Name: How Do You Get Contacts When You're Just Getting Started?
Uploaded: 2020-03-10T23:12:05.000Z
Duration: 5 min 42 s
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But for most of us, we don't have any contact with myself.

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When I immigrated to North America, I didn't know anybody.

So if that's the case, one of things I want to teach you is too We phrase And we frame from thinking of I don't have any context contact.

Contacts is something you go fucking get.

If you move to a new city, you don't know anybody.

A lot of business people there go there, meet with people Mingo, where people, that's very good now, usually the qualities, by the way, I'm not super good. 00:00:59.690 --> 00:01:0.450  That's okay. 00:01:0.890 --> 00:01:7.650  You start somewhere you're not gonna have to context that Like what I have today overnight told me how many years. 00:01:8.130 --> 00:01:8.950  Start somewhere. 00:01:9.140 --> 00:01:9.680  What else? 00:01:9.920 --> 00:01:11.850  Board of trade go there.

A lot of Mrs people go to events whenever the events, business events.

Anyone that you know, you meet people who are growth oriented people ambitious.

Go there, buy a ticket, spend a few dollars.

Go there, meet with people and not once you become a little bit better.

Maybe enjoying local Toastmasters and Toastmasters is a nonprofit organization that teachers the skill or public speaking.

Are there other business people go there and meet with those people, right?

Once you become a little bit more successful, what you could do, and that's what I did.

Once you have a base right, you have achieved a certain level success. 00:01:59.360 --> 00:02:7.250  Look for Country Club, Golf Club, Tennis club, private club in your area. 00:02:7.800 --> 00:02:8.310  Joined. 00:02:8.500 --> 00:02:15.340  Those people hang out, they're gonna gonna meet some people and usually these clubs, they have different events, right?

And because it's a club, you would see the people quite often if you go there.

If you're playing tennis, you're playing golf.

You check with each other, you get to know each other.

He quotes your network by subversive your network in question.

Then once you become even more successful, then you conjoined organizations such as Entrepreneurs Organization.

I call the young president organization Waipio.

Now you are meeting the movers and shakers, right?

But context is not something that you have. 00:02:59.430 --> 00:03:0.110  It's no good. 00:03:0.110 --> 00:03:2.290  Just so you know I don't have any car. 00:03:2.300 --> 00:03:3.480  You gotta go get context. 00:03:3.610 --> 00:03:4.560  What it's like. 00:03:4.700 --> 00:03:5.490  It's so stupid. 00:03:5.490 --> 00:03:9.090  The other day I was just outside, and so many people make this mystic. 00:03:9.090 --> 00:03:10.420  I'm teaching you a lesson.

When you're meeting a successful person, right in an event on the street, right?

But I'm not gonna call him What the hell what I call him.

I call you it is not my job to get in touch with you.

Is your job to get in touch with me, right?

If you cannot find my contact, you cannot find my assistance.

You're not that resourceful that chances are we're not gonna do any business together.

Okay, so when you're approaching successful people don't be all He's my car.

What value can you bring to the table first and do not approach successful people? 00:03:58.160 --> 00:04:1.040  That's like a leech right where you are. 00:04:1.040 --> 00:04:8.300  You want something from them just because they're successful under absolutely no obligation to help you become successful, you gotta help yourself to become successful. 00:04:8.740 --> 00:04:13.590  So approached them by adding value what you can do for damn not what they can do for you.

Okay, But then what if I can't provide any value?

The most valuable commodity they have is their time.

Why couldn't they just spend the time with the family, you have to be able to provide valley and solve problems for them.

So you develop their value first so you can bring it to them.

And this is how all successful people offering now, of course, you have some jerks.

I'm not talking about those, generally speaking, most of them on generous.

Most of them want to help, and most of them want to add value to what I do when I need someone who is more successful.

They always asking me, How can I help you?

But I always say, No, I don't need anything. 00:04:55.770 --> 00:05:3.610  How can I help you first, then different develop relationship with no agenda and not asking for things right away. 00:05:3.750 --> 00:05:5.820  So right now I'm working on a couple projects. 00:05:5.920 --> 00:05:13.510  There's so many people I could just reach out and call and to help me with a number of things or two, we first someone that could help me solve the problem.

Because I've developed that relationship over the years.

Go get some contacts, go meet with some people.

If he not willing to invest time in the relationship to build a relationship, why would they invest time in you to build a relationship with you?