- what?

- Diana just slid into my Twitter DMS

and asked if I wanted to like, hang.

- Oh my God,

- I know.

- What are you gonna say?

- She's super rad.

And so obviously I wanna like meet her and stuff.

But is this a friend date or is it like a date date?

and I don't even know if she's queer.

- Let me search.

(buttons clicking)

Okay. Her sexuality is not confirmed anywhere in a context

but Reddit seems to think she's a lesbian

based on some circumstantial evidence.

- Okay.

- Okay.

- Okay.

- Okay.

- I think the plan is,

I'm gonna go as though it's a friend hang

but if we vibe,

- I think that's a great plan.

- Oh my God.

What am I supposed to wear?

Because if it's a friend date, I can't be too done up.

Otherwise it's embarrassing.

But if it's a date date, I can't be too done down.

Otherwise, you know, I look like an idiot.

- Okay. Let's cut to a comedic montage

trying on all your costumes

so we can get our money's worth.

- Great idea.

- Editor. That's her cue.

- Come on, Tim.

Come on. Next cuts.

Tim come on

go Tim

(upbeat music)

- okay. Just remember, just be yourself.

- Okay.

- Okay.

- Okay.

- Okay.

- Okay.

- Yeah... just be myself,

women don't make me nervous at all

and trigger my deepest fears of rejection.

It's fine.

That they're so pretty.

That I feel deeply uncomfortable in their presence.

If there's the subtlest romantic context,

while also feeling like a creep,

for hoping that there's a subtle romantic context

it's gonna be okay.

- I take it back.

Don't be yourself.

- Okay.

- Have fun.

- Hello, darling.

It is I @Anna Akana

- It's so nice to finally meet you.

I'm such a big fan of your work.

- And I of you as well. It's all fun

may we have a merry companionship hang,

whether its platonic or not.

- Yeah. Do you want a drink?

- now?

Yeah, actually I would love an alcoholic beverage.

- Okay, cool.

- Oh my god. She offered me a drink.

- Oh my god. It Sounds like a date.

Wait, what are you wearing?

- I, I freaked out the last second.

And I changed.

Don't worry.

I fully regret it.

Okay. She's coming back now. Bye.

- Hey, there you go.

Hey, so I'm really glad you came over.

- Me too.

- Yeah like. I've been wanting to meet you

for a really, really long time.

You know,

I try to be as vague as possible about my sexuality because

I'm in such a male dominated field.

I like people to wonder is she gay?

Is she bi?

- Wow. Yeah.

I've definitely wondered that myself

recently in the past when I've seen you.

- Yeah.

So that's why I don't really post about my boyfriend online.

- Oh, I'm, I'm a creepy boy.

I'm Anna Akana

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