I know Wanting to go to a party alone is like someone who willingly walks the plague.

I hope you are prepared to meet your watery grave, watery grave.

Well, do you think like, I'm gonna meet my husband down there?

What?

No one is the ocean down there.

You're just gonna die?

Like maybe there's a merman and he's, like, really cute.

And he gives me mouth to mouth and drags me to a rock and a really nice, long conversation.

That's definitely not gonna happen.

The only thing you're gonna meet down there is death.

I mean, certain painful, suffering filled.

Dad, do you think my health?

That looks cute.

Oh, my gosh.

I'm so nervous.

Okay, I'm just gonna do it.

I'm just gonna do it by insane.

I know.

Usually I am the kind of person hovering at the snack table.

You know, Asian parties always have food, riel, food, like none of this white people.

Menagerie of mediocrity, Great party.

Such a such a array of things I never thought of or I'm chilling with house pet.

Well, it's been seven minutes, so I guess it's pumpkin time.

It's pumpkin time.

Good bye.

It was nice to meet you because the anxiety of standing at a party alone, looking at the groups of people all talking and enjoying themselves when you don't know a single soul at the social encounter.

So you're just forced to stare at your phone where you have no messages, but you can pretend that you're too immersed in Twitter.

I have time to talk to anyone know unsubscribe.

I would rather be at home in bed, but not anymore.

This is the crucial moment.

This right here is the prime time sports ball reference where you have to make it or break it, do the thing to be the champion of the other thing.

If you are similarly introverted like myself, this will be one of the hardest things you ever have to dio.

Hi, I'm Anna.

I don't really know anyone here, so I thought I'd introduce myself.

How do you guys all know each other?

I know it's gross, right?

The idea of having to put yourself on the line like that is terrifying, but I now follow one simple and easy rule to have a fulfilling solo party night.

That rule is drum roll Children.

He genuinely interested in getting to know someone, anyone, just one person.

So last Friday, I went to three parties alone.

Oh, my God.

I know.

And I vowed that each one I would learn just one thing about one person, and they actually interested in hearing what they had to say.

You know what?

Just by asking people questions about themselves.

People love talking about themselves.

But if you do it with genuine curiosity, you will have such great conversations.

Dude, you don't know about Ida Lewis.

Let me tell you all about her.

She was an American lighthouse keeper who gained fame in the late 18 hundreds.

For all of these heroic rescues, Dude, she sounds so cool.

I don't know.

My girlfriend and I were long distance for like, yeah, and now that we're finally in the same town, I feel like she's self sabotaging the relationship.

Oh, yeah, that's pretty rough.

Why do you think that ISS?

Yeah, that's why people's allergies air worse every year because we're on Lee planting male trees.

There's no female trees to soak up the pollen.

Wow!

Are you a tree scientist?

Is there even such a thing?

I challenge you to try it.

Go to a party alone.

Introduce yourself.

Ask questions.

Be curious.

Let me know how it goes.

Eso like what are we a little Jakey?

I don't really care, but ideo like what are we?

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