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  • Hi it's Stephan,

  • And in this video I'm going to explain to you 3 legal methods to freak a girl out. The

  • legal you can do them right now and you're probably doing them right know if you are

  • like maybe 85% of men in this world.

  • So here's how to do them;

  • 1. Is called the stare and avoid. Stare and avoid. Here is how you do it. You are the

  • girl right? Imagine that you're the girl and I'm here, I'll tell you when you become aware

  • of when I'm looking at you. So I am sitting here you are over there and I'm not staring...

  • And now you become aware of me... This is how you do that on you the stare and avoid.

  • That's a legal way to freak girl a girl out. You cannot be arrested for that but she will

  • be freaked out and she will be weirder out. That is step number one. Now we have another

  • method to freak a girl out.

  • 2. I call it hovering. When you are near her either when you are interacting with her or

  • even before you interact with her, you just sort of hover. So you stay hang-on a little

  • bit so like this... Maybe you just said, "Hey" and she goes, "Hey" and you are like... you

  • are thinking about what you are gonna do next or whatever. You just stay there a little

  • bit and you hang and when you say, "Hey I should probably go now" and then you just

  • have looked around or you look and you just stay there. You just decide where you are

  • going, whether you are going, and staying or whatever. You just hang on and hope that

  • she will sort of help you out. That is another great way to freak a girl out and so legal

  • although you shouldn't do it repeatedly because it might become illegal. It becomes that stalking

  • thing.

  • 3. The third way to freak out a girl out or to really make her quite uncomfortable is

  • also when you interact with her or before you interact with her you kind of do this...

  • just 0:03:03.8 inaudible extra, "Oh really you work here. Wow!" That kind of thing or

  • just say, "Oh yeah, oh that is interesting, oh yeah." You put a lot of extra energy into

  • everything and really compensate for the fact that you know you feel that you maybe not

  • that not interesting and she really is a lot more important than you. So make yourself

  • a lot extra interesting that really again is a great way to freak a girl out.

  • So I have given you 3 great methods to legally freak a girl out. Maybe 1 or 2 people that

  • may think, "I don't want to freak a girl out, I rather kind of make a girl feel comfortable

  • in my presence" so let's quickly to through those options.

  • We talked about freaking out method number one which was the stare and avoid. Now here

  • is what you could do if you want to make the girl feel the opposite of freak out which

  • might be to kind of the pleasantly surprised by your presence. So if you are looking at

  • her and she looks back at that moment you might actually just want to flash a quick

  • smile or actually start talking to her right at that stage. Now that will be a way of making

  • her feel comfortable probably and feel good. How about turning the second method around,

  • what if you didn't hover? But you just took the signs of action. So when you are about

  • to speak to her you are not gonna kind of waiting for her to turn to you but you just

  • go and do it or when you are saying, "Hey you know what I think I'm gonna leave so it's

  • been nice talking to you" you say bye and then you just go or in the conversation you

  • just say what comes to your mind rather than trying to guess what she wants to hear, Makes

  • sense? Cool! How do we turn the other one around? The last

  • one was over compensating making sure that you are extra interesting because really deep

  • inside you think a lot. Well what you could do instead is you could be happy and comfortable

  • whether she is there or not. So that would mean you wouldn't do anything extra but when

  • you see her likely would with her good friend or something you would be friendly, you would

  • be happy to chat to her, youll be interested, and youll be curious but your well-being would

  • be just as important as her well-being. Now I have a bit of mindset for that which

  • I call, "I am cool and you are cool." That is how I think about it to be honest. Because

  • secretly, I don't really like to freak girls out, I don't know about you. So you could

  • use that so in the conversation with a girl you could always make sure that you feel within

  • your rhythm, within your boundaries, and within the way you act in general when your happy

  • and comfortable and she is a part of that at that stage but you are not going to turn

  • around and make an extra effort and jump up and down just in order for her to see and

  • think that you are interesting. Some more like an equal level, you know like, "I'm okay

  • and your joining me in my little world, hey I'm chatting with you."

  • So that is some tips that will help you, I guess if you want to do the opposite of freaking

  • girls out. You probably don't I mean you probably gonna be happy. It's kind of more fun as well

  • actually to freak girls out rather than just comfortable, I'm kidding.

  • In the long term it might have some benefits. Anyway, well I hope this was useful, was it?

  • I hope it was. I want you to invite as well if you want more amazing tips just like this,

  • all for you to become more successful with women. You might want to go http://tooshytodate.com/

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