TWO YEARS MARRIED - BABIES, ARGUMENTS AND JEALOUSY | Lydia Elise Millen

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She's like, She's so annoying.
She's beautiful.
She can sing.
She could dance like that.
How It's supposed to be just all right.
It wasn't It must have been asleep Was like Like like this'll blast from the past is having you on my shadow Let it not done this before the boyfriend we don't boyfriend tag.
You should think this is the husband.
Yeah.
Isn't the husband tag?
But we've done with the boyfriend type before.
Year's going Where?
Our old house moments On the bed?
Yeah.
Memory ever.
I do remedy something.
What's your makeup before?
Yeah, that was something that you like.
Easy was killing you to lie.
What?
My face is like school bythe.
But now we're married.
How?
We've been together now, you know, on we with what?
Big wish and wish Yes.
Oh, yes, I do.
In the video the other day, and he was like, Oh, I've got something in my eye so far.
But I refuse this, but actually was skin.
And I'm not I'm not be filming for skin.
I've got very dry skin around.
So I just accepted it, just addressed it, and I was wrong.
I know it's hard to take something Seriously.
We're talking about something very serious when they got body, but it wasn't about you.
Some skid started long ago.
This has been like years since we don't sit down video on dhe like chats.
The camera like this and I have wanted to do was intact for a while, but we just never had time.
Now lives have changed so much since we done.
We did.
There's no about having you have to make time for each other.
We didn't talk for every way.
Just haven't made time to sit in front of the camera.
Come on.
They think it's This is before we were married, somebody very calmly calling Mama Did sent me this, Mr Gordon.
Yeah, of course he chose to wear in.
This video makes zero sense, but anyway, so I've been filming videos all day, and I just kind of been on the sit down video height because when I set up the lights like this, it's kind of nice to film in bulk.
So I've got some videos and it's just actually asked Alley after we have a suit today, a London house intact.
You look, I actually think he was gonna say yes, you just might get it.
Yeah, That way we have the questions that I can't go without, anything like official questions or anything, but with their own people, right?
And the questions Are you dance examined?
We didn't know what it waas So it's basically like How well do you know?
Don't go very good memory.
Maybe your wife.
I'm working this out.
Hold on.
Three years later Wait, because it's really confusing is competing in The first question is, what is your favorite time spending habit?
But then all of the other questions are about me.
Yeah, way of asking a question.
Hey, what's your favorite times been had?
Maybe.
Maybe What's your favorite being that we d'oh to spend time together, start chilling in front of the TV?
I know that sounds very sociable.
Yeah, I'm drinking at dinner, so it's a lot more engaging.
I actually like just sitting Netflix and stuff with your presence cat.
Yeah, yeah, just the three of us.
I think that that's mine as well.
Like regular Yeah, but it's also like the thing that we we have to make such a point to do that because otherwise we would have worked into the evening and we don't have time to spend together.
Even now, Like I just changed to doing videos at 5 p.m. And 17 which means two days a week.
My evenings on interrupt, interrupt know that it's being interrupted.
But yeah, you know, you're not having to leave the environment and disappear.
Just know that you think that's it Even has been, like, fun moments where we found activity.
I think that's the most going to funny habits spending time together.
Favorite time spending habit.
OK, next question.
What is my favorite food?
Pizza?
Yeah.
Yes, it is your pizza.
Nothing I love like getting a takeaway pizza and I'm never allowed to get takeaway pieces now never lets me get well.
It's kind of one of the only off two or three options we get.
Take away so it gets very boring very quickly.
Do you love pizza?
Yeah, so whenever he says, let's get takeaway.
I'm like pizza.
Is that what is my least favorite drinks?
Who who least favorite drink doesn't mean alcoholic nonalcoholic.
I don't think I have, like a least favorite drink.
I don't think I have one that I would be like, That's money figure, drink.
But do you know, I don't like being tired from trying carries all my stuff for when she But there were times when I'm like I'm thirsty on you and I have a super pass on that That's just made it worse.
It's horrible to is too sweet what you're really saying.
Oh, I know what it is.
I don't get it wrong.
I think it's not pink.
Great food, fruit juice.
It's like a It's like a corneal that's got like It's like pink Great for your specific.
