Name: How to Disappear and Transform Yourself
Uploaded: 2024-09-23T01:59:17.000Z
Duration: 9 min 32 s
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The more you open your life up for display, the more people find a way to drag you down.

Gerund

There's something powerful about disappearing and working in the shadows.

Becoming unavailable and committing to become the next version of you in secret can be exhilarating, exciting, because you know that when you reappear, your transformation will shock the world.

But funny thing is, when you do, you won't care because you'll learn in the shadows that the only opinion that matters is yours.

Let's get into how to do this the right way.

I'm going to break it down to the three key parts of this for you.

And if you mess up any part of this, especially the last, you're going to regret it.

Your mouth betrays you much more than you know.

You will no longer speak openly about your life to anyone else.

This includes your family, your friends, your co-workers, no one.

And that's if you know that they want you to succeed and crush it all.

You will have trouble controlling your mouth.

The natural habit we have is to just spill information.

It's coded into us for the survival of the species.

We need to fight that to really disappear properly.

You will need to learn to catch thoughts before they leave your mouth.

Become a mystery to everyone and then you will be able to move in the shadows.

To disappear and stay hidden, you will have to reprogram your mind.

You'll have to not care what others think.

But the problem is, you think that they care about you.

You need to kill that side of you that cares what others think.

What you have to do is create a person in your mind.

And you have to obsess about what that person thinks about you.

We're so driven from what others think, you have to cheat and make you the other person.

Through this process, you will be less a puppet of others and more in control of your own life.

This is not an easy task and it takes practice and repetition.

Share in the comments if you've been able to figure this trick out and explain how.

You'll develop some ambitious plans in this journey.

You'll want to share your plans with those around you.

Keep those plans close to your chest like they are the passwords to your treasure.

A healthy way to think about it is to imagine that every part of your plan that leaks out reduces your chances of accomplishing those plans by 5%.

Every time you speak about your plans and show them openly to people, you are hurting yourself.

You are satisfying others and hurting yourself.

Stop being so careless and be surgically intentional.

If you need to get advice or benefit from someone's expertise to aid in your planning, then do so with precision and focused intent.

Find the exact right person, reveal only the bare minimum and obtain the knowledge you need and disappear again.

It may take some time, but it will arrive.

And you'll notice that progress is more easily had when you disappear.

Disappearing is only worth it if it gets you through the entire transformation.

Going back to your old ways mid-transformation will probably reverse all of the progress you've made and you'll be back at square one.

You will feel the natural urge to share about the changes you are seeing in your life.

You will have to flex your willpower and keep things boxed in.

Use that energy to pour more fuel into your efforts.

Recycling that energy can help get you to the next level in your journey.

And we are all about life level ups on this channel.

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Number five, hide your tears, blood, failures.

Going ghost mode or monk mode or whatever, basically crushing it in the shadows is going to be tough.

You're going to be physically hurt, be mentally fatigued and you may bleed or cry after facing filter after filter that stand between you and progress.

What would be your instinct at each wall?

Maybe go complain about it to a close friend or go receive some words of comfort from your family.

You'll need to shut the metaphorical pie hole and bleed, sweat and cry all by your lonesome.

Patch up your wounds with a first aid kit, but do it yourself.

Do it in the shadows and let it build your strength and character.

Let each moment of rock bottom be the moment of catapulting you to another level of performance.

It's those moments of pain that a new you emerges.

Embrace that pain and go as far as looking forward to it.

To become something through this process, you need to know what that something is.

Want to be absolutely jacked and unrecognizable?

Whatever it is, be very clear on what you want to accomplish.