Subtitles section Play video Print subtitles So, how do you guys know each other? Like do you mind sharing a bit like how your relationship started? So, basically I was walking down the street. And then most of the time lots of girls look at me. And then Georgia was one of the girls, I was like she looks quite nice. %#$%^# What's your version of it? My version of it which Torres always likes to blur the lines about what happened. But basically we were both university students, friends with lots of people. And then we were friends for like two years. Torres was secretly in love with me for two years. Two years. And then finally. Wow, that's long man. Yeah. I try my absolute best to make Georgia my girlfriend. But for the longest time, I got friend zone. Friend zone. Friend zone which is the saddest thing ever. We always had no, I didn't know, I didn't like him. We always had a flirty relationship, a little flirty banter. But he never did anything. He never like asked me out or tried to have a drink with me or anything. That's not really true. Because the first time I met you, I gave Georgia a call. And I was like, I have this special VIP ticket to see Batman, do you wanna come? And she replied, Maybe Not. You're trying to play hard to get? Rubbish, he asked me like 4 pm, if I wanted to watch a movie at 7 pm.? And I had schoolwork or something. It's like, oh no, I didn't realize it was a date. No, you should ask like do you like over the weekend or something? When do you free, let's catch up. Of course I would have said yes. Don't give someone three hours notice. Come on, that. Okay, my bad, sorry. Maybe that makes us two years Because I wasn't planning it properly. Two years is quite long. It's a very long time. Like for most people in Hong Kong, you know they're very impatient. Yeah. Like two months, they'll be like oh man I should move on. I mean he moved on. Don't worry. I moved on just to see how like average other girls I met, to finally realize how great you are. So, I move on for a very important purpose. Okay. No. This is very interesting. I'm sure the audience they want to hear more about this. Yeah, I mean both of us like dated other people in that timeline. And I think maybe that's also why we couldn't come together. Because it's always the wrong time. But there was always something, it's so weird. I kind of miss those memories like whenever we see each other, I always get like kind of nervous around you. And then I think I've always liked Georgia a little bit. I was trying to get Georgia out to come for a date. But then she rejected me obviously. So, I thought maybe she doesn't like me. Okay. Sometimes, it's now it's weird to think about it. I think I've seen your ex-boyfriends and you have seen my ex-girlfriends. And we'll come together in the same event. And now we think about it, it's actually quite bizarre. For me, it's like meaningless. Like I don't know if like for me, you are like now my person. Like everyone else in the past, it's like it's just irrelevant. Yeah. It's irrelevant to me as well. All irrelevant. Yeah. How do you get like together? How you officially like get you. Start. Yeah, how you officially start? I think people will probably want to know. So, which is really crazy. I will tell you three key words. Both single, boat party and alcohol. Okay. Yeah, one of them missing still won't happen this relationship. But I was we were. So, you were drinking, you guys Yeah, we were drinking maybe five drinks in. Five drinks in. Is that a lot for you? Quite tipsy and then we started to talk. Because actually in the past I was quite nervous to talk to Georgia. So when I'm. Alcohol makes people brave. Alcohol is a game changer. I don't drink. You don't drink? Not at all. Never? Like never pretty much. Wow oh my gosh, how did you get your wife then? I'll talk about that in another episode. Stay tuned. No, but I feel like either we were talking about law of attraction right? Yes. Sometimes, I feel like I have this. You know how when you program your brain to think differently or positive, sometimes alcohol I feel like it has this effect. It just why your brain differently, okay all of a sudden I'm such a brave guy. Yeah, yeah. And then you just walk up to Georgia. And be like, oh Georgia let's have a talk. So, you ever heard of a saying like your personality creates your personal reality. You ever heard of that? No. So, you know when you start sort of like change your own personality, you need to be more bold and brave. So, and then you just start to like talk to her right? Yeah. That changes everything. Yeah. So, most people you know when they drink alcohol, then they would say stuff they normally wouldn't. Yeah. But then it happened and then we were talking and then we're like ah. I don't know why we were actually attracted to me. Because I went to on exchange on island. And I got back and like she was like I can't even recognize your face. Like my neck was here. Because I was eating so badly for the longest time. I think I was at the worst shape possible. I was like. He was a lot chubby back then. Yeah. I think I was at my least confident, Really? point. You know when I looked at his videos, I thought he's like probably the same height as me. Yeah. I don't know why. But then like the first time I met him, he was so tall Yeah. He's like six feet or something. Speaking of law of attraction how much it was a little attraction. But it's like just to entertain some ideas because to be honest, when I first moved to mainland china I didn't date any Asian guys. Yeah. And then when I came back to Hong Kong. Actually when I go back to South Africa. I'm not sure if it's like controversial, maybe it's controversial. But I'd go back to South Africa and people would say to me. Oh, are you dating Chinese guys? As if it was like something like so scandalous. And I'm like, no I don't date Chinese guys. Because I just didn't even, it was just like didn't even entertain that idea. Yeah. And then when I came to Hong Kong I would like I dated like 1 or 2 mix guys. Mix guy. And then finally, Torres was my full Chinese boy that I dated. And like now, I honestly I find Asian people so good looking, so attractive. Yes. But it's like before that I don't know why. It's like my brain was just not open in that way. Is that because you want your brain to think, like I really want to date an Asian guy. Asian guys are really attractive which is very true. And then. it's all about perspective, yes. Right? Yeah. it's so good. Yeah, just like allowing yourself to entertain that. I think also what you see in the media. You always see like if anything you see an Asian girl with a white guy. But even now if I see a white girl and an Asian guy walking on the street, I'm like wow that's so weird, why are they doing that?