Name: 這三個決定將改變你的一生 ► 托尼·羅賓斯說得最好的演講 - Tony Robbins 托尼·羅賓斯（中英字幕）
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There's three decisions you're making every moment you're alive.

And the way you make these three decisions shapes your destiny.

When I was 11 years old, we had a really, really tough Thanksgiving where there was no money and no food.

It was the most crushing experience I felt.

And I answer the door and standing there is this giant man.

And beside him on the ground was a black pot with an uncooked turkey in it.

And I said, dad, dad, there's a guy at the door.

And this man's standing there with this big box of food.

And he said, look, we don't take charity.

And then he took the door to slam it in the man's face.

He put his foot there and smacked his foot and bounced back over.

Somebody knows you're having a tough time.

And they want you to have a magical Thanksgiving.

And my father said, we don't take charity.

And this time the guy put his shoulder against it.

And then the guy said something that I'll never forget.

And he said, don't make your family suffer because of your ego.

So he took the food, slammed it on our table and slammed the door in the man's face.

And I remember that day just thinking, you know, I don't understand.

And years and years later, I began to understand a little bit.

Years I figured out our whole life is shaped by decisions.

That's what we've talked about today, right?

But there's three decisions you're making every moment you're alive.

First decision we're all making every moment is what are you going to focus on?

I realized that my father's life and my life ended up very different.

Because we made that day three decisions very differently.

He decided to focus on the fact that he has not fed his family.

The second question is, as you're focusing on, what does this mean?

And the bottom line on meaning is, if you think about it, you get to make up the meaning.

And most people pick the worst one, don't they?

That day, my father decided to focus on the fact he hadn't fed his family.

And I know what meaning he gave because he said it out loud over and over again.

That he was worthless because he had not taken care of his family.

And then the final, most important decision you make every moment you're alive.

He decided to leave our family shortly thereafter.

I can tell you right before his death, he got the lesson because he looked at me.

And he said, son, he said, I was a bastard.

I didn't connect with anybody and look what I'm dying of.

And my life turned out very different than him.

What changed my life was the meaning I gave it.

I decided that day that what this means is that strangers care.

And if strangers care about me and my family, I decided what I was going to do is I was going to care about strangers.

I promised myself someday I'd do well enough to do this for other families.

I realized in that moment that the worst day of my life, my father leaving had actually been the best day of my life.

Because if I hadn't had that experience, I wouldn't be here today.

And now because of that, I'm get to live this life.

I have the desire and the drive and the want to give it this way.

I tell you the story for a couple of reasons.