Name: Falling in Love With Old Souls
Uploaded: 2018-08-03T13:43:47.000Z
Duration: 3 min 51 s
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Have you ever heard of the expression 'old soul'?

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You know, that one friend who, instead of going to a rager of a party,

they'd rather have a couple of drinks with a few good friends?

Sometimes not even drinks, but just coffee?

You know, grandmas in disguise: the old souls.

The term actually has no base in psychology

and the interpretation of it changes from person to person.

For some people, it means somebody mature beyond their age.

For others, it's someone who has gone through many different reincarnations of life;

a person who draws from their years of past lives' wisdom.

To be clear, the idea of old souls has been debunked by science.

However, some of the biggest believers of old souls are nurses who deliver babies who don't cry at all,

like the whole 'being born' thing ain't nothing.

but one disadvantage is trouble in relationships.

First, old souls usually come from single-parent households.

The thing about coming from a single-parent household

is that kids may be forced to mature faster than others.

Having to deal with divorce is a very sobering experience

However, growing up in a single-parent household,

they don't really grow up with a stable relationship present in their lives.

This means they can have trouble with their own

There is a term that's close to 'old souls'

This term refers to kids, teens and young adults

who seem older than they are. Pseudomature kids are

often the result of single-parent households

Secondly, old souls prefer the company of older people.

Because old souls feel older, they feel a disconnect with

Usually, for the first couple of decades of your life,

you're surrounded by a majority of people your age.

Old souls usually end up hanging out with older people,

someone their age, it's hard. An old soul

probably won't fit in with their partner's friends.

The other side of the coin is that they date someone

older than them, which brings its own problems

of pushing social norms, like, what if someone dies

well before the other? Age difference also may cause

problems when a couple tries to have kids.

All this and more can bring a lot of stress to a relationship.

The third thing with old souls is that they've got

very high standards. Assuming they've lived many lives

and been in many relationships, they're subconsciously

comparing their current relationship to their best

past ones. They know what they want. This constant

comparison can lead to a lack of satisfaction and stress.

Imagine remembering all the great loves of your life.

Trying to get over those and simultaneously falling

And their partners end up feeling judged and evaluated.

This can lead to frustration for both parties.

Sometimes, they seem distant because they don't want

As well, they have a strong sense of identity.

They're stubborn in their ways and they don't try new

things. Since they've lived so many lives, they've

very well-established personality as well.

This can make dating hard when you keep trying to

spice things up with new adventures but your partner

seems uninterested. It becomes very frustrating

After years and years in different lives spent doing

the basics like getting a job, getting married,

having kids, et cetera, old souls start to want

more from life; to have one of their lives have an

actual impact, to mean something, like a legacy.

What this means is that they are very driven people:

they have goals and want to do things that matter.

Sometimes, that means their relationships take a

back seat. Or sometimes you can feel like you're just

some tool to their success. On the other hand,

it can be very inspiring to be in love with someone

with goals. It's important to find a balance between

the two. These are the five ways falling in love

with an old soul can be hard, but well worth-it.

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