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  • This scene's a little bit tense.

  • Tell me a bit about this man.

  • He was punching me with his fist and he broke my ears.

  • The green house, we'll go in.

  • How many times do you think he raped you?

  • Almost all my life.

  • What type of people do you usually target?

  • Go!

  • INDISTINCT

  • I'd arrived in Port Moresby,

  • the capital of Papua New Guinea, 100 miles off Australia's northern tip.

  • This place is regularly voted the worst place in the world to live.

  • With one of the highest rape and sexual violence rates in the world,

  • perpetrators are rarely prosecuted.

  • But some victims are taking a stand.

  • Leah, can we go?

  • HE SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE

  • Leah has taken action to put a restraining order against her husband.

  • He's basically been abusing her for seven or so years.

  • Hopefully, this is the end for you.

  • Yeah, to end violence.

  • Tell me a bit about this man.

  • Two weeks before I went into my labour,

  • he beat me at my workplace.

  • How badly?

  • I had black eyes.

  • He was punching me with his fist and it broke my ears.

  • I had bleed...er, with my eyes there was a blood clot

  • formed on this side of my eye.

  • Now it's time to show him that this is not OK, and today is the day.

  • I don't want my children to grow in this violent life.

  • I've got to end the violence now.

  • And I've got to tell my son and daughter that violence

  • against women is not acceptable.

  • The green house, we'll go in. That's the uncle's house.

  • Does he know we're coming?

  • It's going to be a surprise.

  • There's a lot of his family around here, and I'm guessing they're not

  • going to be very happy, so I don't know where this is going to go.

  • That's his mum? Yeah.

  • Hello, come.

  • Leah's husband isn't at home.

  • But his mother can legally sign the restraining order on his behalf.

  • It must be very difficult to have to do this. Yes, it is. But I've got to do it. I...

  • Yeah. Well done. Well done for being strong.

  • I have tears in my eyes.

  • It shows you how difficult it is to do something like this.

  • You know, this is this lady's family.

  • She's got kids with this guy.

  • And you have to basically go up against people you've known for years.

  • What do you think of her bringing the police here?

  • As a female, I think it's good.

  • It's good that she's...? Yeah, it's good.

  • The majority of the men, they have this mentality where they

  • think women must be just right underneath their feet.

  • Like Leah, two out of three women here

  • will suffer abuse or violence in their lifetime.

  • How big is the problem?

  • How many cases have you seen this year?

  • From January to May, we had about 6,000.

  • And those cases are the ones that are reported.

  • And...and unreported, try and imagine.

  • Why are so many women being abused?

  • How can I put it? It's a normal thing.

  • To any man in Papua New Guinea, it's a normal.

  • To hit your girlfriend, your partner, your girlfriend, your wife?

  • Yes.

  • I've been told that some of the worst perpetrators are the Raskols here.

  • That's the local name for criminals or gangs.

  • And I've been told that quite often, they use rape

  • as gang initiation for new members.

  • They've agreed to meet me, hopefully.

  • There's about seven guys there, all considerably larger than me.

  • Let's meet the Raskols.

  • These are the leaders of the 13 Casino Raskol gang.

  • They're notorious for robbing and raping,

  • and amazingly, they don't care about showing their faces on camera.

  • So is this where we're...we're speaking inside? Yes, yes.

  • OK. This is the way. We're going to wait there.

  • To win their trust, I have to try betel nut,

  • a psychoactive drug used all over Papua New Guinea.

  • Chew the whole thing? Yeah.

  • It doesn't necessarily taste very nice.

  • As you chew, you just spit it out. Oh, it's red. It's red.

  • I've just got to say, I am most definitely feeling different.

  • Sweating quite a lot. Yes. Yes. Yes.

  • What is that? It's um...yeah, yeah, yeah. It's quite... First time.

  • How long does it usually last for?

  • That is the cutest gun pouch I've ever seen. That is very small.

  • So is this literally, just a...it's a piece of pipe? Yes. It's just a piece of pipe.

  • Has everyone here taken a life?

  • With the betel nut coursing through me, I was feeling brave

  • enough to ask some tricky questions.

  • I heard that some gangs in Papua New Guinea,

  • as an initiation thing, you...

  • Some young men have to have sex with a woman,

  • kind of, like, rape a woman. Have you heard of this?

  • Yeah, yeah. How normal is that?

  • Yes.

  • Is that necessary? Do you have to do that?

  • It's quite hard to get my head around.

  • I've been told that in Papua New Guinea

  • it's reasonably common to occasionally belt your wife to make sure she's...

  • Have you belted your wife before?

  • What is a belting?

  • Like punch?

  • Have you actually shot her in the leg?

  • Really?

  • I mean, do you, do you, do you love your wives?

  • You mustn't love her.

  • If you kind of love your wife, why would you belt her?

  • Do you feel like you're bad people?

  • Carjacking is their biggest money-maker.

  • What type of people do you usually target?

  • Hello. I'm Ben. Very nice to meet you.

