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  • You had a pretty difficult childhood.

  • Tell me about it.

  • So yeah, I was a pretty unhappy kid growing up.

  • I would be afraid of going to school because I would get bullied pretty often, physically and verbally.

  • They would call me like a loser, you know...stupid, skinny, small, retarded.

  • So this was about when I was five years old, right here.

  • I had just moved to a new school, and I had a hard time assimilating and fitting in.

  • Why were kids bullying you?

  • Because I was typically one of the smallest kids and the skinniest kid, the youngest as well.

  • My legs were so skinny that I had to wear braces on them because my quads were so weak.

  • I was really insecure.

  • I just was a really shy kid. I've...

  • I was not confident in myself.

  • How often would you get bullied?

  • Almost on a daily occurrence.

  • And there were a couple really vivid incidents that still are in my mind.

  • And once I was pulled back and choked by a bully and strangled and slammed to the ground.

  • And no one really helped me.

  • People actually....around me were actually laughing and ridiculed me.

  • How did that make you feel?

  • When you are bullied, and you're put down, you really feel helpless.

  • I decided to just isolate myself.

  • I would lie in bed at night, and I would think about the knife set downstairs in my kitchen.

  • And I would think ok, if I just took these knives and I, you know, cut myself, I bet no one would care.

  • I didn't know how to control my anger.

  • I didn't have an outlet at all. I mean...

  • One time I punched a wall, broke my hand, and that kind of was an epiphany for me after that. You know...

  • I have to start finding a different kind of outlet or else I'm going to end up hurting myself.

  • So what did you do?

  • So instead of punching things, I started working out in my room.

  • I felt invigorated.

  • I felt really happy and focused.

  • I felt really just alive.

  • And how has this ritual fitness changed your life?

  • So it started with, you know, that, working out in my bedroom, but it was really training in the gym that I fell in love with it.

  • And I was actually around other people, so it wasn't like me isolating myself.

  • When I go to the gym, I always take at least 15 minutes to just put in my headphones and visualize what I'm going to do that day.

  • If you're not focused, you're just going through the motion, and that's not gonna give you the best results.

  • When you look in the mirror now, who is the person that you see?

  • I see a lot more confident person. I see someone who's made a lot of progress, and most of all I see someone who is on a journey.

  • The gym is symbolic in my life.

  • It's just a haven for me.

  • It's given me my closest friendships.

  • I could even say it's kind of like a sanctuary for me, because it's really therapeutic for me to be there.

  • And I decided to become a trainer and inspire and motivate other people, and I just fell in love with that as well.

  • What would you say to that young person who 's being bullied and beaten up?

  • I think life takes you on a course that sometimes you just don't know what's gonna happen.

  • And I personally never would have thought I would be at USC, having a passion for fitness like I do right now.

  • It will make you stronger, and that's what I would say to my 12-year-old self to just stay strong and push through it.

  • You will be OK.

  • Bullying is something that sadly too many people face in life, but I hope you were inspired by David's story of strength and determination.

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  • And you can watch another story about a young dancer whose discipline and passion have allowed her to live out her dream.

  • RIO ANDERSON: As a student, each performance matters so much, because you just don't have as many.

  • And...and in the competitions, you only have one chance on stage.

  • It's a lot of pressure.

You had a pretty difficult childhood.

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