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  • - And she wrote,

  • "You're the most special thing in my life.

  • "You have the most perfect (beep)

  • "and I love (beep). (laughter)

  • "You are my (beep).

  • "You are my (beep) and I'm obsessed with you baby."

  • We text any given day, like a 100 times.

  • - Today it's been like 50

  • and it's been like 3 hours.

  • - Texting is pretty much how we communicate

  • throughout the entire day.

  • Until we're back home together.

  • - We text if we're pissed off at someone.

  • - We're pretty young in our relationship here.

  • Texting is just a way to like make that connection

  • so strong.

  • - So, we're just getting rid of the easiest way

  • to communicate.

  • - Does this mean she can't send me like a photo?

  • - Duh, that's text.

  • - What about, (beep).

  • - [Voiceover] What just happened?

  • - Nothing happened all right?

  • I wasn't texting Jen at all.

  • I was grabbing my phone...

  • - He was just texting, he was just about to text Jen

  • and I caught him.

  • - My phone rang and it was very exciting

  • because I knew if my phone was ringing

  • it was him, but then the call didn't go through

  • and we couldn't hear each other.

  • - It already feels like, a lifetime of not texting him.

  • - It's 8 a.m. and stealthy Steve, ate my cereal,

  • and I tried calling him.

  • He's not responding and I'm so hungry.

  • - It's the second day and I've already had

  • the impulse to text Annie, like five different times.

  • I think this is gonna be a little harder than I thought.

  • - The calls just cut out.

  • Like we tried three times and now I

  • think we're just giving up.

  • You might rethink calling this video,

  • "Couples don't talk for a month."

  • - I just caught myself mid-text,

  • super super close to texting Jen.

  • - I may have to delete you from my phone

  • and just remember your phone number

  • and call you or something. - [Jen] I know right?

  • Do you know my phone number?

  • - No. (laughs)

  • - Half the time our conversations are just,

  • "Hello, can you hear me?"

  • - I just came from a fitness class

  • and the guy next to me fell off the treadmill

  • and it was hilarious.

  • I really wanted to text Steve about it.

  • - I saw the coolest dude ever.

  • This 80 year old man wearing a pot leaf hat

  • and just chilling.

  • I was like, "Hey, can I take a picture?"

  • He said, "Yeah, sure."

  • Immediately I wanted to send it to Annie

  • but I can't text her now.

  • - I have been waiting for him for 20 minutes

  • and it really sucks that I can't text him.

  • - I'm having a drink where Ben and I

  • had our first date.

  • I'd love to text him but I can not do that.

  • - It's strange not talking to him throughout the day

  • and I look forward to this being over.

  • - Annie and I haven't texted each other goodnight.

  • It feels like a part of our relationship

  • is diminised.

  • - We're at the half way point

  • and we have not texted each other once.

  • - We have not broken it once,

  • I'm proud to say.

  • But it sucks.

  • - Yeah, we kind of (beep) a little bit.

  • - We epically failed.

  • 24 hours after we shot the first video,

  • we were texting. - [Steve] No.

  • - Hopefully, from here on out we're gonna really focus

  • on taking this seriously.

  • - There's so much that I should be telling her

  • that I'm not and I'm gonna forget

  • by the time I see her later.

  • - I don't know if Jolene has been fed.

  • Jolene, have you had dinner?

  • - My co-worker just asked Ben

  • if he is coming to a little party I planned.

  • I guess I forgot to tell him about it.

  • - It's been pretty hard not texting Annie

  • but I think I'm doing all right.

  • What do you think?

  • - Yeah!

  • When we see each other, it's like,

  • "Oh my God, it's you."

  • - So, we're less than a week away

  • from the challenge being over

  • and while it would have been way easier

  • at times to text him, I've kept to it.

  • - This is actually become pretty easy

  • and we're getting along great.

  • - We've been spending a little bit more time

  • just face to face.

  • - She and I been talking on the phone a lot more

  • and I like it.

  • - I have decided I'm gonna write a book.

  • It's gonna be called, "Where the Eff is Steve Canter?"

  • It's gonna be sort of like, "Where's Waldo."

  • Except that you never find him.

  • - We did it!

  • - We succeeded.

  • - We really hit our stride, like midway through.

  • And then, just like an addict, we relapsed.

  • - I think you said, "I need my gym shoes."

  • That was the text that broke it.

  • - I don't know that we learned to communicate better.

  • We just learned that we can get by

  • with communicating a lot less.

  • - We definitely hung out a lot more

  • and spoke on the phone a lot more.

  • - It made me appreciate the ability

  • that we have to stay in touch as much as we do normally.

  • - Trust me, it's actually that hard.

  • Because we're also each other's go-to person

  • for like, "Oh, this person did this stupid thing."

  • And now we can't do that. - [Steve] Yeah.

  • - I think initially, we'll definitely text less

  • than we did before.

  • - I disagree, I'm like raring and ready to go again.

  • - I don't know if I'm ready to just

  • dive right back into it.

  • - We'll take it slow.

  • (upbeat music)

- And she wrote,

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