Many of us spend our entire lives searching for that one specific life purpose when in actuality you are here for many reasons, it's not really fair to limit your potential to just one skill, but you know, we all have that one thing that we dedicate most of our time doing, dreaming about making it big one day, and that's why when our biggest critics pop into our lives it can devastate us to the point where we start to question our creative ability.

We humans have an immense appetite for complicated things, neuroscience, astrophysics and molecular biology of course, but also barely decipherable books, abstract works of art and avant-garde pieces of theatre without plot or character, all of which perhaps evoke the primordial puzzles of the universe and our own always ineffable existence within it. But our veneration for complexity can reach a most painful, time-consuming and futile zenith in one area in particular – relationships. It's here that we find otherwise discerning and hard-headed people exhibiting extreme patience, often lasting over a succession of tormented years, for what we can call complicated situations. The complexities may arise from some of the following dynamics. A beloved partner who wants to commit and surely will one day but not quite yet on account of this or that factor or not entirely because of certain psychological fears or not conclusively or at least not without certain important caveats. They may need space, freedom or what they call a chance to explore though quite what was still not wholly clear, though we have asked them on many occasions. Then a partner with whom there are a lot of misunderstandings, around whom words often lose their standard meanings, around whom we may have to spend hours untangling what was truly meant and around whom gestures or deeds that we previously thought uncontentious suddenly become the occasion for major surprising aggravations. Or a partner who in principle is there for us and in theory loves us very very much but in actuality – like last week and the week before that – is constantly remarkably busy, unable to respond to our texts, out with their compelling friends or concentrated on their always extremely demanding job. Or a partner with whom we sit up late at night on many occasions with a pad and paper to hand attempting to determine where the issues are coming from, what is at play and how things might be handled before, baffled and upset, we finally have to retreat to bed a little after 1am feeling fragile and tearful.

But in actuality, it's happening gradually over a long period of time.

In actuality, both men knew nothing about the homeless man,

But in actuality, the town was occupied and ransacked several times during that Thirty Years' War.

In actuality, it's beyond refreshing to see the young couple actually be honest with one another.

The classic example of this is like when you have a partner who's very suspicious that you're cheating, when in actuality, they're the cheater.

But sometimes, people practice green marketing and make it appear that they are doing things that are good for the natural environment when in actuality, they aren't really.

but Taiwan has somehow taken this combination and made it their own, laying claim to a dish that is seemingly simple on the surface but in actuality is a deep symbol of the national pride here.

But if this is true, why have all the predictions failed. In actuality most of the predictions