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  • Hi, I'm Ashley Weston, I'm a celebrity mentor stylist.

  • So today, I wanna talk about the top 12 turn-ons for a woman.

  • Now, before we begin, I wanna just point out that on this list, you are not gonna find attractiveness, because yes, obviously it's something women like and would want, but it's definitely not a requirement.

  • When I was talking with all of my girlfriends and my sisters, we all agreed on this point, that there are other things that can make up for a lack of attractiveness.

  • All right, so let's get into the top 12 turn-ons for a woman.

  • So these are in no particular order, but first up is, we love a man who is decisive.

  • So a man that is just gonna make a choice.

  • If we're going out to dinner, he knows exactly where he wants to go.

  • It's not like, uh, what do you want, what are you in the mood for?

  • No, we want a man that takes control and is decisive.

  • The second turn-on is when you are prompt and punctual.

  • Now, this just shows a woman that you care and that you're respectful towards her.

  • That's always gonna be something that turns us on.

  • Now, it may not be a turn-on that we necessarily notice, but we're definitely going to notice if you're always late, because that is a huge instant turn-off for us.

  • The third turn-on is a well-mannered gentleman.

  • So that is someone that holds the door open for a woman, and knows not to eat before she's served as well, and you know, just someone that's polite to others.

  • Now, you'd be really surprised how uncommon it is to find a well-mannered gentleman.

  • The fourth turn-on is when you smile a lot.

  • Because that just shows you're really friendly, and you're lighthearted.

  • Nobody wants someone that's super serious all the time.

  • Smile more!

  • Number five, this is a given a great sense of humor is gonna be an instant turn-on.

  • Now, this is for a woman, as well as just for your friends in general, and people around you.

  • Everyone likes someone that has a great sense of humor.

  • Now, does that mean you have to be the life of the party?

  • No, but a nice well-placed joke here and there goes a long way, and it's something that we all enjoy, and we wanna be around.

  • The sixth turn-on is when you can maintain a fun and easy-going conversation.

  • This is what attracts people to someone, when they are able to just have a really fun, lighthearted conversation, rather than someone that just kinda stands there, and is serious.

  • The seventh turn-on, which is related to the last point, is something that was on every single one of my girlfriends' lists, and that is someone that is a good, attentive listener.

  • This was a big deal, guys.

  • So just please give us the respect of listening to us, because it's a huge turn-on, and something we definitely notice.

  • The next turn-on is when a man has indicators of stability.

  • So what I mean by that is when a man has great relationships with his friends and family, and he has a great career, or at least is on the right path towards a great career.

  • The reason why all of these things are important is because it just shows that you potentially will be a great partner in life.

  • The ninth turn-on, and I think this should go without saying but I'm gonna say it, is a man who is confident.

  • Not only in himself, but in the things that he does.

  • The tenth turn-on is when a man constantly wants to learn and expand his horizons.

  • This is always gonna be a very sexy feature of a man.

  • Always just having that thirst, that thirst for more knowledge is a huge turn-on.

  • And the next turn-on for a woman is a man who takes care of himself.

  • Now, I'm not talking about, you know, late at night, when you're taking care of yourself.

  • I'm talking about when someone has really great grooming habits.

  • When you lead a healthy lifestyle.

  • And if you're watching this channel, you know I've stressed this before, when you are well-dressed.

  • The twelfth and final turn-on for women is a man who's ambitious and passionate about his career.

  • A woman is always going to love a man who loves what he does, and is excited by it.

  • So those are the top 12 turn-ons for women.

  • I hope you guys enjoyed it.

  • I left a question in the comments section below, I'd love to hear your answers about that.

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  • All right, have a wonderful day, I'll see you in the next one.

Hi, I'm Ashley Weston, I'm a celebrity mentor stylist.

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