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  • Bachelor Peter Weber and his mom, Barbara, are close.

  • So close that he seems to go to her for dating advice, as seen in the now-viral clip of Barbara

  • crying and pleading with her son to make the right decision.

  • While many assumed this clip was about Madison Prewett and that the clip hinted at her winning

  • The Bachelor, part one of this season's finale revealed to fans that Peter's mom was actually

  • rooting for the other finalist, Hannah Ann Sluss.

  • While popular Bachelor spoiler blogger Steve "Reality Steve" Carbone has said that Madison

  • captured Peter's heart, there's still a chance things could go in another direction, especially

  • if Peter's mom is rooting for her rival.

  • How much do we know about Barbara, and how much influence does she have on her son?

  • Barbara was born in Havana, Cuba before moving to the United States at the age of 3.

  • At the age of 18, she became an American citizen.

  • That same year, she became the queen of Chicago's Lakefront Festival.

  • Yep: Like many of the women who have caught Peter's eye, including Hannah Brown and three

  • out of four of Peter's final four, Barbara is a beauty queen.

  • She was a member of the Chicago Honey Bears cheer squad, but left the squad in 1978 after

  • winning the title of Miss Illinois World-America.

  • She went on to compete in the Miss World-America pageant, but did not win.

  • Peter followed in his father's footsteps to become a pilot, but his mother also has a

  • lot of experience flying high.

  • Barbara worked for United Airlines from 1986 to 1996.

  • Peter once revealed,

  • "My dad was a pilot as well.

  • My mom was a flight attendant, and she was on his flight one time.

  • He was walking back to the cockpit, and he walked past her, and she just saw his butt.

  • And she goes to her friend, she's like, 'That's the guy I'm gonna marry.'"

  • It's a romantic story, and it's one that set the stage for Peter's own romantic dreams.

  • In fact, Peter's parents are part of the reason that Bachelor host Chris Harrison said that

  • Peter was such a good pick for The Bachelor.

  • "He's that all-American guy next door.

  • He has these great parents who have this great example of what love is."

  • Peter is close with both of his parents, which is why he still lives with his mom and dad

  • at the age of 28.

  • He told Entertainment Tonight in December 2019, however, that if he found his future

  • wife on The Bachelor, he would, of course, move out.

  • In January, Peter's mom explained on the Bachelor Party podcast that part of Peter's reasons

  • for staying at home is cultural.

  • She said,

  • "First of all, we are a very, very close family.

  • Very close.

  • We're basically one.

  • We support each other in every which way, and we're each other's best friends, not just

  • parents."

  • Barbara added that it's common in Cuban culture for kids to stay at home before marriage,

  • and that in "old time Cuba" they would stay at home with their spouses and raise their

  • children in "one big happy family."

  • She said that since Peter is a pilot and is gone from home so much, it doesn't make financial

  • sense for him to move out until he buys his own house.

  • Barbara said that she raised her son to be financially responsible.

  • She said,

  • "He can buy a house tomorrow if he wanted it.

  • Responsibly, he can do it, but I'm just looking for the right place for him when we do decide

  • that he's going to take that step."

  • Hannah Ann isn't the only girlfriend of Peter's that Barbara has bonded with.

  • Peter told ET,

  • "I've brought girls home, and it's not weird.

  • And the next morning, I'll wake up and the girl is making breakfast with my mom, and

  • they're chatting it up.

  • And that's just the way it's been.

  • So I know it's not normal."

  • It seems that Peter is truly a mama's boy, which could spell trouble if he doesn't take

  • her advice and choose Hannah Ann, who is clearly his mother's choice to win The Bachelor.

  • It looks like we'll just have to wait and see who Peter chooses, and how his mom reacts

  • to his decision.

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Bachelor Peter Weber and his mom, Barbara, are close.

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