Name: The Courage to be Disliked | Life in Japan | Girl Abroad Ep.19S2
Uploaded: 2020-10-08T19:26:34.000Z
Duration: 9 min 50 s
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Episode 19 Season Two Good morning, everyone.

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I'm going to be doing a one on one call with somebody who is thinking of moving to Japan s So I'm checking everything right now.

Actually, don't have much time to talk to the camera after 30 minutes, I have one more call and then I'm going to go meet Beauty at Ueno Station because he's coming back.

He's been gone for, like, three days, and it's been really quiet in here.

So we're going to t g I Fridays, and we're gonna get my favorite meal because we're going to celebrate the launch of my course.

I have a group the size of a small classroom, which is awesome.

All right, so I'm done with my coaching calls.

I had to this morning and they were so inspiring you guys, I said this in my instagram stories, but you guys are Spitfires, like the people that I talked Thio have so much drive and passion and just realizing that there's just so much more that they want to do in their lives, and it's just so exciting to see people get out of that loop of life and just get out there and do the thing.

When you're working towards something, you're always going to feel that fear.

But the more steps you take in it, the more that fear and that uncertainty disappeared.

I don't know about you, but I'm like a crazy and path like I I can feel the energy through the screen.

That's how sensitive I am and so I can see these people's wants and desires and their passions and they want to go for it.

And I just It's just so much energy being exchanged through a screen and it's just it's a very exciting thing for me and this is the more I do it, the more I realized this is what I meant to dio.

This makes my heart feel so good, really long conversation here.

So we're gonna go to Ueno and pick up new G and just have a day in Japan.

When things got to be too much, I was disliked.

I met my husband online and got engaged in two weeks.

I'd like to think the one thing that got me to a place of fulfillment is because I had the courage to be disliked.

I learned from my past instead of letting it dictate my future.

And I embraced more uncertainty by taking the leap.

And if I didn't need others expectations of me, I just didn't care.

The thing is, nobody can stop you from doing what you want to dio.

We're gonna Ueno Park right now and Ueno Park way I've been to so many times because you probably have seen me everywhere.

But this building is really French looking.

E think we're going to go here for a coffee?

Once I started to do what I felt aligned with me, whether it was changing jobs or moving across the world Opportunities and doors started to open And I think living abroad strengthened that attribute of mine.

So ask yourself, Do you really feel this way?

Or are you afraid that people aren't gonna like you anymore?

Thes air all like the rooftop stuff like it looks like they're doing some construction.

But like, look at all the old roof, um, equipment and stuff.

I think a lot of the times people are afraid of disappointing others not pleasing others, not making the whole damn world happy when that's so unrealistic.

People don't want to move to Japan and keep saying they can't over and over again, but they can.

They're just afraid to take the leap and just don't do it.

It's the same for anything we desire in our lives.

Whether we want to start a YouTube channel or enter a singing competition or sell your art or make new friends, we just don't do it because we're so afraid of judgment.

So if you're in a way node on the weekends or during a holiday, they always have food, stations or food.

I couldn't even English when I was coaching.

They always have these little food compartments or places to go, and you could get tons of stuff.

But it looks like the kind of downsized a little bit because of the coronavirus.

Yeah, that one looks like it has no I though.

The pink one pink one has a lot of Iraq slash Maybe it's a girl.

The dads like steering and my little girl's peddling.

Are you going to do that with your daughter someday?

So she's so tiny Kid, you just gonna look up coffee shops right now?

People almost hit each other and kids screaming, and that was always gonna always it's gonna hit.

I'm surprised nobody has gotten any kind of accident in this amount of crowd next time we'll have to do this, right?

Bottom line, we have to have the courage to be disliked, judged, disappoint others.

Because imagine all the things you'll accomplish if you just don't give a crap e love what you do.