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  • Vanessa: Hi, I'm Vanessa from SpeakEnglishWithVanessa.com.  

  • Hmm, do you know these tricky words? Can you use  them correctly in English? Let's talk about it

  • Have you ever experienced this beforeYou're having an English conversation  

  • and then all of a sudden bleh, bleh, bleh, you  don't have the word that you're searching for.  

  • It's somewhere in there, but it's covered with  dust and you just can't search for it and reach  

  • for it at the right time. Well, never feartoday, in this lesson, I'm going to help you  

  • master some tricky words in English and  hopefully make them easier for you to understand

  • To help you with this process, I have createdfree PDF worksheet that you can download with the  

  • link in the description. In this PDF worksheetyou can find all of the sample sentences, all  

  • of the meanings, some little tips and tricks for  how to use these words, and at the end of the PDF,  

  • you can answer Vanessa's Challenge Question so  that you can use and remember what you've learned.  

  • For all of these tricky words, I'm going to be  quizzing you. I'll give you a sentence and you  

  • need to choose which of the two words fits best  in that sentence and, of course, as your teacher,  

  • I will be giving you some explanations to help  you so that you can feel empowered to use them  

  • yourself. But be careful, one of these questions  is a trick question. Are you ready? Let's start

  • I can't believe how ... your son is now. Last  time I saw him, he was only four years old.  

  • I can't believe how high your son is.  I can't believe how tall your son is.  

  • Which one of these simple words, but it's  a little bit tricky which one is correct,  

  • which one of these words is right? And only one  of them is correct. I'll give you three seconds to  

  • think. 3, 2, 1. I can't believe how tall your son  is now. Hmm, if we said, "I can't believe how high  

  • your son is now," do you know what that means? It  means that he is taking drugs. If someone is high,  

  • that means they're taking drugs. But if  someone is tall, that means that they are,  

  • well, tall. Taller than someone who is short. So here's a little tip and trick for how to  

  • use high versus tall. Usually we use high for  something that's not touching the ground. So  

  • you could say the airplane is high. Or, sometimes  we say the airplane is high up. It's not touching  

  • the ground. But you can say the building is tall  because the building is touching the ground.  

  • Your son is tall because his feet are touching  the ground. So we have this difference between  

  • high and tall, two seemingly simple words that  can be tricky if you use them in the wrong way

  • All right, are you ready for the second  one? Let's do it. Boy, have I had a ... day!  

  • Boy, have I had a mad day! Boy, have I had a crazy  day! Hmm, which one of these words is best to use?  

  • 2, 1. Boy, have I had a crazy day! Oh, when  something is crazy, it feels out of control,  

  • so many things are happening. When something  is mad, well, we usually use this for people.  

  • I'm mad. I'm angry. But the thing that's  tricky here, and a little tip for you,  

  • is that in Old English, the word mad was often  substituted for the word crazy. So take a look  

  • at this movie poster. This is a famous movie  and it's called It's A Mad, Mad, Mad, Mad World.  

  • They're not talking about being angry; they're  talking about being crazy. This world is crazy.  

  • But nowadays we never use the word mad in this  type of situation. We only use the word crazy.  

  • So if you're talking about something that's hectic  and chaotic and it's out of control, it is crazy.  

  • It's not mad. You are mad, you're angry. But  when something is out of control, it's crazy

  • Tricky word pair number three: His essay  about courage was only one sentence,  

  • "This is courage," and the  rest of the paper was ...  

  • Hmm, the rest of the paper was blankThe rest of the paper was empty. Hmm,  

  • which one of these two words is best to use. I'll  give you three seconds to think about it. Hmm,  

  • the rest of the paper was blank. Usuallysomething that's flat is blank, so a piece  

  • of paper with nothing on it is blank. What  about empty? Well, you can't really pour water  

  • into a piece of paper, we need a containerWell, if there is nothing in a container,  

  • it's empty. This is the idea here: something  that's flat is blank and something that can be ...  

  • have something go inside of it, can be filled  with something else, a container, is empty

  • There is one phrase that I'd like to share with  you that kind of breaks this rule or we should say  

  • bends this rule a little bit, and that  is when we say my mind is blank. Well,  

  • your brain is not really flat, but it's  not really a typical container that can  

  • just have something poured into it, but  we use this phrase, "My mind is blank,"  

  • to mean I can't think of the answer. I don't  know what you're talking about. I have nothing  

  • going on here. My mind is blank. Sorry, I  can't remember what to say. My mind is blank

  • Wonderful. All right, let's go to the next  pair. I'm so excited about my ... car.  

  • I'm so excited about my young car. I'm so excited  about my new car. Which one of these is best?  