Yeah, I don't like it.
I don't know what it's great for.
It is there's lots of great free time, anything but that I could be wrong screaming.
Am I good at any sport?
No, something we could always I'm definitely good school, I said.
It's full of school.
Lady told me that she was really gonna ice skating, but then we're gonna ice skate in.
He could aside, and then he told me that you go skiing.
Waits keeps you couldn't stay on for more than five minutes, is how we don't know anything about sports in around.
Just be honest How did it, eh?
So when I was younger, I used to do figure skating on my dad took me every week to figure skating lessons in London.
I had a figure skating birthday party because I loved ice skating so much.
Have a great time with you guys.
I was telling you those so that I hadn't been ice skating into you.
Took me ice skating like was It wins Wonderland, Neil.
And there was lots of figure hugging skating become fucking skating on.
So I just lost the ability to do it to be a while and I picked up again, but that that was that.
And then we you got to get back on it and I remember to do you buy like when when you got the bike for the first time in ages.
I know that you're not sporty because, like you in training and your form's good and you're fit and healthy.
Except when it comes to sports.
I can't think of a sport, you know, I was, like, sporty in the sentence.
Like activity.
Yeah, I didn't play like hockey or anything at school.
I made I did athletics, so I was getting like you weren't very good dogs in the pool.
I've never paid a whole table.
Pretty sure I tried to put some of New Year's.
Okay.
Please.
No, no, no.
That's really mean.
Is there?
Is there any unique talents I possess that?
Like you?
Just about PC Clark?
How she's like, Yeah, we're just saying multi talented.
Some people have gifted in something.
What would you tell him?
That it's so many to pick wrong?
Yeah, I have the think of the fast moving along.
I have this unique talent of leaving destruction wherever I walk in.
This happened that I don't like you.
This is a You have a great ability to be able to focus on your goals.
I don't have a talent.
It's more liquor, Dr that.
But that is a natural thing.
Some people, some people, can take action and apply themselves naturally.
Some people just come.
And how you like.
This is a compliment.
I thought, Oh, my God.
Was he gonna say, But I talent in terms of like singing, dancing, acting spores like handy work.
You have a cheese has incredible talent browsing online fashion stores.
Yeah.
Met anybody.
Consider Look their phone on clothing stores for as long as I get repetitive.
Strain my thumbs, especially.
No, I get it worse shopping for the house.
But I find online shopping like obviously I have to do it for my job is a passion.
Yes, yeah, but it's also part of my job.
I have like events.
I'm always shopping for events.
And then when we work on collaborations, I have to like pick clothing, which is such A that it's the world's fault has been violent just me.
But it takes such a long vice.
I honestly find browsing online quite horrible experience because there's, like, 50 pages with, like, 100 items off T shirts, and you're like, Wow!
And then you got to like it's a lot of pressure to pick the right one.
Yeah, but see for me when I when we met itself did the other day and I was like, This is nothing here.
If they did have something, it was in my size Where if I was at Selfridges online, I just hop on over like NAFTA board and they have it in stock.
So it's like I'm a fast easy except about the ground that you cover Is you okay?
What's next?
Do I have a best friend?
Yeah, course, you know.
But you my friend too, So yeah.
Oh, you think this is a one of You will wait like personality change is that now Wait for me now.
I must have been kissing, you know, Valtteri Sassy.
I have this weird thing about him, but he'll he'll kiss me quite happily kissed me.
It's not really hard things.
Yeah.
Doesn't take happened to kiss.
Horrendous.
But if I was did, like, borrow his teeth brush.
No, no, that's disgusting.
Even knife four.
Yeah.
Yeah.
If I was, like, test his food.
Like to make sure that it's hot, like lick the spoon.
I put it back, Get another spoon waving, like here is my favorite music artist is so that way because it's the reason why Because it's, like every time.
Specific.
Yeah.
So what's your favorite artists?
Was six different.
He was my neighbor here with my favorite artists Christmas boo play.
Probably.
That was a big like a person was always singing.
Yeah, school Christmas.
Yeah, it's a tough lady.
Doesn't listen Like artists Mrs to classical Music Day Mental I don't know, Like composers off these?
