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  • Sadhguru when you begin to say yes

  • and you experience

  • what that yes does to you

  • are you already married

  • yes ok then it's safe tell me

  • and there is this exuberance

  • it is, it's like you are melting but

  • when around you there is no

  • what about how do you go on with that

  • so the trouble started with the first yes

  • so uh

  • you are being exuberant

  • your family is not cooperating

  • the world around you is not cooperating

  • see i want you to understand this

  • the more lonely you feel

  • the more depressed you feel

  • the more the need

  • for having company isn't it yes

  • the more joyful you become

  • the more exuberant you become

  • the less and less you need company

  • so when you're alone

  • if you feel lonely

  • that means obviously you're in bad company

  • ha ha

  • ha ha

  • if you're with a good person

  • why would you feel lonely

  • you'd feel great

  • exclusive

  • isn't it

  • so

  • your exuberance

  • is not manufactured

  • if it is manufactured yes you need company

  • now people's idea of exuberance is let's talk

  • let's dance let's listen to music let's do this let's do that

  • not necessarily

  • you can just sit quietly here and be absolutely exuberant

  • if you're exuberant by your own nature

  • if the life has become exuberant

  • activity is just a consequence

  • but if your life is not exuberant

  • you're trying to crank it up with activity

  • then activity is the means

  • this is a big difference

  • either you dance

  • and arrive at a certain state of exuberance

  • or because you are exuberant and you cannot contain it

  • you dance

  • these are two different things

  • either because you're happy

  • you burst out into laughter

  • or somebody told you everyday in the morning if you laugh and laugh and laugh one day you

  • will become happy

  • these are two different ways

  • tell me which way does life work

  • look at everything around you

  • which way is it working

  • is it because

  • there are flowers

  • the plant and the root

  • came up like a support

  • to the flower

  • is that so

  • because there's a beautiful flower

  • this plant and it's root grew

  • so that it can have a nice pedestal

  • is that so

  • this is so with this one because this is manufactured

  • because this is a microphone

  • and they didn't want to trouble me

  • then they manufactured a stand

  • a stem to it

  • is that the way this one happened

  • because

  • the exuberance in the stem could not be contained

  • it flowered isn't it

  • this is the way life should happen

  • if you try to do the other way

  • then

  • it's going to be a very hard life

  • the hardest life

  • in the world is

  • to be

  • constantly

  • putting yourself out into the world

  • like you are joyful when you're not

  • that is the hardest thing to do in life

  • when you're not happy

  • to show everybody that you're happy

  • it costs phenomenal amount of life

  • have you noticed this

  • some people are there when they're happy they're happy when they're not happy they're not happy

  • they just show it to everybody the whole world knows their thing

  • their active life everybody knows

  • some people manage

  • all the time but

  • it takes phenomenal amount of energy to keep it up like that

  • you will grow diseases in your body I'm telling you

  • you'll grow

  • you'll grow lumps and tumors in your body

  • if you try to constantly

  • put on an act

  • this is happening all over the world

  • actually if you're willing to be a subject I can demonstrate it to you

  • within a few hours

  • I can make you grow a tumor

  • really I'm not joking

  • if you make your mind in a certain way

  • you will do that

  • only saving grace for you is

  • you never do anything steadily you're off and on off and on off and on

  • your joy is off and on your misery is off and on

  • never on

  • if you become utterly miserable

  • you will see the consequence of it

  • if you become utterly joyful you will see the consequence of it

  • if you become utterly angry you will see the consequence of it

  • you don't see the consequence of anything

  • because you're always off and on off and on off and on

  • people ask me Sadhguru what kind of

  • attitude and emotion I said damn thing any damn thing is okay

  • you want to be angry

  • be angry

  • twenty four hours non-stop

  • you'll get

  • realized I'm not joking

  • you like love

  • be loving twenty four hours you'll get realized

  • you want to be depressed

  • depression no that's not an attitude that's a

  • pathological problem

  • it'll make you sink elsewhere

  • anything else

  • just keep it on for twenty four hours

  • you will come to a certain realization

  • but nothing is there

  • we were also singing that

  • Jeevan Mukthi

  • that's all it takes

  • you keep changing the direction and the course of your journey

  • how will you go anywhere you'll end up in circles

  • which way you want to go I'm not deciding to go wherever you want to go

  • but steady

  • not every day altering it altering it altering it

  • everything

  • every cell

  • every atom in the existence can be a doorway to the beyond

  • if you go steadily at it

  • the problem is people keep shifting and shifting and shifting and

  • that's the biggest problem with today's world like never before

  • people

  • think it's a virtue

  • for them to say

  • our attention spans are very short

  • they think they're progressed

  • they can't listen to anything they can't do anything

  • the whole discussion is about the future media

  • what is

  • you know in India

  • a cinema means four and a half hours at one time

  • they cut it down to three hours

  • now most of the western films are ninety minutes

  • now because people want to watch

  • movies you know what will happen in a year's time or so

  • movies will come on your cell phone

  • obviously you can't do this for one and a half hours

  • so movies

  • stories are being told in three to ten minutes

  • a ten minute movie

  • cinemas over

  • the same nonsense

  • you could have done it in ten minutes so why were you wasting our time for three hours

  • but that's how it is

  • that's the whole thing

  • now you can watch every cinema in the world because it's only three minutes