  • Are you the victim today? Are you the car driver? Yeah.

  • All right. Fantastic. Are you excited? I'll try!

  • All right. Shall we...?

  • I'll follow you guys, follow your lead.

  • So they're demonstrating to me how they rob women,

  • who they consider very easy targets, of their cars.

  • We have a gunman, we have a machete wielder and then we have a driver.

  • I mean, it's all fun and games now,

  • but it's absolutely terrifying if you're involved in something

  • like this, and it could end up with you losing your life very easily.

  • Is this the car? Yes. The car's coming.

  • That's the car.

  • Go, go, go, go, go!

  • Come on, out, out!

  • Shock! That is quite...

  • OK, I'm really shocked.

  • Are you OK?

  • It's really shocking, honestly. It's really shocking.

  • Quite scared? Yeah, it's really, like, real.

  • They said that they target women, like, exclusively.

  • Have you had something like this happen to you? Yeah.

  • Yeah, I did, before, once when I was driving.

  • Is it scary being a lady in Papua New Guinea,

  • cos things like this happen? Yes. Yes, it is.

  • That was pretty terrifying. Yeah, yeah, that was so fast.

  • Yeah. When we get a vehicle, we don't waste time.

  • Come here, Alex. Come here, Alex.

  • Yeah, I mean, that was quite the experience.

  • You know, it's all about being strong, being in control.

  • If your wife doesn't listen to you, you punch her in the face,

  • otherwise you're not a man, and that is depressing.

  • In the face of so much male violence,

  • it felt like women in Port Moresby were constantly under threat.

  • But there is help. Safe houses have been set up around the city,

  • where women can seek refuge from abuse.

  • I was meeting Susan.

  • She's been staying at this safe house for the last two months.

  • Does it make you sad, so many women go through the same thing?

  • Yeah, so many.

  • Most all of the Papua New Guinea women.

  • You honestly think it's nearly all women?

  • Yeah, because most of them, you know, just staying there.

  • They don't come out, they just stay there.

  • How long was he abusive for?

  • Er, we've been married since 2000

  • and then, all these years through to 2018, he's been abusing me.

  • What exactly was he doing to you?

  • He just cut my hand, see here.

  • Really? Yeah. 35 stitch.

  • So he slashed it? Yeah.

  • One time he chased me, and I ran. I jump off the window.

  • This leg has been broken, this one came at the back,

  • and the heel went through the front.

  • Like it's turning around, full revolution.

  • How many times do you think he raped you?

  • Almost all my life.

  • Almost all my life. Since we've got married.

  • Did his family ever say anything to him, to stop him?

  • No, they are afraid of him.

  • Everyone's afraid of him.

  • If they want to say something, he would just get up and say,

  • "Shut up, don't talk! That's my property!"

  • He'd actually say, "That's my property," about you? Yeah, as if he owns it, yeah.

  • He sounds like a devil. Yeah.

  • And it seems that one of the problems is that it's culture,

  • because people use it as an excuse.

  • Yeah, yeah, yeah. When you're talking about culture and customs,

  • most of the women are hurting themself.

  • Like they are in a cage, you see. There's nobody to help them out.

  • What are you planning to do now that you're at the safe house?

  • Going back to my village. Stay with my parents.

  • Find a decent job, look after my kids

  • and just live a normal life like everybody.

  • A free life, free from violence, and abuse and all these things.

  • I really hope... Yeah, I really hope that you get it.

  • I hope so.

  • This is one of our clients. She is 69 years old.

  • Very nice to meet you.

  • Yeah, so she's Marissa.

  • Because she's 69 years old - safe house, we don't keep

  • women over that age. It's not a nursing home.

  • It's not an old people's home. So we can't keep her.

  • And so I've explained all of that to her, Marissa,

  • so she's leaving today.

  • She had her son-in-law. Her son-in-law was really violent,

  • just physically abusing her.

  • Beating her up, so...yeah.

  • Do you know why? Why was he doing it?

  • He wanted to have sex with you? Yeah.

  • Not only having sex with her -

  • he's abusing her every day, belting her up, yeah.

  • Are you scared?

  • Is he looking for you now? Yeah.

  • Were you saying that he was abusive not just to you

  • but to other members of the family?

  • And he was abusive to everyone?

  • Thank you so much for talking to us. Really helpful.

  • They're taking her to a safe place today.

  • All right.

  • Yeah, I don't really know how to react to this.

  • It feels like they're kind of sending this old woman to her death.

  • She's terrified of this guy, who's not only been torturing her,

  • but he's been torturing the rest of her family, as well.

  • And here lies the problem, is that these safe houses can protect

  • women for so long, but there is always a point that they are going

  • to have to go back and in this case, she is literally going back to hell.

  • It was only five years ago that Papua New Guinea passed the

  • Family Protection Act, making family violence a crime,

  • punishable by up to two years in prison or a fine of US2,000.

  • It's given hope to women like Janet.