  • I'm so excited about my new car. Well, usually we  use new for things and young for people. The child  

  • is young. The car is new. But a little  tip, there is an exception to this,  

  • something that can use both new and youngand that is a country. So we might say,  

  • "Well, relative to other countries, the United  States is a young country," or "The United  

  • States is a new country. It wasn't United under  one leader until the last couple hundred years,  

  • but a lot of countries have been around forlong time." So we might say the United States  

  • is a new country or the United States is  a relatively young country. For a country,  

  • we can use either of these words. My cat learned a new trick. He's so ... Hmm,  

  • he's so smart; he's so wise. Which  one of these is the best for my cat?  

  • 3, 2, 1. My cat learned a new trick. He's  so smart. The cat is smart, but the old man  

  • is wise. Usually, we use smart for some kind of  innate knowledge, something that's inside of you,  

  • but it can also be learned knowledge. So what's  the difference between smart and wise? Well, wise  

  • usually has to do with making good decisions. It's  not about knowing the correct answer. It's about a  

  • deeper type of knowledge about the world  and that comes from a lot of experience.  

  • You're not born being wise. Only people who have  a lot of life experience can be wise. So in this  

  • situation, my cat learned a new trick. He's pretty  smart, but he doesn't have life experience that he  

  • can share with other cats. He's not very wise, but  you know what, sometimes he can be pretty smart

  • The movie star drove a ... carThe movie star drove a rich car  

  • or the movie star drove an expensive car. Which  one of these two words about money is correct?  

  • I'll give you three seconds. 3, 2, 1.  The movie star drove an expensive car.  

  • Rich is for people. The movie star is richbut expensive is for things. The car is  

  • expensive. This is an excellent distinctionPeople are rich; things are expensive

  • The thief broke into the safe and stole  something ... And stole something valuable?  

  • And stole something invaluable? Which one of these  is correct? 3, 2, 1. The thief broke into the safe  

  • and stole something valuable. Or, the thief broke  into the safe and stole something invaluable.  

  • Sorry, this was the trick question. Both  of these words, valuable and invaluable,  

  • have a similar meaning. Now, the thing that's  weird about this is that usually in-, the prefix  

  • in-, makes it a negative word. But what about  this valuable, invaluable? They have very  

  • similar meanings and let me tell you about it. The Royal jewels are valuable. This means that  

  • they're expensive. They have a big cost. They have  a lot of value. The Royal jewels are valuable. But  

  • if we said the Royal jewels are invaluablethis implies that, yes, they're expensive,  

  • but they also have another layer of value. Maybe  it's some kind of personal value. It's some kind  

  • of value that we can't even imagine. It's so  important that we can't even put a number on it.  

  • We can't say that is $1,000 because there's a kind  of deeper value. So if there is something that is  

  • passed down in your family, maybe it's something  that's invaluable. Your great grandmother made  

  • a quilt and it's been passed down in your  family. Well, that quilt is invaluable. No  

  • amount of money can put a price on how  important that is to you. It's invaluable

  • So some things are both valuable and  invaluable, like the Royal jewels,  

  • but maybe your great-grandmother's quilt  isn't worth a lot of money, maybe it's not  

  • valuable, but it is invaluable to you. It  is more than important to you. What about  

  • learning English? Learning English is a valuable  skill. Great, it's something that's important.  

  • But you can also say learning English is an  invaluable skill. You cannot place a dollar  

  • value on learning English because the ways that  English can change your life is without a price.  

  • There's so many wonderful things that can happen  when you can speak confidently, understand other  

  • people, travel easily, have great work relationsThis is invaluable. It's not just a dollar number,  

  • it's something in your heart as well. Great. Do you ... the teacher's name? Do you remind  

  • the teacher's name? Do you remember the  teacher's name? Hmm, remind, remember,  

  • I'll give you three seconds. 3, 2, 1.  Do you remember the teacher's name?  

  • This is a common mistake I often hear English  learners make. They say, "Can you remember me  

  • about the test tomorrow?" The biggest difference  between remind and remember is who is doing it.  

  • Who is the subject? So let's take a look  at these two sentences. You will remember  

  • the teacher's name. Who is remembering? It's  you. You will remember the teacher's name

  • But take a look at this one: "I will  remind you of the teacher's name."  

  • I'm the one who's speaking. I will remind you of  the teacher's name. So it depends on who is the  

  • subject. Usually, students need to remember about  a test, but if a student forgets about a test,  

  • the teacher will remind the students about a testSo make sure as an English learner that you do  

  • not say, "Can you remember me about the event?"  No. If someone else is helping you, you can say,  

  • "Can you remind me about the event?" "Hey, would  you mind sending me a text? Can you remind me  

  • about the event? That would be really helpful  because I often forget about these types of  

  • things. It's difficult for me to remember, so can  you remind me about the event, please? Excellent." 

