Name: The Perfectionist Trap: How To Set High Standards Without Being A Perfectionist
Uploaded: 2020-03-15T04:50:57.000Z
Duration: 2 min 58 s
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How do you draw the line between perfectionism versus high standards is actually quite simple.

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Okay, Those who are a perfectionist, they are waiting and waiting for everything to line up.

I'm gonna give you a simple example, right.

I want to go from here to West Vancouver.

In fact, I want to make sure all the lights I'm gonna time it perfectly that it's going to be all green every step of the way before I will stop the car.

If you're letting your perfectionist in you to prevent you from taking action and making progress, then you're not gonna get very far vs.

If you actually making progress, you're like, Okay, I'm gonna go just like someone.

Let me navigate around that right So if you let your perfection perfectionism stopped you from taking action, that's the difference.

Okay, I want to go from here to there west.

Then again, and it's gonna take me 30 minutes.

Ah, and his 30 minutes, I wonder you go set a higher standard.

That's high standard that is not stopping me from starting the engine and going.

They're setting high stone or and not a standard 30 minutes.

Can I go there that I have a passenger right next to me will have a baby next to me.

I'm gonna drive there, but I'll make sure that I drive in such a way.

It's so smooth and so steady that I don't wake up the baby.

It's a different, different former standard.

High Standard has nothing to do with being a perfectionist.

Say the truth is, most perfectionists they're using that as an excuse there, using that as a way not to take action.

They're using that as a way to don't want to fail, Don't want to look bad and want to look foolish instead of taking action so they all want to make it all perfect.

You don't want to do anything because you don't want to fail.

Progression ist Don't be a perfectionist.

 You just have to get it going Pond on that. 

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The Perfectionist Trap: How To Set High Standards Without Being A Perfectionist

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