No.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, but yes, I wouldn't say that.
There's an artist that I'm like.
I know you.
Yeah.
Lady doesn't claim mainstream music for me.
If I'm like mainstream music around the house and having a party, I would be in the mood.
Otherwise, music to me is like background mood setting.
Like it's not supposed to disrupt your your course annual.
What?
Yeah, he just like we had made it.
Like what, Charles?
Yeah, you like that?
But he also has this weird niche, like side his music, where he likes top loader.
Oh, yeah?
Yeah.
Just like that.
Yeah.
And simply read Cary messes re carrying ministry before Christmas.
She was like that.
I've just seen that.
Simply read the story.
You could get tickets.
I was like, Absolutely no, I like it because obviously, music is one of those things that allows you to reminisce.
Yeah, like no sound nostalgic.
Andi, I think that those artists reminds me of my childhood when my dad used to listen to those artists.
I think that's why I enjoy this is about me.
Yeah.
What shoe size do I went for?
No.
Yeah, it depends on the brand.
That's true.
That is what would be one meal I could eat every day.
Mac n cheese?
Yes.
Every day.
Can you say that you could eat?
Yeah.
Panties if I could If I could eat every day and not get, like, overweight and not about my house.
Yes.
I probably end up like, scared much greens.
No stage if I'm watching TV, What?
I most likely watching because your watch things on YouTube.
So I want you to be on TV.
Okay?
Although love is about, I don't know, I watched issue.
And then if we watch TV together, we literally binge Netflix series.
Yeah, we did you in 24 hours the whole second series of you in 24 hours.
But we don't want any, like so, so anything?
No, I just find it depressing my EastEnders, Coronation Street that I could not think of anything worth watching the EastEnders Christmas Day thing where, like everyone dies.
I couldn't watch that.
That would be so upset.
I think you could You could rethink how you spend your time.
Yeah, but what you do You Yeah, ut Oh, If I were a collector.
What would I collect?
You are a collector.
You collect bags, you collect shoes, jewelry, collect.
No, but I didn't really collect them.
I know, because you're also you don't hoard.
Yeah.
Yeah, I like.
I like to have a strong collection.
Yeah, but I still weather course.
Well, we do.
Cool.
Remembers very proud of my court.
That's what they call since since we call over, invested in in Syria on dhe.
It's always when we go to our friend's parentshouse like our friend.
But it's always our friend's parentshouse.
The very nice houses.
Yeah, they always have a court bars or some kind of holder.
Yeah, on dhe way.
Just order it is actually salmon.
Alex is well, Alex's moment.
Dad.
Yeah, we went around the house.
We didn't want to make this massive glass jars, and it was just full of champagne corks.
And I was like, That's cool.
Yeah, we were like, We won't do that.
I really enjoyed drinking champagne because I really enjoyed it.
I did.
Was my favorite cereal.
Rice Krispies.
No conceiving.
Oh, what my baby?
I don't I don't think you would know this because I don't buy cereal because I can't trust you.
Trouble Cookie Cheerios.
It's a chocolate cookie.
Pretty Yeah.
I can't be trusted to have cereal in the house.
I just Oh, I eat them in in, like, one day, and they're just yet.
I don't want what my alone time used to get.
Chocolate, period.
It's nice to get Grenada.
Yeah, I've never seen you in the kitchen.
You have eggs for breakfast?
Yeah, Yeah, yeah.
Peggy Sue.
Heck, what's my favorite movie of all time?
The holiday?
Yeah, easy.
Every year we have to torture you.
I didn't enjoy it.
It's a good feeling.
Once or twice.
Seven or eight times.
Star's gonna be boring.
You feel Christmassy?
Well, never does.
It's a non extradition.
Do I love my job?
Oh, what I would do to have you work for me, I think, like the most creative person that I know literally the most creative person like that.
So much so That sounds like request that he comes on trips with me because of, like, the content that he produces.
They do with that.
Well, hey, gets on with everyone as well.
So when I'm like I go on trips on, I'm much especially when we went to the movies.
That needs to be extremely shy, I guess is it was a confidence.
Things used to be very said, I shine It would be Come on, come across as standoffish Because you just you just used be really like Yeah, yeah, I'm getting a lot after now.
