Name: How to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back (Make Him Beg to Be With You?)
Uploaded: 2022-02-07T03:09:21.000Z
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Most times, breakups happen for a reason… but not always for a good reason.

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And despite what people will tell you, there's no shame in getting back together with an

In fact, that's exactly what I'm going to teach you in this video…

My name is Amy North, I'm a relationship coach from Vancouver, BC…

I help women like you from around the world achieve their relationship goals.

In this case, the goal is to get your ex back.

Now, the key is to getting your ex back is making him want you.

This means that despite how much you may be tempted to beg or plead for another chance,

you should never do this -- it'll make you look weak, desperate and even pathetic….

that's not the image you want to give yourself if you're trying to win him over again.

Well, now that that's out the way, let's talk about how you can get your ex back.

This is a clever tactic that you may have heard of before, and how it works is pretty

You simply cut off all communication with your ex for about 30 days.

Now you may be thinking, “But what if he forgets about me?”

or “There's no way disappearing is going to help me get him back,” but the truth

is, removing yourself from the picture will make your ex miss you.

Your ex expects you to go running back to him, so doing the opposite will confuse him

Since you're not begging for a second chance, the message you are sending your ex is loud

and clear: You don't need him, you're strong, and you're perfectly fine with the

Don't worry, this doesn't have to how you actually feel, it's just important your

As time passes and you're still not contacting him, he's going to have a hard time resisting

This means you not only have him thinking about you, but the icing on the cake is that

since you haven't been chasing him or emotionally acting out, the negative memories your ex

had of you and the relationship will be replaced with pleasant ones, which may even cause him

Depending on how things ended between you and your ex, he may have said he wanted to

Under no circumstances should you agree to this.

Instead, tell your ex that he has to choose between being in a romantic relationship with

you, or not having you in his life at all.

Agreeing to “be friends” sounds nice, but all you'd be doing is agreeing to stick

around while he adjusts to life without you.

This is not a situation you want to be in if you plan on winning him back.

Lastly, if your ex contacts you, and he probably will at some point during the No Contact phase,

Keep the conversation short, and be the one to end the call -- it'll show him that unless

he wakes up and decides to take you back, you're moving on.

It's true that absence can make the heart grow fonder, so once you've completed the

No Contact period, consider sending your ex a text - at this point he may be thrilled

Now, before you go shooting off a short “hey” or “what's up,” it's important to

put some thought into what you're going to send him.

Short pointless texts won't stir up emotion or give your ex a reason to respond.

Worse than that, you'll seem boring and desperate - why would he want to reconnect

Instead, there are a few types of text messages you should send.

First off is what breakup expert Brad Browning calls the “Good Reminder” text...

In this text you're giving your ex the impression that you're totally over him, but still

It's designed to make you look thoughtful, happy, and as though there is a meaningful

reason for messaging him - remember, having a reason is key here.

An example of this text would be something like, “The Harlem Globetrotters are coming

Thought you'd like to know because I remember how much you love them!”

The nice thing about this is there's no pressure for him to respond.

You're just letting your ex know that you're thinking of him without seeming needy.

In fact, he should be happy to hear from you because you're doing him a favour of telling

him about something he might be interested in.

The next type of text you may consider sending them is the “Smile Text.”

Now, this text message should only be used if you handled the breakup properly – as

in, you didn't beg or plead, and you didn't get angry.

An example of a smile text would be something along the lines of “I just stumbled upon

my old copy of E.T. and it made me smile and think about you!”...

Okay, maybe this isn't the best example because he may think you're calling him

a weird little alien, but you get the jist of it... basically bring up something that

This type of text works on reeling your ex in emotionally by talking about something

Those are two great text messages to send your ex… and I have to give credit where

it's due here, because both of these texts are included in Brad Browning's “Ex Factor”

There's more more great sample messages and further tips and tricks from Brad Browning

in his latest free video, which you can watch at BreakupAmy.com … that's www.BreakupAmy.com.

Check that out for more texts and additional help winning back your ex.

Step 3 - Call Them Once you've texted your ex, you can now

consider calling him - this doesn't mean you should hit “send” on the text then

go straight to speed dial him, I'd say wait at least a week after texting before you call.

A sneaky tip that I like to share is that when you do call your ex for the first time,

do it at a time when you know they won't be able to answer so that you can leave a

This gives you the chance to show initiative by calling, but leaves the ball in his court

Before you pick up the phone, know what you're going to say in your message, and make sure

If after the beep you mumble a bunch of crap about calling to say hi or that you just wanted

to check in, he's not going to be interested in calling you back.

Instead say something that will remind him of a great time you spent together.

For example, you could say something like “Hey, Thought I'd give you a quick call