Name: This is How WEAK Men Deal With Emotions
Uploaded: 2019-01-05T11:17:47.000Z
Duration: 5 min 29 s
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- [Narrator] Have you ever felt the urge to cry

Past simple

but decided not to because you were afraid

What if a girl heard that you were crying?

Would she even think that you were a real man anymore?

In this video, I'm going to break down exactly

why you should cry and why believe it's only the weak men

Chris was a guy who was incredibly good looking,

and he always did phenomenally well with girls.

One day, Chris met this beautiful Brazilian girl

She had long brown hair, brown eyes, dark skin,

and they started to date each other for about two months.

They were not officially boyfriend and girlfriend

towards a girl for the first time in many many years.

One day Chris is walking home from his bartending job

and he decided to stop by Andrea's house to say hi.

When he got there, he noticed that she was not there

which was strange because it was so late at night.

and then the next day he texted her asking her

He then texted her again the following day

And he did this for the next three to four days.

from her saying, "Sorry, I've been very busy

over the past few days and I was with a friend

she responded with, "Sorry, I'm also very busy

Chris continued to try to plan a date with her

but Andrea kept blowing him off last minute saying

that something had come up like a last minute dinner,

a last minute surprise party, that kind of thing.

After about three weeks of her continually canceling

on him, he finally gave up trying to organize a time

to meet up because it was torture for him

to keep making plans only for her to break them last minute.

I told him that he needs to cry or hit a punching bag

or something to release these bad emotions

I think we all have seen a friend who has been very hurt

over someone or a bad break up to the point

where he or she was so quiet and not acting

like their normal selves, they are almost unrecognizable.

You can often tell just by looking at someone

that they have some bad emotions in them.

This can appear through their posture, facial expressions,

the inability to smile, and even the way they look at you.

Bad emotions will keep you down just like chains.

who has never really 100 percent recovered

from a bad breakup even years after it happened.

Some people go their whole lives still torn up

The thing that most people don't understand

about emotions is that you need to take the necessary steps

but if you don't, they will always stay inside of you.

You can yell, you can workout, you can laugh,

But the most effective way to release these emotions

is the one most men stay away from which is crying

and this is because men do not think it is masculine to cry.

what sounds like the more masculine thing to do?

Option one: run away and hide from sad emotions

because thinking about them is too difficult

Or option two: he looks inside of himself

and he knows it will probably make him cry

but he understands that in order to move on

he has to deal with them even though it's really hard

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