But like, when there was this incident, if I told you about it, I think I think it's all about when we're in there.
The water cabana in Bora Bora.
And that was not the first time I pushed around.
Yeah, Yeah.
Must, like be so sure.
She was like I was gonna call, but she shouting my name.
And I was like, on the on the veranda.
Thank you.
That looks out on the water in Bora Bora on She's like Lydia.
I didn't know He waas and I have not met her before.
And I was like, Hi.
And then I, like, run inside and head.
And I was like, Did you go outside and say hello?
And I was like, Oh, okay.
Okay.
Okay.
And then I went outside and met all of like I met Melissa.
I met Suzanne.
I met Karen sparrows in the villa next to us.
But like, I wouldn't have done that if he hadn't pushed me.
So I always went into, like, Come on.
Yeah, I noticed.
Today is I think you're great.
You've got past that.
Yeah.
Fear of their social environments and feeling like you weren't gonna fit.
It will be light or accepted.
I think now you're very comfortable when we go away on trips I don't want I think I need to be there.
Well, but I didn't.
And you Do you like it because you got with, like, every guy I think some of the best trips, the best trips that I've been on ever have been some trips that we don't.
Yeah, but all my boss, he got so upset with me when we went thio Paris with Laura must see him.
And Alex wanted to go out with all of the boy like Stephen hawking on all of that.
And they wanted to go thio Crazy horse.
No, the girls.
That is Well, well, yeah, we didn't want to just be sensible.
Yeah, two of them were like, we're gonna get I know what everyone else is on.
Yeah, Damien Jacqueline Another?
Yeah, They just keep going and going and no doubt the next day, and they'll be fine.
Where is if I if I go out?
I wanted anything.
So, basically moral of the story is pick your wife's wisely.
That was such a good Where did we go on our first trip together?
This is like a memory test.
Yeah, I remember.
Straight away.
Where was our first holiday?
Yes, lame.
I know it was in the space.
No, no.
Use your friend works.
Know if that was after This is like a brain exercise isn't just direct challenge, baby backs again.
Their life really sealed.
You were the first pleasant to take me there.
I been to my bedroom way.
Yeah, we took pictures.
You forget.
I can't when I get all these many Tennessee.
Yeah.
These memory testing so bad to do with you because, honestly, he can't remember anything a city break Paris do that would give way.
Do you ever wear say that Hotel seven?
Yeah.
I have pictures of you in your boxer shorts taking pictures of the room.
Yeah, I had them on my face.
I think I know this doesn't really talk much about being a husband and wife.
Doesn't see if there's any other questions I can find.
Oh, what a deep me.
Yeah.
You said that thing about the wedding and stuff.
It sounded marriage affect?
Yeah.
Oh, this is a good one.
How did you know I was the one?
No, no, no.
Kind of.
I think that Lydia is a unique specimen.
Oh, and she definitely had a personality that I'd never seen before.
You know, you were very I could see how nervous you are navigating this.
Very You had a strong sense of self on.
Dhe.
You knew you were what he wanted on dhe.
A very independent sort.
Energy around you on.
I knew that I was okay.
So she's quite almost against, like, a businesswoman.
Sort like mentality.
You motivated?
You were You were just aware of who you were.
I found it will be intimidated because normally in previous relationships and other girls that I had being with, I didn't feel that in them on, so I definitely was a little bit like Okay, she's I remember saying to my stepmom, Yeah, she's hard work.
The bag is in, like she's not gonna be a pushover like this isn't gonna be like an easy ride.
And I think that that's good for some people.
It's a little bit.
Yeah.
It was good to point out that, like when we first I had yet she had nothing.
I had nowhere to live.
When I know you like, it was a very bizarre somebody didn't.
Was have nowhere really to live.
Yeah.
You only get one here today.
Yes, I was terrible.
You want a lot of money?
No, I that you have not been relationship two weeks out.
So you have a slightly emotional, slightly confused yet very self aware independent gal on your hands.
It was a bit like we didn't really know what's coming around.
But I think that helped.
Because I think if you don't come across without those sort of pros in your personality, then I think that maybe I would be scared.
Ox heart.
She's emotional.
She's always upset.
