a bond and destroy trust. Perhaps not enough to end a relationship completely, but certainly enough to worry our partner sufficiently as to our solidity that we can be privately sure things will never truly fly. Friends may commiserate with us on our so-called bad luck. Psychologists will note our superlative skill at romantic sabotage. With this to sound a bit like us, compassion is required. We should reflect back on our pasts and wonder at the connection between our fractured bonds with parental figures and our disrupted adult attachments. We aren't like this because we're wicked, we've just been very badly hurt. Once we understand how our skill at independence was acquired, we'll be in a better position to see that it has in reality outlived its rationale. We may still feel immensely apprehensive at the prospect of contentment, but we may finally be able to admit that we are, first and foremost, acting out of fear. Rather than dismissing our partners, we may stick closer to a much more awkward truth – that we're tempted to draw away from them because we're immensely scared that they might finally be in a position to make us very happy – and that simply nothing so unutterably and boundlessly frightening has ever happened to us before.
certainly enough to worry our partner sufficiently as to our solidity that we can be privately sure things will never truly fly.
It's that thin line accounting for genre solidity that's really interesting.
It's that thin line accounting for genre solidity that's really interesting: there's one between
However, this hill is called the mountain, being only about 400 meters high, for the sake of bigger solidity.
However, this hill is called the mountain, being only about 400 meters high, for the sake of bigger solidity.
Joe Montana and the 49ers gave the Broncos a lesson in offensive potency and defensive solidity that left their opponents totally bereft of options.
Joe Montana and the 49ers gave the Broncos a lesson in offensive potency and defensive solidity that left their opponents totally bereft of options.
He also began dispatching teams of specialists to his restaurants to keep tabs on whether or not their spuds had the correct water content and solidity levels.
If I may so express it, he has a right to be proud." "That is very true," replied Elizabeth, "and I could easily forgive his pride, if he had not mortified mine." "Pride," observed Mary, who peeked herself upon the solidity of her reflections, "is a very common veiling, I believe.
"Pride," observed Mary, who piqued herself upon the solidity of her reflections, "is a
Nazism. After all, none of Hitler's furious speeches targeted her. No Luftwaffe raid gunned for her. And yet, in a sense, the atmosphere of mayhem and unbounded violence generated by Hitler and his gang were to blame for unbalancing the fragile mind of possibly the greatest writer of the 20th century, living in a quiet English village far from any bomb or concentration camp. Woolf's case stands as a warning and a reminder of susceptibility. For those of us who are not wholly steady inside, whose minds have been placed under enormous stress by early losses and abuses, what happens in the political realm is not as distinct from us as it might be and may prove especially charged and especially dangerous. The hateful voices and motives we see far away can't help but evoke those we have known too well from our vicinity and that we have fought for many years to keep at bay. We may have a special need, more than we realised, for the world to show evidence of solidity and goodness to counterbalance the violations of the past. If we find ourselves so-called abnormally affected, if the shouting and the hate and the betrayals and the viciousness cut deep into our minds, we need to take particular care. We may need to fight with extra courage and assiduously enlist the love of all who care about us, to remain on the side of hope, to ensure that all that is unkind outside of us is never allowed to achieve a victory over the wisdom and goodness that endure within us.
We may have a special need—more than we realised—for the world to show evidence of solidity and goodness to counterbalance the violations of the past.
and the earth has a carved solidity, while the sky swirls and surges like a shoal of fish, and
and van Gogh uses it to create a powerful opposition between the earth's tangible solidity and the sky's wavelike dynamism.
These primary qualities include things like solidity, the density, weight, and mass of an object, and
things like solidity -- the density, weight, and mass of an object. And also extension
Smart contracts can be programmed in a special programming language called Solidity.
They can be programmed in a special programming language called Solidity.