Name: How To Be A Man
Uploaded: 2020-03-09T03:11:42.000Z
Duration: 3 min 56 s
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Gerund

is stop asking these stupid damn questions.

This is a stupid question: "Can you make a video

"about how to become a man, who can manage yourself,

"manage a family, manage a empire, conquer the world

"What vision of ourselves in the next five years?"

How would I know what vision you should have for yourself?

This comes from a saying that I taught in one of my videos.

What the heck does it mean to manage yourself?

become the best version of yourself that you could be.

You can't even do that, how are you gonna manage your family

if you cannot become the best version of yourself?

How are you gonna become the best dad that you could be,

the best mom, the best husband, the best wife?

You can't, you have to learn to manage yourself first.

Problem is, you've never been taught on how to do that,

you don't have much expectations for yourself.

Most people will grow with low self-esteem,

because your parents never gave you self-esteem.

I don't mean that "Oh, yeah, you do a good job, yeah!

"it's okay to be the ninth place, you tried your best,"

I mean they don't have very high standards for you,

they're teaching you how to settle to be average,

how to settle for less, "It's okay, don't stand out,

"don't make noise, just get a safe secure job,

"why can't you be like your cousin?" all this bullshit.

Manage yourself, then you can manage your family.

Only when you could do that, then you can conquer the world.

because it was from the military, back then the war,

what it really means is impacting a lot of people.

You can't manage yourself how are you gonna impact others.

Most people try to save others before they save themself.

They try to save everybody else, save the world

Save yourself first, so you can save others,

They don't wanna help others, they say they want,

it's all lip service, they don't want to.

you don't have enough self discipline to put yourself

And you say you want to help others, you don't,

'cause you don't wanna be a role model for others,

you know how hard it is, you know how tough it is,

you don't want that kind of accountability.

So you're like "Ah," easy to hide behind the mask,

"Oh I wanna help others," like the hell you want to.

Help yourself first, before you wanna help others.

The vision, if you can't even articulate your vision,

you're asking this question, how are you gonna be the man?

the best version of yourself that you could be?

Only when you can do that, everything falls in line.

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How To Be A Man

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