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When you say, just getting back to the score of the topic today, when you move say, from

Getting back up, dusting yourself off,

There's no way you're getting back in.

There's something about doing this that really helps our brains to unwind to kind of reflect on the trip that we just went on and then also to mentally prepare for just getting back into life as normal.

And with that hour long commute, kids might be getting back at about 11pm or sometimes even later.

Once that yellow varnish had been removed, you're getting back to all the original colours of the paint underneath.

But for those who are thinking of getting back together, there is no alternative but to focus with immense intent on one aspect only of the relationship, what was properly awful about it. And there would have been a lot that was, given that people don't ever sever a tight bond lightly. The priority is to identify and then submit to rigorous analysis all that was most nightmarish, all that it remains extremely painful and eerie to summon. A couple's right to resume is to be measured against their courage in exploring why they failed. Then, what can't I change? But also, what coping mechanisms might we arrive at to deal with these unchangeable aspects? We need to acknowledge that almost certainly we won't be able to alter all of our personalities and this is the moment to get clear with our ex about what is and isn't possible. Broken promises always exact a worse toll than pre-emptively lowered expectations. What do we feel that we aren't, despite a lot of goodwill, going to be able to overcome? And how, if at all, can these stubborn bits of our personalities be handled? Then, how much can we each bear of what won't change?

Anyway, it hasn't all been smooth sailing, but things are finally getting back on track.

Well, if that's all, I'll just be getting back to the game.