Name: YOU’RE VAIN, SELF ABSORBED, SHALLOW AND LACK SUBSTANCE | Lydia Elise Millen
Uploaded: 2020-03-09T10:17:02.000Z
Duration: 24 min 16 s
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Past simple

Just taking my vitamins for the morning on Dhe realized I have a really weird way of taking them.

The superlative

I eat the ones that I don't like first so that I finished the ones that taste the best.

I've got a dressing gown on so that I don't get anything down.

Me, I'm just loving my hair like this is a moment.

My maxim are kind of outfit on a power suit.

But yeah, I Oh my gosh, I went to bed so early last night and I wake up six, feeling totally refreshed on like a new person.

Love sleeps like that, even though, and I stayed up so late, usually I can't sleep unless he's in bed.

But I was out for the count Me in problem totally asleep.

I'm doing a paddle with the Sunday Times style.

Female empowerment on dhe everything like that.

So it's gonna be really, really exciting, but totally out of what I ever thought would be kind of like my comfort zone.

I was never a public speaker when I was younger.

I never did any of the things that I now quite happily do in my job on Dhe today, I've partnered up with only which is such an incredible opportunity.

My mom and I used it so much throughout our lives on I use it so much today as we have seen, I love their total effects on their new only whips.

So for me to be able to partner on such a cool campaign like this with such a great message is pretty darn epic.

So this is their face, anything campaign on.

Basically, it's the perfect kind of opportunity for me to talk to you about things I've had to overcome.

The things that I felt that kind of held me back and I had to push through my fears that I faced because one of the things that I always encountered in my life is people telling me, Lydia, you're you're too driven you're you're too focused on your career on dhe.

I always thought that that was quite a positive thing.

I've kind of had Thio overcome that on overcome what people said on the negative connotations that people gave that and see the positive that it is.

And now I run multiple businesses on dhe.

I have such an amazing life that I've built for myself on DDE.

Being driven is the one thing that got me there.

But there were things that I wasn't really very good at along the way.

So public speaking, being one of them, and I found myself with so many opportunities in its job to do panels and connect with people and give talks at my meet ups on dhe, I really had to grow my confidence in that area, and now I actually kind of take in my stride.

Usually I go and speak about blogging on what I do in my career, but today is all about female empowerment, so it's definitely gonna be a new spin on how I do public speaking.

But I'm really, really looking forward to it, but I always think that social media makes this job look like it's just a walk in the park and you never really see the things that go on behind the scenes.

So I'm gonna try in this bloc to give you as much of an insight into all of the things that I've had to learn along the way in order to be able to do.

This is my job because it's so much more than just taking pretty pictures on walking around with a camera.

It's not one of those careers where I'm saving lives or, you know, I'm not a doctor or anything, but it's an amazing job that I feel like a lot of people don't know about.

And people don't know about the things that I've had.

Oh my gosh, we all know about my flying fear.

I fly so much for work and I really had Thio kind of learn to deal with that and overcome it so that I can continue to do this job at the level that I do it.

So first off, I'm literally taking you with me to this panel today and I'm really, really excited about it.

I'm really excited for you to see kind of the nerves.

That how I deal with them in the background on then also the execution.

So you get to literally see me overcoming one of the things that kind of held me back in the beginning on Dhe.

Then hopefully I can show you a little bit more about This is just basically about how I face anything in my career, which I just think is such a great little way to give context.

Seeing a little bit more of what goes on behind the scenes on how I've got to where I am today is quite positive thing.

So, yeah, I'm gonna quickly show you my outfits.

I know my taxi is on the way and I'm off to meet my best friend, Carrie.

You're already know we're heading down to London for the day for a panel with the Sunday Times style on Dhe Carolina Herrera, who is a really, really, really famous designer on.

Also, she's got her own line of fragrances, So let's go.

So I've gone up for my Max Mara, Prince of Wales check kind of two piece outfit, but it looks like a one piece on Dhe.

I love it so much because not only is it comfortable, but also looks super chic on Dhe like a styled edge as well.

So I've gone for some coral Manolo Blahnik Hang GC shoes, and these are beautiful.

These are actually comfortable because I went half a size up.

So maybe that's what I need to do with my handy sees to make them more comfortable on.

Then I've gone for my Christian Dior, pretty bag like this one, just to dress it down again a little bit more.

But I'm loving my hair and makeup and I'm loving my outfit.

So I am going Thio, grab myself a road snack.

But I'm really, really excited for today.

I know when I get there, I'll get my usual nerves, which make me just feel like I want to run back home.

But once I've done it, I mean, I'm so glad I did that.

So, yeah, this is one of the things I realized it's always gonna happen on.

I kind of just have to embrace that feeling of nerves because I know that it's only because I want to do a really, really good job.

It's not because I think I'm gonna fail because all I have to do is go up there and be myself.

So it's quite a good realization to realize that I'm you know, it's not a bad thing to feel nerves on.

I just have to kind of embrace those on dhe, use them to my advantage and use them.

Thio obviously make me do better, which is good.

I have quickly just popped this white jigsaw coat over the top because it looks quite cold outside.

So just not getting ahead of myself and thinking that I could go out with my arm just hanging out like that.

I've gone for this white coat, which is really nice.

Actually, it's structured, but it's actually like an old season, so I don't think you'll be able to buy it.

No nerves just yet, but we are waiting for everyone else to get here a little pee head with me.

You're under a beam of light angels shining down on you.

We just sat in the private dining space in S T K on.

Got a couple of hours until the panel the panels don't see Yes, the panels onto six.

But we're just, like getting to know all of the other people on the panel on what we're gonna be doing.

They've also got the most beautiful event upstairs in the most beautiful space thing I've ever seen.

So if I get a chance to go back up there in a bit, I'm going to show you it.

It was stunning, absolutely stunning, but yes.

Just gonna be chilling out with people I've never met.

So people like Sarah just still coming on, obviously carrying around herself.

So we're also gonna be getting today, then.