She's, like, unstable like and I would have loved to have helped.
I didn't know.
Yeah, it would've been a bit much, but I didn't get that off of you.
Yeah, I was aware it was like I was in a bad place.
But I was trying to get myself.
Yeah.
I didn't ever feel like you wouldn't go yourself out that you have.
How do you resolve problems?
This is a work in progress business.
I think we always ignore Lee.
This is how it goes.
We argue.
She argues with me.
Thank you.
I listen, she struggles to this video.
We then, chap, for about an hour.
Yeah, and eventually I managed to get my perspective across or I get my sex because the media managers get respected across and then we apologize.
Moment.
Me?
Yeah, but we are still learning better ways to, like, deal.
There's just always is you've got triggers.
It I take it is to do communication.
Yeah, to do with perspective.
Yes, How you look a situation because we still have situations now, like something will mean a lot to me.
But I know that it means a lot to me, and I just expect him to know that it means a lot to me.
But actually, I haven't communicated that.
And so then when he says like no or something, I get upset on.
Then it all it takes is and I get upset and I'm not a well there, do you?
Wherever Andi, that gets his back up and then what it takes is us just sitting down for however long it takes and just talking it through.
And then we're like, I didn't I didn't think about it from your perspective, but I think it's been two or three years since we will argue about business.
Tony.
What key elements make a successful relationship and marriage?
Okay, question.
I definitely think that it's friendship, loyalty, communication.
Loyalty is like the biggest thing.
Like, I feel like we've got yeah, loyalty.
See that sort of incorporate trust?
Yeah.
Trust a noise like that, that is one of the strongest foundations of our relationship.
And it was one of the things that I found just so attractive about you because I remember thinking that he looks like he should be a way which he did on Instagram and all of that.
He looks like he should be the kind of guy that will sleep with you, your best friend and your mom on.
He's No, it wasn't like that.
He's, like, so honest.
I think I mentioned it in another video that you like.
You can't lie and let me say a Seeker ring.
And he was like a memory.
Yeah, that's what you think.
You have a good memory.
He'd be thine friend's fucking message to girls.
Want one last single Too much gesture in Jane's way.
Yes, that's what this room is.
Foundation.
And also like we, I think, communication and understanding.
So it's about I would say this to my friends if they're single American partner stuff like, it's not about finding somebody this perfect.
It's finding somebody that you're compatible with.
And it's knowing that you're never gonna find anyone in a relationship that has a flawless officer against you.
And I think it's about deciding what it is that you could live with terrestrial life on what it is you can't say if you're somebody that's like it drives me mad because they're really messy.
Then don't be that person, because chances are if you can't see a bit messy.
Yeah, if it's like Lydia leaves the lid off toothpaste.
So we biting face.
It has a lid that just quit smoking home, but they're just, for example, like some people have.
Everybody has different models and everybody has different ways of doing things.
Yet it's about you can be the biggest thing that we've found doing.
The job that we do is we would meet like other Instagram or online creates couples.
And sometimes I know that I felt this.
I was like, wow, like they are so in love like everything, like an ode to each other.
And it was at this big decoration, remember, We don't mean we don't really do next.
We're not like people that, like, shoe she displays.
And so we meet these people and it would be even watch their content.
And then I meet them on we'd be the old gods.
And then they break up.
Yeah, like like, loved up in person.
I break up in that really gay must perspective, even though we necessarily aren't like the schmuck c'est all over each other types of people.
That doesn't mean that our relationship is strong on DDE.
Wonderful on dhe.
All of those amazing things that you want for a relationship which is not as affectionate know.
So we're not the most affection of people.
I've never been that way, even with my friends, like yeah, like I'm no good at hugging and stuff like that.
But your family?
Yeah.
Yeah, I found a cerebral.
What means is good Takes Takes the makeup.
Yes.
Italian.
Yeah.
Really?
I think that there are different relationships require from things.
Yeah, actually, no way.
Have friends are really fiction, lovey.
Yeah, they're, like, completely besotted one another.
And they lost over the years.
But I just think it is about the key things.
Communication?
Yeah.
If there's something you really don't like the passage, if it's a reasonable request, then people work on changing those bad habits, communication and acceptance that you're someone like that, floors and all.
