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  • It's obvious that men and women are wired differently.

  • We tend to generally just do things differently than the opposite sex: we use the bathroom differently, eat differently

  • express our emotions differently, and so on.

  • Therefore, it's quite obvious that women also fall in love differently than men.

  • But in what ways?

  • How do these unique differences set them apart and how does it change the course of a relationship?

  • Here are five ways that women fall in love:

  • Number one: she needs to get to know you as a person.

  • Sure you guys may have had a few classes together, and maybe even gone on a few dates, but does she really know you?

  • How many deep, heartfelt

  • conversations have you two had?

  • Have you discussed that one time in the fourth grade when you got your head stuck in a fence?

  • Not yet? Well, it'll come up, and it will definitely be essential for this relationship

  • to prosper.

  • See, women have a greater need to build memories with someone first

  • before falling in love with them, including sharing secrets and stories with one another.

  • Men, on the other hand, need the initial attraction first,

  • whereas women can learn to fall in love over time by getting to know someone on a deeper level.

  • Sometimes, these types of relationships tend to last longer and be stronger,

  • since once the initial physical attraction becomes numb, there's nothing left for you too.

  • Looks can only go so far, because we're all bound to grow old and our bodies are forever changing.

  • In the end,

  • personalities that click are the true driving force for anything real and long-lasting.

  • Number two: she needs to know what you think.

  • With estrogen known as the female sex hormone,

  • it's coincidentally also linked to memories, learning abstract concepts and webbed thinking.

  • It's all about stimulating the brain, since these are so important to her and traits she already acquires.

  • Subconsciously, she wants to know that men are capable of logic and deep thoughts

  • It's an...

  • instinctive habit with wanting to know if your potential mate is going to be able to care for you and protect you.

  • While it's fun to go on dates and do fun activities together,

  • the most attractive quality is someone's unique way of thinking.

  • "Do we have similar views politically?" "Socially?"

  • "Religiously?" "Do we have similar perspectives on life?" "Is he more logical oriented or

  • artistically inclined?" "Does this way of thinking challenge my views and ideals?" "Do we play devil's advocate

  • successfully from one another?"

  • Intelligence is important; and though you don't need a man who is a certified genius who has the answer to all the questions,

  • she does need to know that he's smart enough to help her in her time of need and also fend for himself.

  • She needs to know that she can be with someone who is willing to explore life's philosophies with her.

  • Number three:

  • She needs to know that you're a good conversationalist

  • No matter what you decide to discuss, you both need to enjoy talking to one another, you need to be able to have interesting

  • conversations that don't feel forced or dragged on about things the other doesn't care about. Obviously,

  • this is completely subjective,

  • because different people have different ideas or what a good conversation entails.

  • Some people like talking about everyday matters: like the weather and what happened at work that day,

  • while others like debating for fun, and others like to discuss the what if some

  • potential future outcomes of the world. Through the best conversations, you bond closer with someone and become more intimate with them.

  • Although good verbal skills are important when getting to know someone,

  • silence is just as important. You should be able to have comfortable silence with another person.

  • Someone should not have to always be talking.

  • It's nice to have people who not only engage in good banter and debates,

  • but also who can use words to teach things without coming off as being conceited.

  • Number four: she needs to know that you're reliable.

  • Since women are biologically programmed to be child bears,

  • they have a subconscious need to know that every mate is capable of potentially caring for a child with her.

  • Since getting pregnant is very possible for most women,

  • it's a major concern that her mate will be worthy of fathering her potential child.

  • Bearing a child will affect their lives in a huge way.

  • Therefore, women are more selective with who they choose a partner for survival purposes.

  • They need to be sure that the person

  • they're with is reliable, and can provide for the family, if the situation calls for it in the future.

  • And... Number five:

  • She needs to know that she can be herself in front of you.

  • This does indeed pertain to both sexes, but it's especially important for women when trying to determine whether or not they're falling in love.

  • Vulnerability is important when having general feelings for someone.

  • She needs to know that she can be her full true self around him, even in her most embarrassing and private moments.

  • A lot of women tend to build walls up, and the men in their lives need to prove that they're going to be

  • there for them always, in order for them to open up.

  • Women are truly unique creatures, and earning their love takes time and patience, but it's well worth the wait.

  • And those are the five ways that women fall in love do you agree with this list?

  • Let us know in the comments section below.

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