I wastryingtofind a balancebetweenthesetwothingsfor a verylongtime.
I startedchangingthingsaboutsixmonthsagowhen I uninstalledmytwitterand I deletedallofmytweets.
So I wasn't boundtoitbyanything.
I didthatbecause I feltlike I wascarryingwaytoomuchaboutfollowersandlikesthere, which I acknowledgedthatitwasn't thehealthiestbehavior.
Sothen I deletedotherappslikeTikTokRedditfacebook, which I usedtousequite a lotwithmyfriends.
I wasn't abletodeleteeverysinglesocialmediabecausethat's kindofmyjobanditwasn't myplanormyintentiontodothatfromthebeginningbecause I don't thinkthatsocialmediaisharmfulonitsownifyouknowhowtoapproachitandhowtouseitproperly.
Sotheonesocialmediathat I keptoutsideoftwitchandYoutube, whichismysourceofincomewasinstagramwhere I literallyjustwentwhen I wantedtopostmyownstoriesand I didn't evencheckotherpeople's stories.
Mostofthetime, I didn't evenlikescrollthefeetoranything.
I justpostedmystoryandgotoutoftheapp.
Mymindsethasdefinitelychangedoverthepasthalfyear.
I definitelystumpedcaringaboutnumbersoverallwhetherthatbe, youknow, likesorevenviewsonmyownYoutubevideos.
I kindofdon't letnumberstobe a sourceofmotivationformeanymore, whichthenresultsinnotbeingeven a d motivation.
I stoppedcomparingmyselftootherpeople.
Like I consciouslynoticethechangewhere I'm currentlyatthepointthat I couldn't carelessofwhatotherpeoplethinkaboutme, whetherthatbeonsocialmediaorinreallifeas a stupidexample.
I lovetheseheadphones, youknow, it's, it's like a biggamingheadset, it's verycomfyforyourears.
Buteverytime I wentoutside I switchedtothesewhicharenotthatcomfy, buttheyare, youknow, morediscreet, moreof a normalcolour.
I alwaysthoughtthatif I, youknow, if I, ifpeopleseemewalkingdownthestreetwiththesehugeheadphonesthatthey'regonnathinklike, oh, thatpersonisweird, bro, I don't careanymore.
I wearwhatever I want, I expressmyselfverballyandaestheticallyhowever I want.
and I feellikemypartialabsenceonsocialmediahasdefinitelyincreasedmyselfconfidence.
Mypersonalfreedomofexpressionisalsothereasonwhy I getdemonetizedonYoutube, likealmostallthetime.
Butyeah, I'm alsodefinitely a lotmoremindfulthat I was a yearagoorevensixmonthsagowhensomethingmakesmeangryorupset, I canletgoofitprettyquicklybecauseit's thatpointofrealizationwhenyourealizethatwhenyou'realoneinyourroomangryatsomethingorsomeone, you'renotmakinganybodyelse's dayworse, butyours, you'rejustruiningyourownmood, wastingyourtimebybeingangry.
Yeah, yeah, I'vealsodiscoveredreading, I, I actuallythinkbooksareprettydope, youknow, which I knowis a clichebecause I'm gen Z andgen z peopledon't readbooks.
Right?
Wellthisonejuststarted, okay, thisonejustfuckingstartedbro, someofthebooks I reallyliked, wheretheAlchemistbyPauloCoelhoorveronicadecidedtodiealsobyhim, TheWomanintheDunes, TheDiaryof a Madoldman, metamorphosisbyKafkaormetamorphosisbyshindo.
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Readingsomeofthesebookswas a veryinsightfulexperienceasinsomeofthem, likereallyinspiredme, likeartisticallyorevensomeofthemchangedmyperceptionoflife, whichissuch a powerfulthingthat I didn't evenknow a bookwasabletodo.
It's like a greatfeelingtolikefinish a bookandthenstillbethinkingaboutitlikeweeksormonthslater, it's likesuch a differentmediumfromlikewatchingstufforlisteningtostuff, I knowthat I'm describingsomethingsuperbasic, everybodyknowswhatbooksare, but I feellikenotmanypeopleknowor a lot a lotofpeopleinmyagedon't knowwhatitreallymeanstolikegetimmersedinto a book.
I thinkthebiggestdifferencebetweenusingsocialmediaactivelyeverydayandusingitpassively, like I'vebeendoingitandas I intendtokeepdoingitisthatwhenyoudistanceyourselffromalloftheseappsfromallofthesefeedsandposts, youkindofgetlikespace, likeas a mentalspacetoactuallythinktoyourselfaboutyourselfandaboutyourlife.
Wellthisisyouknow, we'regettingintosomephilosophicalterritoryherebecause I reckon a lotofpeoplearelikesocaughtupwithsocialmediaandtheirmindsaresobusyandtheyconstantlygetdistracted.
I, forexample, foundoutwhat I wanttodowithmychannelMovingForward, whichisalsosomethingthat I havebeenheavilystrugglingfor a longtime.
I'vebeenstrugglingwiththischannelevenisisthis a channeljustforbelongsoryouknow, should I postothercontentheretoo?
Well, thischannelformeislike a timecapsule, right?
Itservesmethepurposeofcapturingmemorieswhen I postmyvlogshereorlike a compilationoffunnystreammoments.
I wantthosevideostobehere.
Sothenwhen I lookatthemlikethreeyearslater, I'm goingtobeabletoseewhatkindofperson I wasandhowmuch I'vechanged.
I thinkit's likeoneofthecoolestthingsever, becauseyouknowit's liketimetraveling, right?
Youlookatyourpastselffromalmost a thirdperson's perspectivebecausein 35 yearsyou're a completelydifferentperson.
Itwasquite a journeyfindingthebalancewhenitcomestosocialmediabecauseononehandyouwanttohaveit, youwanttouseitbecauseallofyourfriendsarethereandyoudon't wanttodetachyourselffromsocietycompletely.
Itwasjustfuntotweetsome, somethings I mightstopusingitin a coupleofdaysorweeksorwhoknows?
But I justdidn't wanttohavethatlikementalblocktolike, ohyoucanneverthinkabouttwitteragain.
I'm notgonnafollowanybody.
I'm probablyjustgonnashootposethere.
Andsincethisvideoiskindofalready a lifeupdatefrommyside, thebiggestnewsthisweek I launched a Patreonwhichyouknow, isforpeoplewhowouldliketosupportmebecauseas I alreadytoldyouguys, mostofmyvideosgetdemonetizedorrestricted.
So I basicallydon't makealmostanymoneyoffyoutubewhen I accidentallypostedthepictureuncensored.
Um a lotofpeopleareaskingmewhymyvideosgetdemonetized.
It's becauseas I saidbefore, I don't censormyself.
Okay.
I don't believeincensorshipofmyowncontent.
If I wanttosaysomething a certainway, I'm gonnadoitbecauseyouknow, I wantmyvlogstobeauthentictowho I actuallyam, whichisalsowhy I usecopyrightedmusicbecauseifthere's a songthatisinmyheadattachedto a specificmemory, I'm sureashellgonnausethatsonginmyvlogtocapturethatmemoryas a whole.
I think I'm overalluhthepointinmylifewhere I'm startingtobesatisfiedwithwho I amas a person, which I thinkissuchanimportantthingthateverybodyshouldgothrough.
Umtryingtojustlikekindofgowiththeflow, whichalsodoesn't mean I don't believethatgoingwiththeflowmeansthatyoushouldn't haveanythingplanned.