  • Her husband allegedly beat her three days ago, giving her a black eye,

  • so she fled her home.

  • Hello, nice to meet you. I'm Ben. I'm Janet.

  • Er, Janet. This is one of our complainants. Yeah.

  • Men is always the head of everything,

  • he makes the decisions, he takes, you know... He's in control of the

  • economy of the family, and everything else.

  • So he decides for the family.

  • So this is the culture that we have in Papua New Guinea.

  • It's very strong.

  • It's been inherited from generation to generation to generation.

  • Quite shocking, you know, isn't it? It says,

  • "My husband was punching my head so many times."

  • How often was he doing this?

  • It's been four years now.

  • Every day, we never rest.

  • Hearing the police were after him, Janet's husband arrives.

  • So this guy behind me is Janet's husband.

  • He's turned up to the police station.

  • I was speaking with Janet, and she was saying

  • you've been quite physical to her. Violent.

  • Because she has a black eye.

  • When you say attitude problem,

  • do you just mean she doesn't do entirely what you want her to do?

  • Er...yeah.

  • That's how you treat, like, a dog, if you're a bad owner.

  • She's, like, a human being, isn't she, you know what I mean?

  • Cos maybe she doesn't want do what you say. That's what I don't get.

  • I understand you're a man. Yeah. Does it really matter?

  • OK.

  • I'm giving him an opportunity to talk.

  • What are you angriest about?

  • INDISTINCT

  • No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no!

  • No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no!

  • I didn't assault her.

  • Janet's husband is charged with domestic violence and is

  • facing a weekend in the city jail, until he can make bail on Monday.

  • The horrible thing is that Janet still has kids with this guy.

  • He's going to have to be in her life to some degree.

  • That's clearly what she's worried about, and I can understand it.

  • He is potentially going to face justice,

  • but a lot of the damage is already done.

  • She's already been beaten up. Her kids have already saw it.

  • And it's just sad that there are so many people like this in Papua New Guinea.

  • Janet later dropped all charges, when she was reunited with her kids.

  • My time in Port Moresby was coming to an end, but I still didn't

  • fully understand how so many men could treat women like this.

  • My final stop was the biggest jail in the country - Bomana Prison,

  • on the outskirts of the city.

  • I feel like they've let us in to the most beautiful prison in PNG.

  • It's pretty well kept.

  • Well, that's nice!

  • I'm not going to lie - this is not what I expected when I thought of a

  • prison in Port Moresby. It looks like a summer camp as opposed to a

  • correctional facility.

  • Very nice to meet you. My name is John. My name is Benjamin.

  • This is the minimum security and most presentable side of the

  • prison where juveniles are held.

  • I arrive during the weekly yoga class,

  • aimed at teaching the inmates new skills.

  • Where does the yoga take place? Is those guys...? Over there.

  • That's a lot of people, isn't it?

  • As most of them are under 18,

  • we weren't allowed to show their faces on camera,

  • but I wanted to know what they were in for.

  • So you've got sodomy, suspected of rape, suspected of rape,

  • suspected of rape. That's right.

  • Murder. Rape. Stealing. Murder. Stealing. Rape. Rape.

  • Penetration. Marijuana. Rape.

  • Wow, that's quite a lot of people, isn't it? Yep.

  • Do you know the ages of the people convicted of rape? Oh, yes.

  • How old are they?

  • 13? 13, yes.

  • That's so depressing.

  • How long can you actually get in jail for raping somebody?

  • Two years? OK. Two years. That's really short, isn't it?

  • If you're wondering how common rape is here, out of

  • the 27 juveniles that they've got in this correctional facility,

  • 12 of them are being accused of some form of rape

  • and the youngest one is 13 years old.

  • And that is just insane.

  • It seemed like the culture of abuse and violence against women

  • was getting handed down from generation to generation.

  • On the other side of the prison was the maximum security section.

  • The guards had an inmate they wanted me to meet.

  • I imagine it's going to be a not very nice conversation.

  • How you doing? I'm Ben.

  • This is Ruben, and he's been sentenced to 12 years in jail.

  • Can you tell me are you here for?

  • So she was ten. How old were you?

  • That is definitely rape, isn't it?

  • You know, she can't consent if she's ten years old. Yeah.

  • It... Yeah. You are a rapist.

  • What do you think rape is?

  • Um, I mean, it is rape, because she's 10. You're 40 years old.

  • She's a child, you're an adult.

  • She doesn't even know what she's doing.

  • You've done something very wrong.

  • You've probably ruined a ten-year-old girl's life.

  • I've been here for a few days at this point,

  • and I am massively overwhelmed.

  • Pretty much every single woman I've spoken to has got a story of

  • being beaten or raped.

  • I've spoken to so many men who think that raping women is OK,

  • beating women is OK, and this just takes it to another level.

  • It just seems that there needs to be education on what is

  • acceptable and how to treat women.

  • And more people like that need to be sent down for a very long time.

This scene's a little bit tense.

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