Wehavetobeutterlyatpeacewiththeprospectofmanyyearsofsolitudeinordertohaveanychanceofforming a goodrelationship, orwe'lllovenolongerbeingsinglerathermorethanwelovethepartnerwhosparedusbeingso.
Unfortunately, after a certainage, societymakessinglehoodfeeldangerouslyunpleasant.
Whensexwasonlyavailablewithinmarriage, peoplerecognizedthatthiswouldleadsomepeopletomarryforthewrongreasons --- toobtainsomethingthatwasartificiallyrestrictedinsocietyas a whole.
Sexualliberationwasintendedtoallowpeopletohave a clearerheadwhenchoosingwhotheyreallywantedtobewith, butthisprocessremainsonlyhalffinished.
Onlywhenwecanmakesurethatbeingsingleispotentiallyassecure, warmandfulfillingasbeingin a couplewillweknowthatpeoplearechoosingtopairupfortherightreasons.