  • My ... sister loves to ride horses. My little  sister loves to ride horses or my small sister  

  • loves to ride horses. Which one of these is bestAnd there's only one answer here. 3, 2, 1. My  

  • little sister loves to ride horses. Maybe you  learned a long time ago in elementary school,  

  • I have a younger sister. I have an older  sister and, yes, in daily conversation  

  • we use young and old, but we also use little and  big as well. So you might say I have a big sister.  

  • I have a little sister. I have a big brother. I  have a little brother. We also use little and big  

  • for people when they're related to us, especially  for a sibling, a brother or a sister. For small,  

  • usually this is for an item. My sister's clothes  are small. The shoes are too small. For the word  

  • small, when we're talking about an item, well, we  often use both of these words. If I said that the  

  • butterfly is very small. The butterfly is very  little. Look at the little butterfly. Look at this  

  • small butterfly. Both of these are fine. They're  for non-human things. The shirt is too small. The  

  • shirt is too little. I can't wear it anymoreIt's too little. It's too small for items,  

  • but for people, when we're talking about your  relations, your brother or sister, we can use  

  • my little sister or my big sister. Excellent. My computer is from 2005. It's so ...  

  • It's so antique or it's so old, which one of  these words is the best in this sentence? Three,  

  • two, what? My computer is from 2005. It's so oldFor an electronic, this is pretty old. Usually,  

  • we don't have electronics for 16 years. It's a  little bit unusual so we could say it's so old.  

  • Now, technically, I think the real definition of  the word antique is something that's 100 years old  

  • or older. But in colloquial daily conversationsometimes we use this in a more flexible way. So  

  • you might say, "The record player is an antiqueor "It's antique," and maybe it's from the 1940s.  

  • That's not technically 100 years, but it's  something that's old. It's really old. At least,  

  • it seems really old and that's what we're talking  about here is relatively, does it seem old?  

  • It doesn't have to be exactly 100 years oldbut we could say that record player is an  

  • antique. It's been passed down from my  grandparents and it's really cool. It still works.  

  • That is an antique, using it as a nounor it's antique, using it as an adjective

  • I do want to let you know, as a little bonus  tip, that sometimes we use the word antique as  

  • an exaggeration. So back to the original example  of my computer from 2005, this is really old  

  • for a computer, right? I imagine most of you  don't still have the same computer from 2005.  

  • So you could say, "Yeah, I still have my computer  from 2005. It's practically an antique." So we  

  • can add that word practically, "It's pretty  much an antique. I can't believe I still have  

  • it." So we're kind of softening the languagelittle bit because antique is really something  

  • pretty old, but for an electronic, 2005 is  relatively old so we could say, "My computer is  

  • practically an antique. I can't believe it's  still working. It's practically an antique." 

  • You're already finished eating? Did you even ...  the salmon? What can we say here? Did you even  

  • taste the salmon? Did you even eat the salmonWhich one of these words is the best here?  

  • 3, 2, 1. You're already finished  eating? Did you even taste the salmon?  

  • Now, both of these words have to do with your  tongue and food, but the difference here is that  

  • taste is for a small bite. "Did you even taste  the salmon?" compared to "I ate the salmon."  

  • That means you pretty much finished the salmonWe often use this for children and say, "Just  

  • taste the food and give it a try." This means  just a small bite and you can judge if it's  

  • something that you would like more of or you  don't want any more of it. Just give it a taste.  

  • Just have a little taste and  see what you think about it

  • Your new haircut ... like it's  comfortable for the hot summer weather.  

  • Your new haircut looks like it's comfortableYour new haircut appears like it's comfortable.  

  • Which one of these is the best here. As you  can tell, a lot of these words seem to have  

  • a similar meaning, but their nuances are important  to know so that you use them correctly. I'll give  

  • you three seconds. 3, 2, 1. Your new haircut looks  like it's comfortable for the hot summer weather.  

  • If you have a short haircut especiallythis can be very comfortable for hot  

  • summer weather. Unlike my hair, my hair is always  very hot so I almost always wear it up because  

  • it's not comfortable in the hot summer weather. So what's the difference between look and appear?  

  • Let me take a look at these sentences with  you. Your haircut looks like it's comfortable.  

  • Your haircut appears to be comfortable. Whensay your haircut looks like it's comfortable,  

  • okay, that's just a statement. When I see your  haircut, it looks comfortable. But when I say  

  • your haircut appears to be comfortablewe have an underlying nuance here.  

