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  • Brainy Dose Presents:

  • 10 Reasons Why Smart People Have Fewer Friends

  • Friendship is perhaps one of the deepest bonds in human life.

  • It's forged through mutual trust, unconditional support and selflessness.

  • It doesn't matter if you have a thousand friends on Facebook, Twitter or whatever.

  • I mean seriously, how many of them do you actually talk to and hang out with?

  • In general, smart people have fewer friends.

  • They realize the importance of having REAL friends, and they value those friendships

  • deeply.

  • Yes, the smarter you are, the fewer friends you have, and here's a list of reasons that

  • explains why!

  • Number 1 - You Can See Through People

  • Having an above average intelligence means that you easily detect people with a “try

  • hardpersona, and you tend to keep your distance from them.

  • You simply refuse to get involved with people like that, just for the sake of popularity.

  • You feel like they are social climbers, and they aren't worthy of your time.

  • Number 2 - You Are Verbally Liberated

  • While your actions might contrast the actions of your friends, you have a strong mindset,

  • and the liberty to express your own thoughts and ideas.

  • Your mind isn't limited, and you always have something to say!

  • You think differently than others, but you're not bothered by their opinions.

  • Number 3 - You Don't Fear Missing Out

  • You try to keep up with what everyone's up to, but you don't enjoy engaging in senseless

  • conversations.

  • You don't really care about the latest trends, and you don't have much interest in materialistic

  • things either.

  • Because you're quite content doing your own thing, you don't have a fear of missing

  • out.

  • Number 4 - You're More Observant Than Most

  • Most of the time, you find yourself sitting back and just observing everything around

  • you.

  • The constant postings on social media, the scandals and disrespectful behaviors put you

  • off, because you see more to life.

  • You believe in radiating the energy you want to be around.

  • You are humble and encouraging to all, but you don't put your time and trust into people

  • who don't deserve it.

  • Number 5 - You Don't Get Involved In Drama

  • The unnecessary dilemma that comes with drama, irritates you.

  • You have enough on your plate, and you don't need more from anyone else.

  • Others can think whatever they want, and since you don't feel the need to be accepted by

  • them, you refuse to get involved.

  • Number 6 - You Don't Need To Prove Your Worth

  • You are independent and strong.

  • You're grateful for the little things and you're quite content with what you've

  • got.

  • Because you can support yourself, you don't rely on others, and there's no need for

  • you to prove your worth to anyone.

  • Number 7 - You're Cautious Of Others

  • You already know who your true friends are, so you don't really feel the need to have

  • new ones.

  • You are very cautious when letting people in your life, unless someone is as compatible

  • as you.

  • And by this I mean: they think the same, express the same ideas and have the same values.

  • But, you still test them in situations to see if they really care about you, as a person,

  • or if they have something else on their agenda.

  • Number 8 - Others Find You Intimidating

  • You usually keep to yourself, but you're a force to be reckoned with!

  • You're not afraid to say the truth, or confront someone when they're out of line.

  • And because of this, people often see you as a threat.

  • But, there are some people who can see you for who you really are.

  • These are the people you invest your time and effort in.

  • Number 9 - You Aren't Easy To Understand

  • Let's face it, most geniuses are loners, and few people understand and accept them.

  • It can be hard for an intelligent person!

  • You seem to live in your own small world, and social activity is more like a distraction

  • - rather than the essence of life.

  • In fact, the more you have to communicate with others, the more drained you feel.

  • Number 10 - You Focus On Your Goals

  • You feel uncomfortable sharing your dreams and visions with narrow-minded people.

  • You work hard to achieve your goals and you don't have time for setbacks, so spontaneity

  • is pretty much out of your vocabulary!

  • Because of this, people tend to think that you're uptight, but in reality, you're

  • just focusing on your goals.

  • Researchers believe that there may be a conflict between the way we've evolved and the fast

  • paced lives we lead.

  • Intelligent individuals are better able to adapt to modern life, and they're not as tied

  • to humanity's evolutionary predilections.

  • This means they don't have as much of a need for social interaction.

  • So, if you only have a few close friends, don't despair.

  • You're probably just really smart!

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