Name: How Do You Help A Mentally Ill Friend? / Just Between Us
Uploaded: 2016-11-05T15:10:20.000Z
Duration: 4 min 16 s
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Adverbs of frequency

G: Yeah remember when Allison said she would never get Snapchat, and talked shit about it all the time? Now she has a Snapchat.

A: Yeah money was involved , then I found out it wasn't money and they just wanted to send me free clothes. So I said "no thank you, I only like money"

you only Snapchat back and forth with this girl from your work

A: Yes. I met a blonde lesbian in there named Rachel.  We formed this like unlikely Odd Couple Duo

A: We snap back and forth all day, we're like BFFs at work. It's so funny because people are like "oh my god,  we love your dynamic together"

G: I will not have you snapping other women in my presence.

A: It's not the same. We'll never have what,  it's just new and fresh.

A: And it's not the same, what we have is so much deeper.

A: Like if I were to do the song auto-tune what would that sound like?

G: -robot singing voice- like a robot voice

-nasally mimic of Gaby's robot voice- this week we have an international question, international question

A: -voice goes deeper- international question

A: Genevieve Melbourne. Do you think if you tuned in late you would know I was auto-tuning it?

A: How do you help a friend with mental illness?

G: Just don't judge Allison, and I understand that a lot of her stuff is coming from like her OCD, and  her anxiety, and depression.

G: I do not. We have two brands on this show one brand is mental illness, and one brand is gay stuff. And never the two shall meet.

A: Right, I'm straight but you are crazy.

G: I don't know, I've never met anybody that doesn't have anxiety.

A: You don't necessarily know that that's why your friend is acting the way your friend is acting.

A: Like it took me a while to figure out -click-

Anyway I feel like the way you deal with the friend with mental illness is the same way you would just deal with anyone that's your friend, with compassion.

G: I think we do separate our brands a lot on this show however I do have mental illness stuff

G: Great. I don't talk about it on this show cuz' it's not like my whole deal

Like not your whole deal, like your activism. Not like your whole deal meaning that you're like whatever. Like that's your activism.

A: Well I just don't think you need to hide it.

A: No, I know. But I'm saying that is why I talk about  it that much. Also--

G: If this were a TV show it would immediately cut to all the times you've talked about how you have mental illness

Sometimes friends will have mental illnesses noticeable and you just have to let them do whatever they need to take care of themselves.

And not judge that, and not make a big deal, or make fun of them.

G: Take your shoes off if they need you to take your shoes off.

A: If they say I don't want sit on the grass don't make them sit on the grass.

G: Right. And don't be like "ugh, just get over it"

A: I think a great way to deal with a friend  who may be is going through something is to say why don't you go talk to a professional

A: -there's nothing wrong. You talk to a professional about everything else.

If your toilet's broken you're not like "Oh I better not talk to a professional that's embarrassing".

G: Don't let your friend dump it all on you if there not going to seek some kind of other-

Even if it's just running, even if you can't afford to see a professional if you're feeling bad  and you just start running,

G: I'm saying that you may not always be able to spot mental illness in people  and that maybe you wouldn't think somone like me

would be on medication but I am. And so just be  kind to your friends.

A: It's not my whole thing. I have other things!

A: I'm a loser when it comes to love, I have a dog.