And being able to think, like, about to spend, like, 70 years of my life with this Exactly.
I better be able to see most of your Children.
How many do you won't?
15?
No, my dear.
You just squirt the word vagina on Patricia.
Obviously, I don't know if you watched patricians a recent birth story video.
If you haven't, you should watch it.
Because she is not powers.
She gave back her child in her doorway on her husband, delivered the baby and she texts me.
And she was like Do you think I would be so good in this situation?
Hey, he gave blood ones and fainted and results never to go back because he took up two hours of their time Way.
Know that you say you just want one?
Yeah, I don't think I could have take No, I think that it's a hard question.
Because until you know how hard or easy is to have to do, which we don't know, um that obviously didn't take things.
And then also how you cope and how that changes your life.
Because everybody I ever spoke to says that it transforms your Children.
Yeah, not just in your date state routine.
Which we will wear up, actually.
Like mentally.
Yeah.
Your outlook on life.
Yeah.
Your priority.
Everything changes.
So I think that to sit here and go, we're gonna have 12 or three or four kids is unreasonable, or at least that way, said that 21 cow.
Just that, you know, I think that, like, one for me feel they want to start with.
I think one for me feels doable.
And then we'd still like, have, like, I I'm quite sort of protective of the life I have now.
I don't want to lose too much that I know.
Lots of people always say you only want one, Todd.
What?
They called only child spoiled.
And I'm like, I know lots of people that are no, only Children that spoil.
And I know lots of people that only Children, the art spoil.
I think it's about how you bring the child up on dhe.
That's what's important.
And so I Yeah, I don't think that you will just be one.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Well, I want a baby.
I want my body.
My choice anyway.
Okay, Let's see some quickfire ones or try to see the last five quickfire.
What weird habits do I have?
Lydia itches.
Her sculpt.
Yeah.
When I'm stressed that I realize it's distressing.
It was his dress thing.
Okay, now stop doing it.
I keep this up now, wait.
Have you do I always have load takes Now you've got to get that when he's, like, stressed or I would probably have been doing this video.
Yeah, he was against this.
Why don't you do based smell?
You still do that.
And I have to tell you to stop their much were troubling.
Yeah.
You have this weird habit of speaking to people like they speak to you.
So you're speaking to like, Oh, I got it, I got it.
Yeah, he's around Joe London.
He's like, you're I would say in yet.
Yeah, when he's around Ali, probably.
He's like that.
But then when he's around his now, he becomes very softly spoken, like, speaks to her in the same way that she speaks to him.
And it's like your doctor basically socialized blend.
Yeah, that would have it.
Quick.
Fire.
What do you argue about most?
I would say the time which we speak.
Yes.
Yeah, we get when we get stressed, you get short with anything.
Yeah, Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Listen to your toe.
No.
Listen, Thio, what is your most repeated phrase or sentence?
I say literally like, Does he like no motive?
That literally excited?
Oh, yeah.
No, I think that we do.
Yeah, I'm so excited.
Everything to you cheap.
I think it is.
It's just like a lazy way of just like basically saying you are excited, but excited is quite strong word.
Yes.
Oh, but it's overused because it's just a nisi way to try to express that you are actually really happy about something.
So you're just like I'm excited.
But then, obviously it loses its power because you are these coffee cups and stuff exempted about these beside.
You really know that I love the coffee Cup, but I think it's one of those things that because people don't really talk to the camera.
No, there's nobody like there's no conversational aspect to it.
So I'm trying Thio be like when I speak the camera.
I tried to speak to the cameras if, like I'm speaking to a friend, but that's a really hard thing to do when nobody there's like nothing coming back from state level.
So you can easy going both ways.
Yeah, I have people on YouTube that we're talking about, something that's like that you can tell that they're not really passionate about.
But it's just like really Monday.
Yeah, the biggest wow you can really be discovering.
Look, a species has been seen before, but the human eye on we're going out there with £50,000 of the camera.
Quick.
Wait.
You just Tonto?
Is that it?
Yeah.
Back.
Yes.
We've done it in hours left of footage.
This could be alone.
One want to film a video way?
Could do.
My husband gets the cost of things in my wardrobe.
Oh, my God.
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