  • That means it appears, on the surface, it  appears to be comfortable, but really it's not

  • Let me give you a common situation where we  use a appear. Everyone on Instagram appears  

  • to be having a great life. If you've ever  looked at Instagram, you know that that's  

  • the way it seems. People choose the best pictureshappiest family, wonderful vacations, great food,  

  • but life isn't always like that. Life  is real and not always perfect. That's  

  • not possible. So we can use this word, appearto show the difference between the appearance  

  • and reality. Everyone on Instagram appears to be  having a nice life. But I know that in reality,  

  • that's not the case. So if you ever followcertain people on social media and it seems  

  • like their life is great and then all of a suddenthey say, "Actually we're getting a divorce," oh,  

  • it might be really shocking to you because they  seem to be having a great life, they're appearing  

  • to have a great life, and then in reality, that's  not the case. So we often use the word appear to  

  • show this difference between what something  seems like or looks like and the reality

  • Great, all right, let's go to our next pair of  tricky words. I try to ... my house at the end  

  • of the day. I try to clean my house or I try to  wash my house. 3, 2, 1. I try to clean my house  

  • at the end of the day. The biggest difference  between these two words is that clean is general  

  • and wash always involves water. So we could  use both of these words to talk about a carpet.  

  • I tried to clean the carpet. Okay, maybe there's  a spot and you're trying to get the spot out.  

  • Or, maybe you're taking some toys off of the  carpet or you're trying to get a couple things  

  • off of the carpet. But if we say I'm trying to  wash the carpet, that means you are soaking it  

  • in water. Maybe you're using a washing machineMaybe you're using some kind of a carpet  

  • cleaner device, but it always includes water. I have a weird ... about this. I have a weird  

  • emotion about this or I have a weird feeling about  this. Which one of these two words is best? 3, 2,  

  • 1. I have a weird feeling about this. Do you ever  say anything in your native language and you don't  

  • know exactly why you say that, but you know it's  right? This is how I feel about these two words,  

  • emotion and feeling. Now, psychologists generally  break these two words into saying that emotions  

  • are physical and feelings are mental, but it waslittle bit confusing to me to try to read articles  

  • and break it down and explain it to you. Soinstead, we're going to take a look at some fixed  

  • phrases that use emotion or feel and feeling  so that you can use them correctly yourself

  • I felt a lack of emotion when I was fired from my  job. I just didn't care. I felt a lack of emotion.  

  • So here, emotion might be sadness, angerThese are emotions. I felt a lack of emotion  

  • when I was fired from my job, I just didn't  care. Why did he feel a lack of emotion?  

  • It seems like something you should feel emotional  about. Take a look at this sentence: But later I  

  • had some strong feelings about being fired. So  maybe in the moment you had a lack of emotion,  

  • but later you had some strong feelings  about it. It's something that you can't  

  • really stop. It just comes from inside of  you. So at our original sentence when I said  

  • I have a weird feeling about this, there's  something inside of me. It wasn't conscious;  

  • it's just a weird feeling. As I walked down that  dark street, I had a weird feeling about this,  

  • kind of my intuition. Or, in our second examplewe'd say, I had some strong feelings about being  

  • fired later on. So something that came  from within me, some strong feelings

  • I'd like to give you a phrase that you can use  either emotions or feelings with. You could say,  

  • "I have mixed emotions about moving to a new  city" or "I have mixed feelings about moving  

  • to a new city." In this phrase, to have  mixed feelings or to have mixed emotions,  

  • you can use either of these words. This means  sometimes I feel really excited about it, but  

  • I'm going to miss my family and, oh, I can't wait  for new adventures, but, oh, I'm not sure if I'll  

  • succeed. You have mixed emotions or mixed feelings  about moving to a new city. So as you can see,  

  • there are some exceptions to this as well. So how did you do? Some of these words appear  

  • to be easy, but, remember, the more you practicethe better it will be. So don't forget to download  

  • the free PDF worksheet for all of these tricky  pairs of words that appear to be simple, but are  

  • actually a little bit tricky. When you download  the PDF worksheet, you can review everything  

  • that you learned in this lesson and you can also  answer Vanessa's Challenge Question at the end of  

  • the worksheet so that you'll never forget what  you've learned. And now, I have a question for  

  • you. Let me know, do you have a little sister or  a little brother? Let me know in the comments.  

  • I can't wait to learn more about you and about  your family, and I'll see you again next Friday  

  • for a new lesson here on my YouTube channel. Bye. The next step is to download the free PDF  

  • worksheet for this lesson. With this  free PDF, you will master today's lesson  

  • and never forget what you have learned. You  can be a confident English speaker. Don't  

  • forget to subscribe to my YouTube channel  for a free English lesson every Friday. Bye.

Vanessa: Hi, I'm Vanessa from SpeakEnglishWithVanessa.com.  

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