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  • Uh, cheating is terrible. Probably the meanest and evilest thing you could do to someone.

  • In a lot of cases, it means you are unhappy with the way things are and rather than dealing with the way things are in your current relationship,

  • like you kind of seek an escape from someone else.

  • I have been cheated on and it really really sucks.

  • I had a boyfriend in college who would cheat on me all the time. And I had told him at one point like

  • "Look! If you gonna do it just like tell me and like we'll talk about it, but don't keep it from me."

  • That was the bare minimum that I asked for. And then he still would keep it from me.

  • He was away for the summer and he would come back to Boston to visit me.

  • And our visits were always very sweet. We'd sort of hang out all day and like have ice cream and walk through the Boston Common.

  • And then you know at night, he would go see a couple more friends and then he'd leave

  • After that summer I found out that like he'd have ice cream with me during the day,

  • and then like screw his ex-girlfriend at night...yeah.

  • It was the first time I understood the kind of fear and anger people feel

  • to the point where they only know how to react physically.

  • By just combusting into tears and throwing a hairdryer.

  • Yeah, I have cheated on someone, but it was never likeit's never been like an affair.

  • So I was on a break which was really weird but I feel like a lot of people have been through it

  • and then I decided on my own accord that it would be okay to pursue another person or allow someone to pursue me,

  • so but I think in certain situations, people think that's cheating which I actually think is too.

  • I have never cheated on someone. I have been the one the cheater has cheated on someone with

  • One time I had no idea until after the fact and one time and I kinda knew...yeah.

  • I kind of rationalized it like there's been so many times where I've done the right thing, where I've told someone,

  • "No, you break up with your girlfriend and then you can talk to me."

  • And then they eventually break up. Something always happens but they never ended up with me

  • so this time maybe I'm supposed to do the wrong thing.

  • Maybe that works out sometimes and it really doesn't.

  • It's just really painful and messy and awful.

  • In some capacity cheating is like, for me and my situation, it was like getting back at the person versus

  • like me taking the high road and being a better person

  • So, it's like, um, terrible...it's terrible. It's a horrible feeling. It makes me feel sick.

Uh, cheating is terrible. Probably the meanest and evilest thing you could do to someone.

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How Women Feel About Cheating

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