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  • Brainy Dose Presents:

  • The 10 Habits that will Make You More Attractive and Get People to Like You

  • Most people think that being attractive is all about being good looking. Indeed, some

  • people are blessed with natural good looks. They go through most of their lives benefitting

  • from their pleasing physical appearance. But, attraction has to do with much more than

  • your face, body, hair or clothes. Here are 10 habits that you can start implementing

  • into your daily life that will make you instantly more attractive - regardless of your physical

  • appearance!

  • Number One: Keep Your Words Positive

  • You can complain all you want about things, people or circumstances. But at the end of

  • the day, you're not helping yourself grow. And you certainly don't make others like

  • you any better! You see, people like to be around others who

  • make them feel good. But, how do you do just that? Well, you can start by using positive

  • words, and offering a lot of praise. Receiving that kind of energy makes others feel good,

  • and they will naturally like you more.

  • Number Two: Be Curious

  • The only way to make other people curious about you is by being curious yourself. Learn

  • how things work. Analyze why people behave the way they do, and try to figure out what

  • makes them tick. Read some interesting books, and find out what's happening in the world

  • around you. When you have a lot more to say, people instinctively

  • think you're smart and fascinating.

  • Number Three: Smile More

  • There's a reason why happy and charming people tend to have more friends and admirers. Happiness

  • is considered the most attractive expression! People are drawn to positive emotions, and

  • a smile conveys friendliness and openness. So, remember to smile often!

  • Number Four: Surprise People

  • When you tell someone what you're going

  • to do for them, they automatically expect you to deliver. Instead, surprise themfrom

  • time to time! It's much more memorable and impactful than doing what you've already

  • promised. It's not the gift alone that will brighten

  • their day, but the thought you put into the nice gesture!

  • Number Five: Say Thank You

  • These two simple words - though overused at times - can make a world of a difference in

  • someone's day. All it takes is a couple of seconds to think about and appreciate what

  • you are given. Even if it's something small - like someone

  • holding the door open for you, always remember to say thanks!

  • Number Six: Remain Calm

  • We can all agree that it's an unpleasant sight to see someone screaming or lashing

  • out in a destructive way. And sometimes we just can't help but lash back! Well, don't

  • do that. Before you snap, take a minute and think about the whole situation. It's best

  • to stay calm and just talk it out. By doing this, you'll be able to understand

  • others much better, and as a result, you will establish closer connections to them.

  • Number Seven: Forgive and Forget

  • We all have been hurt and disappointed at some point in our lives. And while letting

  • go is a difficult thing to do, it is extremely important. Anger, jealousy, and holding grudges

  • are ugly habits. They only cultivate negativity and bring you down.

  • Forgiving someone for having wronged you will not only make you a better person in their

  • eyes, but you will come across as a mature and sensible person.

  • Number Eight: Strike up a Conversation

  • Most of us feel uncomfortable when we're out of our comfort zone, and away from familiar

  • groups of people. But, people who take the initiative and introduce themselves to others

  • are the types who are completely comfortable in their own skin – a trait that's highly

  • attractive! So, break out of your comfort zone and strike

  • up a conversation with someone you don't know! You'll instantly surprise them, and

  • you might just walk away with greater confidence!

  • Number Nine: Do Something Nice for a Stranger

  • Take opportunities to be kind to others every day. You'll be amazed how good it feels!

  • Pick up a dropped wallet for someone, or simply smile at a passerby. These are little gestures

  • most people won't take the effort to do, but will give respect - if YOU do!

  • Not only will you feel better, but your gracious act will be much appreciated.

  • Number Ten: Take Care of Yourself

  • People who take care of themselves are more attractive because they emanate self-discipline.

  • Being in control of yourself means that you are able to meet your basic needs, and others

  • don't perceive you as being a burden. Eating nutritiously, exercising regularly,

  • and attending to your physical, mental and emotional health should be an important part

  • of your daily routine.

  • Can you think of any other simple habits to add to this list? If so, let us know in the

  • comments below!

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