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  • So, how do you guys know each other?

  • Like do you mind sharing a bit like how your relationship started?

  • So, basically I was walking down the street.

  • And then most of the time lots of girls look at me.

  • And then Georgia was one of the girls, I was like she looks quite nice.

  • %#$%^#

  • What's your version of it?

  • My version of it which Torres always likes to blur the lines about what happened.

  • But basically we were both university students, friends with lots of people.

  • And then we were friends for like two years.

  • Torres was secretly in love with me for two years.

  • Two years.

  • And then finally.

  • Wow, that's long man.

  • Yeah.

  • I try my absolute best to make Georgia my girlfriend.

  • But for the longest time, I got friend zone.

  • Friend zone.

  • Friend zone which is the saddest thing ever.

  • We always had no, I didn't know, I didn't like him.

  • We always had a flirty relationship, a little flirty banter.

  • But he never did anything.

  • He never like asked me out or tried to have a drink with me or anything.

  • That's not really true.

  • Because the first time I met you, I gave Georgia a call.

  • And I was like, I have this special VIP ticket to see Batman, do you wanna come?

  • And she replied, Maybe Not.

  • You're trying to play hard to get?

  • Rubbish, he asked me like 4 pm, if I wanted to watch a movie at 7 pm.?

  • And I had schoolwork or something.

  • It's like, oh no, I didn't realize it was a date.

  • No, you should ask like do you like over the weekend or something?

  • When do you free, let's catch up.

  • Of course I would have said yes.

  • Don't give someone three hours notice.

  • Come on, that.

  • Okay, my bad, sorry.

  • Maybe that makes us two years

  • Because I wasn't planning it properly.

  • Two years is quite long.

  • It's a very long time.

  • Like for most people in Hong Kong, you know they're very impatient.

  • Yeah.

  • Like two months, they'll be like oh man I should move on.

  • I mean he moved on.

  • Don't worry.

  • I moved on just to see how like average other girls I met,

  • to finally realize how great you are.

  • So, I move on for a very important purpose.

  • Okay.

  • No.

  • This is very interesting.

  • I'm sure the audience they want to hear more about this.

  • Yeah, I mean both of us like dated other people in that timeline.

  • And I think maybe that's also why we couldn't come together.

  • Because it's always the wrong time.

  • But there was always something, it's so weird.

  • I kind of miss those memories like whenever we see each other,

  • I always get like kind of nervous around you.

  • And then I think I've always liked Georgia a little bit.

  • I was trying to get Georgia out to come for a date.

  • But then she rejected me obviously.

  • So, I thought maybe she doesn't like me.

  • Okay.

  • Sometimes, it's now it's weird to think about it.

  • I think I've seen your ex-boyfriends and you have seen my ex-girlfriends.

  • And we'll come together in the same event.

  • And now we think about it, it's actually quite bizarre.

  • For me, it's like meaningless.

  • Like I don't know if like for me, you are like now my person.

  • Like everyone else in the past, it's like it's just irrelevant.

  • Yeah.

  • It's irrelevant to me as well.

  • All irrelevant.

  • Yeah.

  • How do you get like together?

  • How you officially like get you.

  • Start.

  • Yeah, how you officially start?

  • I think people will probably want to know.

  • So, which is really crazy.

  • I will tell you three key words.

  • Both single, boat party and alcohol.

  • Okay.

  • Yeah, one of them missing still won't happen this relationship.

  • But I was we were.

  • So, you were drinking, you guys

  • Yeah, we were drinking maybe five drinks in.

  • Five drinks in.

  • Is that a lot for you?

  • Quite tipsy and then we started to talk.

  • Because actually in the past I was quite nervous to talk to Georgia.

  • So when I'm.

  • Alcohol makes people brave.

  • Alcohol is a game changer.

  • I don't drink.

  • You don't drink?

  • Not at all.

  • Never?

  • Like never pretty much.

  • Wow oh my gosh, how did you get your wife then?

  • I'll talk about that in another episode.

  • Stay tuned.

  • No, but I feel like either we were talking about law of attraction right?

  • Yes.

  • Sometimes, I feel like I have this.

  • You know how when you program your brain to think differently or positive,

  • sometimes alcohol I feel like it has this effect.

  • It just why your brain differently, okay all of a sudden I'm such a brave guy.

  • Yeah, yeah.

  • And then you just walk up to Georgia.

  • And be like, oh Georgia let's have a talk.

  • So, you ever heard of a saying like your personality creates your personal reality.

  • You ever heard of that?

  • No.

  • So, you know when you start sort of like change your own personality,

  • you need to be more bold and brave.

  • So, and then you just start to like talk to her right?

  • Yeah.

  • That changes everything.

  • Yeah.

  • So, most people you know when they drink alcohol,

  • then they would say stuff they normally wouldn't.

  • Yeah.

  • But then it happened and then we were talking and then we're like ah.

  • I don't know why we were actually attracted to me.

  • Because I went to on exchange on island.

  • And I got back and like she was like I can't even recognize your face.

  • Like my neck was here.

  • Because I was eating so badly for the longest time.

  • I think I was at the worst shape possible.

  • I was like.

  • He was a lot chubby back then.

  • Yeah.

  • I think I was at my least confident,

  • Really?

  • point.

  • You know when I looked at his videos,

  • I thought he's like probably the same height as me.

  • Yeah.

  • I don't know why.

  • But then like the first time I met him, he was so tall

  • Yeah.

  • He's like six feet or something.

  • Speaking of law of attraction how much it was a little attraction.

  • But it's like just to entertain some ideas because to be honest,

  • when I first moved to mainland china I didn't date any Asian guys.

  • Yeah.

  • And then when I came back to Hong Kong.

  • Actually when I go back to South Africa.

  • I'm not sure if it's like controversial, maybe it's controversial.

  • But I'd go back to South Africa and people would say to me.

  • Oh, are you dating Chinese guys?

  • As if it was like something like so scandalous.

  • And I'm like, no I don't date Chinese guys.

  • Because I just didn't even, it was just like didn't even entertain that idea.

  • Yeah.

  • And then when I came to Hong Kong I would like I dated like 1 or 2 mix guys.

  • Mix guy.

  • And then finally, Torres was my full Chinese boy that I dated.

  • And like now, I honestly I find Asian people so good looking, so attractive.

  • Yes.

  • But it's like before that I don't know why.

  • It's like my brain was just not open in that way.

  • Is that because you want your brain to think,

  • like I really want to date an Asian guy.

  • Asian guys are really attractive which is very true.

  • And then.

  • it's all about perspective, yes.

  • Right?

  • Yeah.

  • it's so good.

  • Yeah, just like allowing yourself to entertain that.

  • I think also what you see in the media.

  • You always see like if anything you see an Asian girl with a white guy.

  • But even now if I see a white girl and an Asian guy walking on the street,

  • I'm like wow that's so weird, why are they doing that?